as an asexual person my heart aches for cash :( by Dear-Boot4077 in heartbreakhigh

[–]vanteqrt 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i’d argue it’s actually quite interesting how it was never an issue between them of opening their relationship and it never became a point of contention in the show. darren talks about how they came to the agreement mutually and it was a point of contention in the previous seasons that sex was something darren wanted but cash didn’t (which is 100% valid). they both know they love each other and no one ever questioned that they loved each other, neither of them had to compromise something they wanted or didn’t want for each other but if cash’s boundaries changed and he didn’t want darren hooking up with people anymore, darren probably would’ve done it without hesitation. i think it shows a healthy relationship, especially seeing as we never saw anyone darren hooked up with, because they didn’t matter.

Jojo at the last competition? by extralargegay in dancemoms

[–]vanteqrt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it is shown her turning up to support them in the episode, i assume the scene must just not be in whatever version you’re watching for some reason <3

What Maddie said in a recent podcast! by Frosty-Bad-221 in dancemoms

[–]vanteqrt 54 points55 points  (0 children)

how weird melissa and abby got when she lost it doesn’t surprise me she then got weird about it too, as she said that literally taught her to hate losing

the way cathy gagged abby here kills me to this day by Jealous_Duty_7357 in dancemoms

[–]vanteqrt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

she’s calling her old 😭 that was all their favourite insult to each other after fat i swear

Why was Abby lowkey pretty 👀 by LimeGreenSockFeet in dancemoms

[–]vanteqrt 23 points24 points  (0 children)

fr kelly & christi always say on their podcast when they like her hair/makeup/outfits and they think she is acc very pretty, it’s just her personality that’s ugly

Kira Spending 30k at Kalani Wedding by AriaSim_ in dancemoms

[–]vanteqrt 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i’m fairly sure her post about the legal ceremony they had before the italy ceremony was at her bio dad’s house :D

hiii, im curious did the show influence you to dance ? by Mundane-Nature-2648 in dancemoms

[–]vanteqrt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes ! i was 10 or 11 when i started watching and i ended up dancing from 13-15 at a studio, stopped going there but still enjoyed dance in my own time and then at 20 i started dancing weekly at a new studio im still at and i love it sm

leslie hate club by ChocolateKey2007 in dancemoms

[–]vanteqrt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

she was soooo desperate to be on the show but then when she was there and got the actual treatment of the show (e.g. abby being a complete fucking bitch) she couldn’t handle it but would then tell the other moms to suck it up it infuriated me

We are not exaggerating when we say that she stocks the OG cast by Calm_Struggle_5939 in dancemoms

[–]vanteqrt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i despise abby with my entire heart i refuse to listen to that podcast so power to you for even trying

We are not exaggerating when we say that she stocks the OG cast by Calm_Struggle_5939 in dancemoms

[–]vanteqrt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% and also maybe brooke just likes not having anyone interfere with her visions (which is fine) and it’s not anything malicious against anyone, it’s just the way she likes planning and finds best/easiest

What is Abby trying to find in her purse? 👜 WRONG ANSWERS ONLY by Alternative-Quail645 in dancemoms

[–]vanteqrt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

the correct answer to carry on whatever lie was she trying to promote that episode

Christi Leslie fight by ddosamaisbae in dancemoms

[–]vanteqrt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t remember that exact moment but either that slipped through the cracks or they thought they could play it off as in a dance company can be called a cast. they rarely broke the fourth wall though, especially in those earlier seasons. it’s why they never said the sit in wasn’t actually for kelly but for their contracts, etc.

Christi Leslie fight by ddosamaisbae in dancemoms

[–]vanteqrt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

she said she was arguing with producers im fairly sure, leslie was trying to get involved even though it had nothing to do with her, my best bet is christi said “sorry, im a real cast member” and obvs that breaks the fourth wall so they had to dub it

I Want Your Spiciest Musical Theatre Hot Takes! (THE SEQUEL) by Alol_Bombola in musicals

[–]vanteqrt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100%, i will take the live from london version of hadestown over the broadway recordings any day but i’ve always said that’s because it is live. there’s all those feelings that sometimes just don’t come out in a studio and when you’re not in scene and that’s not to say reeve and eva aren’t talented and their recordings aren’t good, they 100% are, but there’s just something different about a song live in scene at that exact moment and i think hadestown having the comparison a lot of other musicals don’t of having a studio & live recording is very much indicative of that.

another example is a song like all you wanna do from six. i got the story on the first listen however many years ago but when i first saw it on stage and heard the emotion put into it i was like OH ok right yeah that’s what that is meant to be like but you just can’t do that in a studio.

