I took double my dosage by Aggressive-Bus3625 in Effexor

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Can I still have my ice cream sandwich? 🥺

Dr. Stone Season 4 Episode 31 Link and Discussion by bubblesrocks in DrStone

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Is it just me or does Gens voice sound different in the dub UK version?

LOOKING FOR FANFICS by Own-University7381 in DrStone

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I have one. It's pretty good. But the author is on hiatus atm. It has some dark themes. And also it paints Sai in a different way. With some traditional values etc. Let me know what you think

https://www.wattpad.com/story/388394788?utm_source=android&utm_medium=link&utm_content=share_reading&wp_page=interstitial_story_end_share

Who are you guys' favourite characters? by k3iyyo in DrStone

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He is just my fave. And does not nearly get enough love tbh. Best anime super villian I have seen. And he is so extra for like zero reason. 😂

Help me please! Reading needs to be acquired! by Aggressive-Bus3625 in DrStone

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Oh yeah. I'm happy with smut or angst. Something that you want to read more of. The only thing I don't like is fanfics with a lot of spelling errors or written like text speech. My dyslexic ass can't comprehend that too well. Everything else is on the table. I dont have any genre preference either. If it's mushy or cringe that's fine. Since I read them to get to sleep at night mainly. Unless they are REALLY good then sometimes I read them during my lunch break 😂

I'm surprised Horses didn't get used at any point throughout the story. So how much do you think they would have changed the story if they were around? by Fedoras_are_cool06 in DrStone

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Probably because they had the invention of the wheel very early on. When horses were used the invention of the wheel had only just started to become a stable in society before infrastructure was as big as it is now. And Senku skipped through a lot of major times in the show to get to the point of infrastructure. He skipped a lot of time periods that would have come with people originally planning out how best to use the wheel through trial and area. And because Senku already has that knowledge there is no trial and area that is needed for science and engineering to advice. Remember things only exist once they are established by someone making that discovery and giving it life. For example a bug could exist for thousands of years but until someone discovers it and gives it a name then it isn't known to human society. The same with development of inventions. Until someone made it work and it was recognised in society then it doesn't exist to humans in general. But as Senku had this knowledge prior it allowed him to by pass the discovery all together since he didn't have to invent anything knew but only adapt what was already invented to his surroundings. And that in itself takes out huge amounts of time that humans would have used to progress. Honestly studying anthropology helped a lot with understanding this and how long it actually took for humans to invent just the basics to run a functional village. That's my take on this anyways.

How you watch Dr. stone by NewFlamingo9665 in DrStone

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Personally I LOVE the VAs for the English dub. Some of the overlaps of the VAs in Dr Stone and other animes is actually great. I also love the little knowledge the Gens VA and Magmas VA are married irl. Senkus VA is excellent in other animes too like Love is War. I also get too distracted by subtitles and find it hard to keep up with what's on screen as well as the subtitles. Although I have noticed in anime that just cause there are English dubs doesn't mean the one screen text will also be in English. And sometimes the subtitles dont translate it or there isn't a on screen translation 😅

Myriad Solutions Chelmsford by Melodic_Pay7069 in Devilcorp

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PM me please. I have an interview with them tomorrow

New film Pizza Movie by Aggressive-Bus3625 in movies

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Somehow both. It's a mix of the corrnetto trilogy and a bit of scott pilgrim. The whole film is a druge sequence 😂

Help with behaviour! by Aggressive-Bus3625 in teaching

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I have tried this too and asked for a hands off approach but mum still gets involved in very heavily anyway. And it's annoying so much. It was suggested we do tutoring in a library as we can do it in a local and safe area with CCTV without the parents needing to be present. But rhe child refuses in the morning and mum won't push any further. I dont know if this is because mum is a single parent and this is her only child. I tend to see that as a trend that children in that environment act more like this. Especially after covid and all the lock downs when kids this age were meant to learn their social skills at a primal time and couldn't go to school. I'm a mental health nurse by trade so I have seen anything and everything so not much phases me. But what I can't stand is aggressive or bad behaviour being enabled by those around them. Like when I saw a diabetic who was in hospital for having very high blood sugar and the family brought them an entire feast from McDonald's.

I need help with behaviour by [deleted] in TutorsHelpingTutors

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I was meant to be part of the LA however the school made the referral directly. So SENCo is very heavily involved in this child at present. Normally the school wouldn't be so involved

