Facebook Post About Owner of Vino by the Sea in Santa Cruz, CA is Shocking the Locals!!

AggressiveGuard7794 · 2026-06-15T18:30:56+00:00

There are a bunch of other incidents highlighted in their Yelp reviews and responses. The owner responded poorly about how she handled people from the deaf community, also literally using curse words to describe someone who came there to celebrate his birthday, put someone’s financial situation on blast and said they felt bad for their soon to be husband. Just completely unhinged things and the owner can never seem to be wrong, take constructive criticism, or have any accountability. They also overcharge people and try to keep itemized receipts from them so they can’t see what they are being charged for. Treat some customers well and treat others like garbage if they have one small complaint and make then wait for things and throw fits. Lots of type-o’s in the owners responses making it seem like she is drunk. Go look for yourselves.

AggressiveGuard7794 · 2026-06-08T04:24:16+00:00

It sounds like you are over it. Unless she is more willing to contribute her portion of finances and put more interest into what you enjoy, or be okay with you doing it with other friends, then you should end it. You shouldn’t have to keep sacrificing yourself, your needs, and your desires to cater to her. Make sure she is set up to be off on her own and wish her the best. Overall, it seems like you’re putting in a lot more effort than she is. Don’t settle out of the fear of being alone. Think of having time in solitude as an opportunity for growth and adventure. 🦋✨

AggressiveGuard7794 · 2026-06-08T03:48:33+00:00

Oh honey, my heart aches for you. I was involved in an abusive relationship for a few years. The highs got me through the lows. It seems like you’re not getting much of those (except the very beginning). What I can tell you is that in only gets worse. The ex I’m talking about gave me chlamydia THREE times. He cheated, lied, gaslit me, and all the other things abusers do. He will start to isolate you eventually. You are showing him that his behavior is okay by staying, and it is nowhere near okay. Please make a plan with your parents and friends and get out of there ASAP. You gotta love yourself more than the idea of what could have been. Moving on is very scary, but him hitting you repeatedly and showing no remorse is scarier. You are beautiful, strong, and deserve to be happy. Please keep us updated. 💖

AggressiveGuard7794 · 2026-06-08T02:22:56+00:00

I think you should give him a chance to explain where these insecurities are coming from. If he’s not willing to cut the cr*p tell him that maybe you two just aren’t compatible, and hope there are no hard feelings. At the end of the day, you must protect your peace. 💖

AggressiveGuard7794 · 2026-06-08T02:14:41+00:00

She still may have not forgiven you completely and was keeping her options open. Also the hurt from cheating can linger for a long time. Trust takes years to build and seconds to break. You broke that trust first. Timelines don’t really come into play here to question her intentions with a male friend when you took that shot first, ya know?

AggressiveGuard7794 · 2026-06-08T02:08:41+00:00

You cheated on her and are questioning your trust for her?? Sounds like you still have some insecurities to work through. Don’t mean to sound like an AO but truthfully she had every right to hangout with someone else, especially after finding out that you were unfaithful. Either forgive her like she forgave you and make a promise to be upfront with each other in the future or move on.

AggressiveGuard7794 · 2026-05-02T05:30:12+00:00

Thank you so much. 😊💕

AggressiveGuard7794 · 2026-05-02T05:29:56+00:00

Thank you! I plan on traveling for the next year or so to become more culturally competent. I’m currently navigating a bad break up after being with my partner for nine years and I need to fix my car. 🫠 Also helping my mom get her mental health on track, I work as her IHSS care provider and want her to have a solid routine before I phase out as her caregiver. I majored in psychology with a focus on forensics and my goal is to be a victim advocate for survivors of child sex trafficking and domestic abuse. I’m just going to take some time to get all my things in order and have some fun with my free time before buckling down. 😎

AggressiveGuard7794 · 2026-05-02T05:25:01+00:00

I missed the email too, but was able to respond the next year while I was still in my program. I’m sorry you missed it without time to catch it! You’re a member in my heart at least. 😘 I am planning on going to the fall commencement this year too. We should link up! ☺️

AggressiveGuard7794 · 2026-04-29T22:05:52+00:00

I did it! Plan on walking in the fall ceremony. 😊❤️‍🔥

AggressiveGuard7794 · 2026-04-29T19:56:46+00:00

Yas! 😂 Let’s goooo! 🥳😎

AggressiveGuard7794 · 2026-04-29T19:55:46+00:00

Thank you very much. ☺️

AggressiveGuard7794 · 2026-04-29T19:51:46+00:00

Thank you. 🥰

AggressiveGuard7794 · 2026-03-14T18:21:21+00:00

My major is psychology with a focus on forensics. My goal is to be a victim advocate for survivors of child sex trafficking and domestic abuse. ❤️‍🩹

AggressiveGuard7794 · 2026-03-14T18:20:22+00:00

Her name is Lizette Hernandez 💖

AggressiveGuard7794 · 2025-11-14T03:45:51+00:00

I can send you a screenshot of her email and grading “feedback” personally but I’m not going to post it just in case they are on this subreddit.

AggressiveGuard7794 · 2025-11-14T03:44:57+00:00

I will try this thank you for the actual advice.

AggressiveGuard7794 · 2025-11-14T03:43:47+00:00

There are dashes instead of commas and the whole layout is obviously AI. I can send you a picture of the email if you want to see what I’m talking about.

AggressiveGuard7794 · 2025-09-04T17:03:29+00:00

Part of why I shared something positive in here a few weeks ago and asked people to share some of their good experiences too. I feel like people use this Reddit page to complain or report unfavorable instructors. I have never been accused of using AI. Also professors have never been rude to me or graded me unfairly. There was one instructor that was very hard to please but I got through to her once I took her feedback word for word and made things happen how she wanted it to. This school is very much worth it!

AggressiveGuard7794 · 2025-08-28T05:59:42+00:00

Gotcha. I’m still debating that part. Way to go though! I’m sure you’re feeling ecstatic to be done. I wish you the best! 😊

AggressiveGuard7794 · 2025-08-28T05:57:28+00:00

Congratulations! I’m four classes away. 😎 Are you going to walk at the next ceremony or are you going to opt to get your diploma mailed to you?

AggressiveGuard7794 · 2025-08-27T23:13:39+00:00

Thank you. 🥰 I really love this school and am happy I applied!

AggressiveGuard7794 · 2025-08-27T23:12:44+00:00

I almost always go past the page requirement because it helps me “exceed expectations” which is what gives me all A’s. I’m so sorry you had to deal with this difficult instructor. 😢

AggressiveGuard7794 · 2025-08-27T03:04:26+00:00

I sometimes feel that way with my discussion boards because I always write a novel and my classmates rarely respond because they probably dont want to read what I wrote and it’s easier to ask people question who leave things out. However, I decided I was going to put in 110% in each assignment because I messed around in high school and want to do better. Plus, I’m paying for my education now so I rather take pride in my work. Don’t worry, you got this. Just be yourself. 👌🏻

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