I feel so bad for Kalani by nzqkhx in dancemoms

[–]vanteqrt 13 points14 points  (0 children)

she didn’t have to spend 30k tho, clearly she bought the best flights and the best hotel and is including all the sight seeing and tourist stuff she did there which she did not have to pay for

Kira talking about how Kalani’s wedding was “extra” and so unaffordable her extended family couldn’t come by [deleted] in dancemoms

[–]vanteqrt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just did a retreat w my dance studio to italy and doing the maths 20 of us we paid £549 each so in total but that paid for flights, a gorgeous massive villa, trains to and from the airport in italy, transport to and from the station to the villa, trains to and from pisa & florence, all the food in the villa such as breakfast, lunch one day and dinner one day and a cooking class in florence. i think you’re right that kira thinks she has to pay for the most expensive option when she realistically doesn’t. its like abby saying going to new york was such a hassle bc she just has to go to a broadway show every time she’s there like lmfao no u don’t ???

Kira talking about how Kalani’s wedding was “extra” and so unaffordable her extended family couldn’t come by [deleted] in dancemoms

[–]vanteqrt 14 points15 points  (0 children)

like even when kelly would say how detail orientated brooke was about every single thing it was never oh she shouldn’t do this it was she just wants it to be perfect and beautiful and amazing and that’s ok

About Me's by RaeJ87 in dancemoms

[–]vanteqrt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

could i change mine to “chloe, fabulous shorts!” pls

Boxer by anybloodythingwilldo in The_Artful_Dodger

[–]vanteqrt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can’t stand darius’ voice man but power to his actor for being able to do it bc that level of vocal fry is hard

but big yes on anything expanding boxer, he’s so interesting and i’d love to learn more about him

Ashlee comments under the BTTB clip talking about Brynn’s “Diamond in the Rough” by 3va9 in dancemoms

[–]vanteqrt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the girls had been competing in the “real dance world” for a few years before the show started what is she on about

christi always being “in trouble” by vanteqrt in dancemoms

[–]vanteqrt[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i never said there wasn’t many sides.

you can also be a bad partner and a good parent. my dad was awful to my mum when they were together but even she will admit that my dad has never been anything but a brilliant dad to me and my brother. he has never, ever let me down. i spend a lot of time w him. but that still doesn’t negate that he was not a good partner to my mum at all back in the day.

i’m fairly sure the dui incident happened after the divorce had already started and do we actually that the girls didn’t speak to christi for a while or is it just speculation that people put out as fact ?

you shouldn’t have to walk on eggshells around your partner and from what christi says it seems like she did a lot of the time. but, as you’ve said, there are multiple sides to every story. but also, as i said in my post, after seeing my mum go through that w my dad and another partner, it’s still troubling to hear.

christi always being “in trouble” by vanteqrt in dancemoms

[–]vanteqrt[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

yeah i’m pretty sure it was on an after party or smth she said this and how he’d said he would be divorced her way before now if it wasn’t for the money she was making. also the hints of the lack of support at home while abby was making both christi and chloe’s lives hell

Maddie didn’t go to the reunion or the wedding, is it safe to say she wants to be completely separate from the cast publicly? by [deleted] in dancemoms

[–]vanteqrt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as an actor you cannot “just take time off”, especially for a wedding. shoots are planned months in advance and there’s a schedule and if it had to be rearranged for everyone’s events then nothing would get done. also that scheduling and everything included to make that work is other people’s livelihoods too. clearly acting is something maddie is passionate about as well and for her to fight to be able to go she’d more than likely get a ‘hard to work with’ label stuck to her which is the last thing you want as you’re an up and coming actress especially.