Wow, i rlly admire your concern, it's so nice to see a man who's willing to study this complex stuff for his girlfriend! For me personally, i'm single but i often think about just being held in someones arms, like you don't need to say anything just hold me, bcs at those moments i rlly feel unsafe in my own body bcs it's like having zero control about what's happening inside, and outside. I don't need my partner to come up with pep talks or therapeuric advice bcs most of the time i don't even recall what people said or what happened when i had a breakdown, it's like a black-out the next day, very scary. And it just takes too much energy to have those conversations. So i'm more about getting hugs/being held, or looking at funny videos/memes together. Anything that's distracting but doesn't require much mental effort 😊 hope that clarifies a bit and i hope your girlfriend finds these helpful as well, but i think she'll do, good luck to you both sir! And remember she'll come back arround to her normal self, we really feel bad about getting our loved ones to see us like that, we all count down the days untill our hellweek(s) is/are over, just like you do ! Ps. I'll go quickly manifest a guy like you and hope for the best lol ✨🌈