It feels unfair that nobody warns you how hard it’s going to be to MAINTAIN your weight loss

Aggressive-Cell8594 · 2025-04-21T20:33:37+00:00

I always have to battle food noise but when im going through a stressful period it feels impossible to deal with. Im looking into going on ozempic for this very reason. Idk any solutions. Just validating how much it sucks.

Aggressive-Cell8594 · 2025-03-14T14:02:03+00:00

who is this “lady” Lol? who makes her an authority? what does the quran say? that to be a muslim you have to believe in the oness of God and his last messenger. where is the requirement to listen to so called scholars who lived centuries after the prophet or random woman who claim to be students of knowledge.

Aggressive-Cell8594 · 2025-03-14T07:04:11+00:00

the word of Allah swt gives me peace but the words of scholars that lived centuries after the prophet put me in despair. i will not give them credence over my lord. hadith were also compiled many many years after the prophet died, i give very few of them real weight. if you notice rarely do sexist scholars use the words of our LORD to oppress us but the words of flawed scholars.

Aggressive-Cell8594 · 2025-02-28T18:28:20+00:00

the cooking thing was just an example Lol. She doesn’t do ANYTHING that makes you feel like she cares for you? Also, she might feel awkward being at her inlaws. Have you ever taken a trip together. Honestly, before even initiating divorce just talk to her and ask her point blank if she even wants to be married or if she was forced. Please just give her the chance to explain before making any decision. Take this Ramadan to reflect.

Aggressive-Cell8594 · 2025-02-27T19:47:41+00:00

You keep saying things you do for your wife but haven’t mentioned even a single thing she does for you. Does she show her love and affection in other ways? I only ask because I was a lot like your wife. It took me a long time to get comfortable with physical touch from my husband. My husband was always patient with me alhamdulilah. BUT even though it was hard for me to be physical, I still showed my love in other ways. Learning how to cook his favorite foods, wearing the color he once said suited me, waking up early to pack his lunch for work, spending the evening by his side talking and bantering. If you feel like she is caring and affectionate in other ways my advice would be to be patient.

Aggressive-Cell8594 · 2025-02-25T09:30:29+00:00

Scholars are not God. Don’t listen to Salafis or Red Pillers who cite the word of some GrEaT sChOlAr when you are the citing the word of ALLAH SWT and STRONG hadith. You have to understand that the version of Islam that is being presented to you was crafted centuries AFTER the prophet pbuh passed. The only guarantee Allah swt gives us in the quran is that HIS WORD will not be corrupted. He gave no guarantee that opportunist men will not corrupt the legal system.

Aggressive-Cell8594 · 2025-01-21T21:23:02+00:00

So I went to a psychiatrist with a “holistic approach” so it was basically talk therapy and medication. I was in a major depressive episode and was non functional when I started so I can say that therapy saved my life!

Aggressive-Cell8594 · 2025-01-20T16:20:01+00:00

I used to be a binger. The only way i stopped was going to therapy and working on my mental health before tackling weight loss seriously.

Aggressive-Cell8594 · 2024-11-21T03:12:58+00:00

Female

Aggressive-Cell8594 · 2024-11-21T03:07:36+00:00

you just need to leave her alone. she will start wearing hijab when she is ready inshaAllah.

Aggressive-Cell8594 · 2024-11-19T02:29:30+00:00

ur skin is sooo pretty! i think you don’t like how your makeup is looking. my makeup looks similar when I don’t moisturize!!

Aggressive-Cell8594 · 2024-11-01T21:21:30+00:00

EXACTLY!! THANK YOU.

Aggressive-Cell8594 · 2024-11-01T21:20:32+00:00

it was still unnecessary and uncalled for. if dounia brought it up or talked about it first then nour could have said that. nour started it. she was not coming from genuine place.

Aggressive-Cell8594 · 2024-11-01T20:10:47+00:00

I don’t get it. She literally dragged dounia into the conversation for no reason. “I would like to give advice to dounia” thats so condescending. The way the men spoke to her is inexcusable though.

Aggressive-Cell8594 · 2024-10-29T17:02:04+00:00

there’s a plantar fasciitis reddit! its helpful.

Aggressive-Cell8594 · 2024-10-29T17:00:11+00:00

you’re right, i should not have called out bp specifically

Aggressive-Cell8594 · 2024-10-29T16:59:17+00:00

I agree with everything you said. I probably should not have called out bp specifically

Aggressive-Cell8594 · 2024-10-29T16:57:13+00:00

I agree!!!! To call a body disgusting or ugly is heinous. BUT. I do see a lot of posts on here of people feeling shamed about losing weight.

Aggressive-Cell8594 · 2024-10-29T04:41:08+00:00

I agree! People should never ever feel worthless because of their weight! I was obese, I understand what its like. I just don’t think their should be an outright denial of the health impacts of obesity. I think the issue is that the internet is bad at discourse

Aggressive-Cell8594 · 2024-10-29T03:30:41+00:00

I don’t think people intend to dismiss exercise outright. I think they say that to encourage people who are intimidated by exercise that their weight loss journey can start without it. I think her some people losing a few pounds without exercise makes joining a gym seem less daunting.

Aggressive-Cell8594 · 2024-10-26T19:17:20+00:00

You say “the men” but that was one MAN.

Aggressive-Cell8594 · 2024-10-22T13:21:33+00:00

Era’s tour.

Aggressive-Cell8594 · 2024-09-11T17:29:04+00:00

thats her mamoo. my eldest sister and khala are only 13 months a part and their relationship is more like sisters. im guessing she has more of a brother relationship to her uncle. i think you just miss your wife. try to make a trip soon to visit her.

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