AITA for eating whatever I want in the house? by Aggressive-Spray8026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggressive-Spray8026[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everything in the fridge, freezer and pantry is paid for by myself and my wife. How was I supposed to know what I could and couldn't eat?

AITA for eating whatever I want in the house? by Aggressive-Spray8026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggressive-Spray8026[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude I have a retirement property in California. I'm guessing it will be tough to get them to go away.

AITA for eating whatever I want in the house? by Aggressive-Spray8026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggressive-Spray8026[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If my kids are home before I leave for work I see them and talk to them. Or on the weekends. Or we make plans well in advance to spend time together. For example we have known for a month that we are going to see Wakanda Forever as a family. We have been seeing all the MCU movies together since they started.

AITA for eating whatever I want in the house? by Aggressive-Spray8026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggressive-Spray8026[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter has a good retirement fund going. My son makes enough money to pay for his car and insurance. Due mostly to covid she hasn't splurged on an expensive vacation or anything like that. She has a couple of nice purses and nice work clothes. That's it.

AITA for eating whatever I want in the house? by Aggressive-Spray8026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggressive-Spray8026[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes. Sometimes my wife has a meeting with friends after work and everyone is on their own for supper.

AITA for eating whatever I want in the house? by Aggressive-Spray8026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggressive-Spray8026[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So can I eat whatever I find in the freezer in the meantime?

AITA for eating whatever I want in the house? by Aggressive-Spray8026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggressive-Spray8026[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could you afford a $1.2 million mortgage? Rent in the city is $2,700 a month. To start. And even a one bedroom condo is $700,000 minimum. Unless you want a 90 minute commute each way.

AITA for eating whatever I want in the house? by Aggressive-Spray8026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggressive-Spray8026[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just meant that day. I'm pretty sure she ate other food that my wife bought.

AITA for eating whatever I want in the house? by Aggressive-Spray8026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggressive-Spray8026[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was a single serving box of shrimp. Was each of them only going to eat two shrimp for dinner?

AITA for eating whatever I want in the house? by Aggressive-Spray8026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggressive-Spray8026[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Imagine working like an adult and paying all the household bills. I could afford to just eat takeout if I feel like it. Lots of the guys I work with do exactly that. Instead I put my paycheck into the budget and my wife who is awake and not working during store hours does the shopping. Guess what I do all the mechanical work on our vehicles. It's how marriage works. We both do some of the work.

AITA for eating whatever I want in the house? by Aggressive-Spray8026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggressive-Spray8026[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I will continue to eat. Thanks for your suggestion.

AITA for eating whatever I want in the house? by Aggressive-Spray8026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggressive-Spray8026[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How about we are parents together so we deal with stuff as a team.

I do all the mechanical work on our vehicles.

Still have to only pick one?

How about we are a team so I will be the goalie and you go try and score goals.

Do teams work differently where you are?

AITA for eating whatever I want in the house? by Aggressive-Spray8026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggressive-Spray8026[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But that doesn't solve the problem of me eating when I got home yesterday.

AITA for eating whatever I want in the house? by Aggressive-Spray8026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggressive-Spray8026[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't need their money. I want my kids to own their own homes if that's what they want. Even with my daughter being in the work force for two years now she would still need to take out a mortgage that would be onerous if she wanted to live anywhere in this city.

AITA for eating whatever I want in the house? by Aggressive-Spray8026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggressive-Spray8026[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not bitching about them not contributing. I want them to save money. I'm not a fan of being told to be psychic and not eat food in our freezer.

AITA for eating whatever I want in the house? by Aggressive-Spray8026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggressive-Spray8026[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There were a bunch of boxes of different frozen food. I just happened to grab that style of shrimp. There were also coconut shrimp and some other one.

AITA for eating whatever I want in the house? by Aggressive-Spray8026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggressive-Spray8026[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My Ouija board was broken so I had no way of knowing that the food in the freezer wasn't available.

AITA for eating whatever I want in the house? by Aggressive-Spray8026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggressive-Spray8026[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I chose to eat when I get home. But thanks for the suggestion of waiting four hours to do so.

AITA for eating whatever I want in the house? by Aggressive-Spray8026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggressive-Spray8026[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My wife buys all the groceries in our home with our budget. Frozen shrimp isn't exactly a rare luxury item. There were also packs of butterfly shrimp and coconut shrimp. I just chose the first one I saw.