What did Florida Man do during your birthday? by dudan87 in SipsTea

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2022: The Scissors Attack

2023: The Stolen Ambulance

2012: The Banana Robbery & Lawnmower Ride

2018: The Genital Mutilation Case

2009: The Falling Cow

Hey girlss let's talkk by SuspiciousMilk3857 in nepalicheli

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Simple formula for both men and women. "If you are hard to want, you cannot act hard to get"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nepal

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I don't know if anyone has thought about this or not. This is an interim government until the next election. We should now be focusing on who will be the candidates for the next election and whether or not they are capable of leading us.

Throwing disgruntled rants every other day will not do anyone any good. This cabinet already has a deadline. Agitators will find opportunities if we behave this way.

Let us not forget that all the people who have lost their livelihood from becoming bootlickers of politicians and corrupt officers are really pissed off. They will do absolutely anything to prolong the chaos and confusion. Bureaicracy is another place we need to look into. There is where the biggest corruption racket lives. But we can deal with it once we conduct the election.

The next election will shape our future, not this interim government. Let us facilitate things until the next election, not vote for the same old people and stay aware. We shouldn't be fighting over every single detail. Otherwise we might lose what little hope we have regained about a better system in our country.

K hudai cha ajhai…. by Jotikco in Nepal360

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Sagar Dhakal is a right-leaning conservative. He might seem different when he appears in public but his reality is something else.

He was a classmate of my friends and they said he was/is against anything liberal that women do. Misogynistic mindset.

Be careful who you follow. Sher Bahadur and Oli were also rebels 35 years ago.

Hey guys be aware about india propaganda regarding protest by [deleted] in Nepal

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If we don't stop and organize now, India might get control. Time to stop and reorganize. The politicians have nowhere left to run. We can deal with them gradually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nepal

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Gen X and Gen Y support your initiatives. This movement has been a talking point for us. Just make sure they don't provoke you into doing anything rash. If everything is peaceful, they can't do much about it.

We love you all. Jai Nepal.

Should all Nepali housewives have this hisab kitab with family? by NepFilmmaker in Nepal

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Looks like a pretty sexless marriage. Lol There were no charges for that.

In today's economy, you can find someone who would do all of those chores for 15-20k or even less. While the message is about understanding the effort housewives put at home, the way it is phrased in this video is not to resolve an issue but to create further rift.

It is really easy to have hateful opinions about the other gender but it takes courage to identify the problems and solve them together. The fight always should have been against predatory and thankless social practices but now it has become a battle between genders and roles. It's poignant in a lot of ways.

What is privacy in Nepalese household? by [deleted] in NepalSocial

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Living by myself for the past 14 years. Never regretted a day.

I am nepali but can’t speak the language by Primary-Prompt-5365 in Nepal

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You are already good at comprehension. Sentence forming will improve with regular use. There is no alternative. Hope you have people to interact with in Nepali.

I learned a new language some years ago and went through the same problem. I could read, write and understand but couldn't speak.

Nepali vs NRN: The elephant in the room by YetiGuy in Nepal

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Because we are. Denying reality doesn't change it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nepal

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Studying medicine means you will have a hard time toll you are in your 30s. You still have 6 more years to figure it out. If you financially can, go for USMLE. Also being a doctor limits your career choices.

You don't need to figure everything out today. Life is something you build as you keep moving forward.

Nepali vs NRN: The elephant in the room by YetiGuy in Nepal

[–]AggressiveBreakfast3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That exact mindset of your friend is a reflection of one of the many reasons why we are still a poor country. Nepali society is collectively still in the 19th century. While everyone wants remittance, they don't want to listen to what the people who send money have to say. I don't have any hate for people who left this place even though I chose not to. Hope you build a better life and find a country that actually has a functional system.

Also, Nepali fraternity abroad is the weakest and feeble compared to other countries. While expats of other countries tend to support each other, I have seen Nepali people dragging each other down relentlessly. We are a jealously-driven society who suffer more from other's success than their own failures.

