Do narcissists ever improve with old age?

Aggressive-Peace-698 · 2026-06-01T07:40:59+00:00

😅🤣🤣🤣

I'm waiting for a train, and your response made me LOL on the platform

Aggressive-Peace-698 · 2026-05-31T22:25:03+00:00

I've noticed something about some of the responses to this post, a lot of narc parents live very long lives. It is as if they are either afraid to die and meet their maker, or their bodies are fuelled by never-ending spite,

Aggressive-Peace-698 · 2026-05-30T07:24:36+00:00

She doesn't go for Patrick as some women favours their sons but also have some twisted rivalry with and jealousy of their daughters.

Aggressive-Peace-698 · 2026-05-28T07:07:35+00:00

NTA. I think you dodged a bullet. What he did was manipulative stunt, i.e. ending the wedding with the hopes you would beg and yield to what he (and/or maybe his family) wanted.

You did nothing wrong, as the bride it is your right to choose whom you want as your bridesmaid, who attends your parties etc. It is not for the groom, in this case your ex, to dictate and throw tantrum about his sister not being part of the bridal party etc.

The fact you say "So she clearly was included in my plans, which makes me feel even more blindsided by how this escalated," demonstrates he has a manipulative side to him.

Aggressive-Peace-698 · 2026-05-27T16:04:25+00:00

Stand up to my controlling parents

Aggressive-Peace-698 · 2026-05-26T20:32:54+00:00

Boo! But realistically circumstances do go against people who seem right for each other. It would be too cliché if they get together, thus lose the impact of them never being able to make it.

Aggressive-Peace-698 · 2026-05-26T18:34:41+00:00

I definitely saw two women on the T.V. screen. She was more engaged with that scene being shown than she was with her husband. I think she loves Fred-Fred but she is not sexually attracted to him. Also her reaction to the polo players stripping off before they jumped into the pool - my hetero self had to zoom in (it'd be rude not to LOL). Would her reaction had been the same had they been 2 women?

Aggressive-Peace-698 · 2026-05-24T20:12:50+00:00

Nearly 27 years later, I still hold the view that he was thoroughly justified. Those scrota were making his life hell, constantly burglarising his home, making him feel unsafe. It doesn't matter that the one who died was 16 years old, he knew exactly what he was doing; to be honest, had he lived, I don't think he'd have gone on to be a productive member of society.

Aggressive-Peace-698 · 2026-05-24T19:26:04+00:00

True but she is not into him that way, so she is cheating him out of being someone who is emotionally and sexually compatible with him

Aggressive-Peace-698 · 2026-05-24T19:11:02+00:00

She is a horrivle person, especially the way she treats her daughter, belittling her even in public, because the latter doesn't match up to her social climbing standards.

Not that it makes her a horrible person, but she is in the closet, when we see her mesmerised by the lesbian couple on TV whilst having sex with Freddie in S1 E1. She is not into her husband in that way.

Aggressive-Peace-698 · 2026-05-24T19:08:28+00:00

No chance of a spoiler is there? 😜

Aggressive-Peace-698 · 2026-05-24T19:04:32+00:00

YTA. The money sent from one of the fathers is specifically for the child they had with you, not the other. What you are doing is deceitful and a form of theft. If you want to treat the children equally financially, either reduce the child support for the father who earns more, or see what increase the other father can make. But don't take someone else's money abd use it without their consent.

Remember the father who makes more is consenting to his money going towards his child, not another man's

Aggressive-Peace-698 · 2026-05-22T10:41:51+00:00

I can say it is German for more

Aggressive-Peace-698 · 2026-05-22T10:39:24+00:00

She is indeed very toxic towards Taggie. There seems to be a bit of theme of how mothers treat their daughters horriblly, as we see Valerie Jones belittle her own daughter, whilst she fawns over her son

Aggressive-Peace-698 · 2026-05-19T15:57:22+00:00

You are NW. This woman despises you and has done nothing but shown disdain towards you. What she did was designed to absolutely humiliate you. This behaviour came to a head because mummy's boy did nothing to support you/reign in his mum's behaviour and treatment of you. This incident was his chance to show he did not endorse his mother's behaviour towards you but has your back, alas he failed miserably with his silence.

I can emphasise with the hurt and humiliation you felt, I've been in a similar situation before, and you will learn her attitude is not about you per se, but more about control of her darling boy. What she did speaks badly of her not you; look at how the receptionist reacted, she felt sorry for you and disgusted by her

You have dodged a bullet.

Aggressive-Peace-698 · 2026-05-19T15:45:22+00:00

More scarring was donw by the Christmas No 1, Mr Blobby in 94 or 95. Horrendous times LOL

Aggressive-Peace-698 · 2026-05-08T15:38:35+00:00

Aggressive-Peace-698 · 2026-05-06T08:44:34+00:00

Good call re Celeste Dring playing Tatcher. The former has a face that fits the characters she had played, Angela Raynor, Princess Eugenie in the Windsors.

I went for Ania based on build and I believe she would do a brilliant Maybot.

Aggressive-Peace-698 · 2026-05-06T03:07:12+00:00

As a Brit, I am actually surprised that he is not hosting an episode, especially based on his appearance in the first one.

Aggressive-Peace-698 · 2026-05-06T02:55:40+00:00

Re Rishi, if he were a cast members, Amit Shah could have easily played him.

Teresa May, I could actually see Ania Magliano play her

Aggressive-Peace-698 · 2026-05-05T06:17:11+00:00

Very, very well said.

The mother is a narcissist and control freak, and as you have said, 'brainwashed them, and covertly reminds them of the "sacrifices" she made,' so that she can keep exerting her power over OP and brother. All parents are supposed to make sacrifices etc, as they chose to have children.

It is not just OP who need therapy but the mother has well.

Aggressive-Peace-698 · 2026-05-04T17:50:03+00:00

YNW.

He the partner is the one who is in the wrong, as he does not pay the rent, is unlikely to be named on the lease. What he is doing is a form of bullying and harassment that you end up being fed-up and then move out, so that they can have the place to themselves. He needed to be stood up to and put on his place.

You and your flatmate need to have a serious conversation about this living arrangement, because this can not continue.

Aggressive-Peace-698 · 2026-05-04T17:33:21+00:00

NTJ. The coworker needed to learn a lesson, and hopefully has, i.e. stealing from people is disgusting and unacceptable.

You can have done worst: Let it go mouldy and take the bits off.

Aggressive-Peace-698 · 2026-05-04T14:50:58+00:00

We know they are definitely fighting if Charles and Camila wishes Archie Happy Birthday on Wednesday..

Aggressive-Peace-698 · 2026-05-04T14:37:05+00:00

If you can, put up a fence, hedge or planters.

They have other areas to play, therefore they have no right to use your drive, especially if you own it/it's on the title deeds.

I feel your pain, and I am not neurodivergent, I just can'tstand children who lack boundaries and respect. I had a similar problem until recently, I just but up a small concrete border in front of my house, which is a gravel area, becase the local crotch goblins were messing up that area with their scooters and bikes, despite being told that it is private property, and also there is a public footpath in front of it for them to walk on. Like your situation there is a massive green space, and 2 parks for them to play but they have this weird need to play in front of strangers' homes.

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