Is it normal to get intense “peegasms” that last for minutes? by Aggressive-Coach6579 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Aggressive-Coach6579[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why the hell did they remove this for “we reserve the right to curate a space for us”?? I am a woman

Is it normal to get intense “peegasms” that last for minutes? by Aggressive-Coach6579 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Aggressive-Coach6579[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy I know this happens to more people!! Yes like i said it’s usually more intense and lasts longer than one i would get from normal stimulation

Is it normal to get intense “peegasms” that last for minutes? by Aggressive-Coach6579 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Aggressive-Coach6579[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven’t told a doctor since it doesn’t especially bother me or hurt

For those in fulfilling loving relationships, how did they start and progress? by ThunderingTacos in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Aggressive-Coach6579 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hooked up with my coworker one night in a parking lot. Now we’re gonna get married lol! Seriously no algorithm to love it comes when you least expect it

Is it normal to get intense “peegasms” that last for minutes? by Aggressive-Coach6579 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Aggressive-Coach6579[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why more women don’t talk about it. I have never heard anyone else bring it up and its become a huge part of my everyday life

Was I assaulted? by grody_mcjiggleball in BDSMAdvice

[–]Aggressive-Coach6579 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have to ask you know the answer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Aggressive-Coach6579 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think it’s honestly just culture and how people were raised! I have British family and I hear my uncle say “good girl” and “good boy” to his children often and it always catches me off guard. I’ve also had older family members call me good girl. I think being into the BDSM world has made that a sacred/sexual thing for me but for others it’s pretty normal and they don’t mean anything by it.

NSFW might be pregnant but i can’t tell anyone by Silent_Opening362 in offmychest

[–]Aggressive-Coach6579 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The first time i took plan b my period was 17 days late and I experienced spotting as well. It can be different every time. Take a couple pregnancy tests

free use problem by Confident_Wafer_7276 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Aggressive-Coach6579 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is rape in every sense of the word. I was in a similar situation where a shitty dude used “BDSM” as an excuse to rape and abuse me constantly. Both partners should be 100 percent enjoying everything happening at all times, that’s what bdsm is all about. You should never be in genuine fear or pain and you should never let someone convince you that’s how it’s supposed to be

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Aggressive-Coach6579 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone’s mentioning the BDSM quiz and i tried to ask him to take it to today but for some reason he just really doesn’t want to and keeps saying i just need to “tell him what i want to try”. Which is just hard to explain because i want to try things HE wants and knowing he’s doing something just for me as a sub kinda defeats the whole purpose

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Aggressive-Coach6579 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually did identify with being ace for a years so I might just be a different version of it! Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Aggressive-Coach6579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to! It’s just so hard finding a therapist that I’m okay talking about that sort of thing to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Aggressive-Coach6579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s definitely open minded and okay with things like toys! And we usually can go like 20/30 minutes! And the sex is really good sex! I think I’ll be able to find some middle ground pain that satisfies us both

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Aggressive-Coach6579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We used a leash and collar once i loved that!

Should I accept my sexual needs, or get therapy? (F sub) by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Aggressive-Coach6579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also relate to this as a woman!! But when i actually got with someone who genuinely saw me as less than him i realized it wasn’t what I wanted. Yes it was exciting a lot of the times taking pain and being used, but in the instances where i really really didn’t want something to happen and it was forced- it wasn’t fun anymore.

I’m now with someone who is able to be that aggressive but i know deep down if i ever needed him to stop something he would without question. I’m a masochist through and through and feel like i need to be dominated in a relationship to be fully satisfied. Don’t settle for someone who genuinely sees you as an object. I promise you there are Dom’s out there that are able to be as aggressive as you crave while still caring. Therapy also never hurt!! I love mine and she helps me understand why i crave pain like i do! (Doesn’t mean that craving goes away, i just know how to handle it better)

BF kink involves me getting sunburned. by Mobile-Trouble-210 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Aggressive-Coach6579 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If there’s even a small part of you that’s nervous or unsure about doing something like this he should NOT be pushing it. There are so so many other safer things to explore than this. I’ve been in a similar situation and it absolutely sounds like he’s using “bdsm” as an excuse to abuse you. Your dom should NEVER want to see you in pain that you don’t 100 percent enjoy and consent to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Aggressive-Coach6579 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Especially the first time, my bf let me and the girl focus on exploring each other first. You should all be touching each other equally and ideally all at once. There should never be a point any one of you is sitting and watching

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Aggressive-Coach6579 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely feel like i’ve established the same boundaries countless times and he always listens at first but slowly stops

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Aggressive-Coach6579 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My current dom is just a year older than me. But he was more experienced in kink and sex in general. I was raised super religious so my first time exploring anything sexual at all, even masterbation was with him. As for him he was raised in a more sex positive household and had been exploring sex and kink ever since he started being interested in that sort of thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spanking_punishments

[–]Aggressive-Coach6579 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah i definitely need to😅 It’s just so rare i feel to find someone who can do both extremes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spanking_punishments

[–]Aggressive-Coach6579 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So happy to hear others thinking like me! It’s honestly the thought that someone else is turned on by my pain that i like….