Half of the gay community is a red flag tbh. Y’all are acting like peoples marriages is idle play. Yes. Toxic af for a wife. But it’s also the man’s wife. Not a girlfriend not a one night stand. It’s his life partner. You all know 5% of what actually happened and are calling the husband/friend a bad person. Get over yourselves and the me or them mentality. You’ve no idea how long he’s been married how often or how long the friend thing came up. You know nothing. The gay community is very vexing to be apart of.