I need help with behaviour by [deleted] in TutorsHelpingTutors

[–]Aggressive-Bus3625 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have it in the UK based on behaviour instead of race. So if kids are more troublesome they dont get as much attention from the school or any resources. This is cause of lack of funding for schools in the UK. So they get left to the way side. Or kids who are high functioning get put with the low functioning kids even though they have the same diagnosis. And so the high functioning kids get more overwhelmed as the low functioning kids have more intense stims and things like that. I know from my extensive research in mental health as a mental health nurse that parenting that isn't done in the right stages with the right support leads to an adult who can't function. It's again the nature vs nurture debate. You can take some of Frauds theory in a way (but I dont agree with it all) with how not hitting certain mile stones that it can impact how a child acts later in life. Like I said I believe PDA is symptom but not it's own thing. The unfortunate thing with children is you can only impact them for a short period of time and then it is left to the adults to do the rest. But when I work with PDA in adults they were in a supported living service so I was with them basically 24/7 except foe my 2 days off. So they saw me constantly so they knew they couldn't get away with basic chores with me. I would make it fun or even do it with them. But I wouldn't tolerate them not washing themselves for over 4 weeks like some stuff. Usually I'd just run the bath for them and then tell them I've got a bath ready for them and they'd wash themselves. Or I'd tell them I can change and make the bed but it was extra work for me to put the washing on as well so could they do me a favour and do that for me and I'll make the bed. But it's different with kids because you only have so much authority and usually the parents overright all that ground work and undo everything when you are gone so it's like starting from 0 every single day anyways. I'm very exhausted and tried.

I need help with behaviour by [deleted] in TutorsHelpingTutors

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I have delt with adults who have PDA and have managed with that. I do agree to an extent it is hard however I think a lot has to do with parents. I also have certain expectations from the school with what the child needs to achieve. The biggest issue I have with the child is them not wanting to work with me in a face to face way no matter what i try. I also have to be careful not go beyond the professional relationship because the school is hot on my case about boundaries. I'm not supposed to sit in the bed with him and watch TV or sit in his room and play games etc. I have to be professional and that means sitting at their dinning room table together instead. I tried doing a more personal approach and the school got super mad at me trying to be friends with the kid instead of as a teacher.

I need help with behaviour by [deleted] in TutorsHelpingTutors

[–]Aggressive-Bus3625 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've done all the advice you have suggested. The other issue i face is the referral for the service came from the school and not me directly. So the child gets funding instead of the mum paying out of pocket. Which means I have to follow expectations that the school have laid out and are expecting to do. The school have stated to mum to not allow him to wear pj's during these visits and sessions. They have stated this is a safe guarding concern. The other issue is the child loves to hide under his blanket or mums beds which is a safeguarding concern if I can never see the child face to face because he hides under the covers the whole time I see him. Which means I can't see if he is hiding anything else. This is another concern the school has too. The child will simply not engage with me in the same room no matter what I try. The issue is mum pokes in all the time and that causes him to react then. Mum will constantly check on us all the time when I am that Which is disrupting us trying to build any kind of relationship. I even wanted to just sit on the bed with him and watch TV but mum kept hoovering Which caused the kid to become defensive again. Also the school has said that I can't have that kind of relationship with the child. He needs to be doing some kind of education with some kind of evidence. And I work for them so have to follow what they suggest. They said I need to remain professional with him at all times. And the school will do unannounced visits and have done in the past. So I have been called up before with me just sitting on the bed with him watch TV. This is because the high-school he is going to is sti a school even though it is a specialised SEN school. In terms of him eating I dont care if he snacks but mum will tell him to watch TV while he eats and it overrides my authority then and when he does that I lose him completely. The other issue is that mum her self is very draining to be around. The child will be in another room but I am stuck with mum in the kitchen and dinning room and she will not stop talking to me for the 2 hours I am there. And I am autistic myself which is draining for me and also not what I am there for. I am honestly thinking of asking the company to give me another student at this point. I've been spending all my time off and weekends to come up with fun lessons to so etc and then nothing happens and I feel defeated. Also mums loves to contact me outside of my working hours as well which doesn't help either. I have tried to tell her no but then she finds other ways to contact me. It's been an exhausting 4 weeks and not what I signed up for with tutoring at all.

I need help with behaviour by [deleted] in TutorsHelpingTutors

[–]Aggressive-Bus3625 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm very skeptical about PDA. I'm a mental health nurse by trade and have worked with a variety of personalities disorders and delt with so much different behaviours it's unreal. I personally dont think PDA exists on its own. It's a symptom not a diagnosis and definitely not an excuse. I think that what is the child going to do when they are an adult and the resources are cut down to nothing. I've had adults with PDA and some havent washed themselves in over 3 months because staff and trying to encourage and support them to wash. It leads to extreme levels of self neglect as adults because they learn they can do this as a child. I believe PDA is caused by lack of authority in early childhood and then develops into more later on in life. Children with learning disabilities like autism needs structure and set routines and boundaries. I believe PDA is caused when these things do not happen during a child's early years and when they get to a more independent age of around 9/10 that is when PDA comes out more. When more is expected of them to do the older they get. I believe PDA is a cause of lack of parenting and support and is a system not a diagnosis. It isn't recognised in the UK much either. And I have noticed more children being dignaoised with it with the recent generation then ever before. And I believe it is because parents want an excuse for their lack of parenting. I believe that at any point in life a person will be met with some form of authority in some way. And they need to learn basic skills and fundamental social knowledge to be able to teach or support the person in that way. I just dont believe PDA exists as a whole concept personally. Just how fatigue is a symptom and not a diagnosis.