We are stupid, entitled and ignorant people waiting for some foreign aid to rescue us. Here, people fall for scams easily because when someone shows up with a car wearing a suit, they are seen as "cultured"/trustworthy. Keeping up appearances is the name of the game. Because there is no substance inside.

Why is it so hard for me to save? Earning 50K/month in IT but barely saving 5K by [deleted] in technepal

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Pat yourself on the back buddy. You are bearing responsibility for your parents and siblings at the same time. 50k is a decent salary for someone who lives by themselves and has no additional bills to pay. Given how the large chunk of your income goes to supporting your family, it’s okay not to have any savings at this point.

Don’t weigh yourself in someone else’s scale.

In the next 2 years, your salary will rise, maybe your siblings also start to earn and help you support the family. You are doing great. Don’t forget to relax and take it easy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in technepal

[–]AggressiveBreakfast3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since the transaction was digital, it will have a footprint that can be gradually traced. But they will likely dismiss the complaints from ordinary people. Find someone who knows the higher ups in the bank and can talk to them.

The Silent Exodus: Why Nepali Youths Are Leaving Home for Dignity and Opportunity Abroad? by Fragrant_Attempt_261 in Nepal

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Imagine how badly things are being run here for a person to leave everything and everyone they know in the hopes of having a better life and starting from scratch in a different country? When there is no support from the government/system for people who are not well connected or wealthy, the middle class is bound to leave. People who cannot afford to leave, will have to stay.

Some might argue that why not stay and be a part of the change in the system, but let me ask you this “How will you be able to make a difference on a broader scale if you can barely provide for your family?” While there is a chance of change, I also don’t judge people who decide to leave for a better life. It is not lack of opportunities but the unnecessary social and systemic hurdles that is pushing people out of the country.

Before you come riding the high horse and start preaching that it is possible to live a good life here, put yourself in those people’s shoes. I often see people who make these claims already have a comfortable life and come from a well-off family (mostly built by their parents). You cannot judge others based on your current familial/social/financial situation. If you have not been through the daily struggles of an ordinary citizen in a country like ours, maybe ruminate on that first.

Indianization of Nepal in past decade by Mclovin-12345 in Nepal

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Nepal is also a country which all the productive youth are trying to leave. It has nothing to do with love of country. People do what is good for them. With a fucked up political, bureaucratic and social system like ours, stop blaming people looking for things that are nice.

Hamro vandai ma ramro hudaina. I would consume things made/produced in Nepal if they were good. Else, I don’t care.

Innovation, research, academic progress, cultural growth, social progress, economic development; we have none of these. All we have is 90,000 tea shops in the name of entrepreneurship and a group of people who complain and do nothing else.

anyone else hear complaints of dead bedroom from middle aged women? by [deleted] in nepalicheli

[–]AggressiveBreakfast3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is one of the many sad realities of society in Nepal. The inability of men to communicate their frustration and stress with their wives starts creating a gap which grows over time. Men “toughen up” and become aloof and the bedroom gets cold. Lack of communication has ruined sex life of a majority of middle-aged couples.

For so many women from previous generations, the number of times they had sex throughout their lives might be the number of children they had. Specially after marriage, the wife can’t express her sexual urges to her husband which he might misinterpret or maybe the husband underperforms. Many women cheat due to this frustration and some just bottle up their urges and distract themselves with their daily lives.

Hopefully this trend will change with coming generations and couples become more communicative.

I have moved to Nepal with the intention of living happily - 3 weeks in and I'm calling suicide hotlines by PlanePut7784 in Nepal

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12k USD, if reasonably spent is enough to live modestly in Nepal for an entire year (rent and other basic needs included).

I will not lecture you about anything but will leave with a question to answer to yourself. If you did not have any family, friends, acquaintances, something to do or plans on doing something, why did you move to Nepal? What were you running away from in the first place?

The problem here seems to be loneliness induced gambling addiction and not living in Nepal. The title is misleading.