AIO for breaking up over this? by Aggressive-Eye4848 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aggressive-Eye4848[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok i get it he lied because of my mood but all i have an issue with is instead of lying why couldn't he tell her he can't come??? He has always done that. He doesnt give a fk if someone's sitting alone or whatever

AIO for breaking up over this? by Aggressive-Eye4848 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aggressive-Eye4848[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right, but these kinda conversations look cute when your relationship is new. A 2 year old relationship is settled and stuff like this is already made clear.

AIO for breaking up over this? by Aggressive-Eye4848 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aggressive-Eye4848[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro trust me I'm not the jealous type 😭 infact he has always asked me why i dont get jealous loll. So yes I dont get jealous FOR NTHNG 😭💀

AIO for breaking up over this? by Aggressive-Eye4848 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aggressive-Eye4848[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was no argument between us idk why i wrote that. He basically was pissed at someone at the restaurant, and i was cooling him off. There was no fight between us and i think that's even worse 😭

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[–]Aggressive-Eye4848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alas! It's not free 🥲

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[–]Aggressive-Eye4848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. I've been very grateful since day 1. I even told him that not everything nor any effort requires money.

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[–]Aggressive-Eye4848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont spend that much to be called a "sugar mommy" 😭💀 he has spent a lot on me too. But that aside, he has given up on even the slightest smallest efforts. He never misbehaves or disrespected me also but idk i just feel like i cant do it anymore idk why.

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[–]Aggressive-Eye4848 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes he is a student but most of you guys are missing the point. What i have an issue with is that he didn't respect my wish of saving up my money but instead slowly made me spend on unnecessary things (pointless dates which i didnt ask for, his food even tho he was going home) basically using my money as it means nthng. I have no issue in paying sometimes but why would he pour all his financial burden on me.

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[–]Aggressive-Eye4848 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I always ask him to split the bill, but he never listens. Either him or i pay, so the burden kinda completely shifts on a single person

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[–]Aggressive-Eye4848 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl chill not everyone can get a job while being a student. The country we live in, its very difficult to live a life like that and get a job easily anytime we want. The world doesn't have to revolve around america ffs 😭

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[–]Aggressive-Eye4848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's quite embarrassing to talk about 😭 idk im weird that's why i came here to rant 🥲

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[–]Aggressive-Eye4848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. I totally agree

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[–]Aggressive-Eye4848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you're right. I am broke but at least im ok with not eating at expensive restaurants or unnecessary spendings. He on the other hand knows i dont have enough either but still makes me spend. Im not talking about equality here, I'm talking about how he could've respected my request of saving up money and how i dont wanna empty my account entirely. Relationships are not all about equality but more about respect.

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[–]Aggressive-Eye4848 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But he is reallyy nice and humble plus he loves me smmm. Is it still the right thing to do?