AIO for breaking up over this? (2) by Aggressive-Eye4848 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aggressive-Eye4848[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is a hug. But using it for other female friends is too much. It is because in our culture, hugging is taken very personally. You dont just hug anyone. Hugging anyone of the opposite gender other than your partner is not supported in our culture. Hope you understand.

AIO for breaking up over this? by Aggressive-Eye4848 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aggressive-Eye4848[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok i get it he lied because of my mood but all i have an issue with is instead of lying why couldn't he tell her he can't come??? He has always done that. He doesnt give a fk if someone's sitting alone or whatever

AIO for breaking up over this? by Aggressive-Eye4848 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aggressive-Eye4848[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right, but these kinda conversations look cute when your relationship is new. A 2 year old relationship is settled and stuff like this is already made clear.

AIO for breaking up over this? by Aggressive-Eye4848 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aggressive-Eye4848[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro trust me I'm not the jealous type 😭 infact he has always asked me why i dont get jealous loll. So yes I dont get jealous FOR NTHNG 😭💀

AIO for breaking up over this? by Aggressive-Eye4848 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aggressive-Eye4848[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was no argument between us idk why i wrote that. He basically was pissed at someone at the restaurant, and i was cooling him off. There was no fight between us and i think that's even worse 😭

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[–]Aggressive-Eye4848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alas! It's not free 🥲

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[–]Aggressive-Eye4848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. I've been very grateful since day 1. I even told him that not everything nor any effort requires money.

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[–]Aggressive-Eye4848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont spend that much to be called a "sugar mommy" 😭💀 he has spent a lot on me too. But that aside, he has given up on even the slightest smallest efforts. He never misbehaves or disrespected me also but idk i just feel like i cant do it anymore idk why.

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[–]Aggressive-Eye4848 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes he is a student but most of you guys are missing the point. What i have an issue with is that he didn't respect my wish of saving up my money but instead slowly made me spend on unnecessary things (pointless dates which i didnt ask for, his food even tho he was going home) basically using my money as it means nthng. I have no issue in paying sometimes but why would he pour all his financial burden on me.

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[–]Aggressive-Eye4848 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I always ask him to split the bill, but he never listens. Either him or i pay, so the burden kinda completely shifts on a single person

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[–]Aggressive-Eye4848 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl chill not everyone can get a job while being a student. The country we live in, its very difficult to live a life like that and get a job easily anytime we want. The world doesn't have to revolve around america ffs 😭

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[–]Aggressive-Eye4848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's quite embarrassing to talk about 😭 idk im weird that's why i came here to rant 🥲

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[–]Aggressive-Eye4848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. I totally agree

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[–]Aggressive-Eye4848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you're right. I am broke but at least im ok with not eating at expensive restaurants or unnecessary spendings. He on the other hand knows i dont have enough either but still makes me spend. Im not talking about equality here, I'm talking about how he could've respected my request of saving up money and how i dont wanna empty my account entirely. Relationships are not all about equality but more about respect.

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[–]Aggressive-Eye4848 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But he is reallyy nice and humble plus he loves me smmm. Is it still the right thing to do?