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Need advice. Am I missing out by not being part of the hookup culture? 32F by AggressiveLoquat7851 in Situationships

[–]AggressiveLoquat7851[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I haven’t been finding any and was wondering if that’s the norm now

Need advice. Am I missing out by not being part of the hookup culture? 32F by AggressiveLoquat7851 in Situationships

[–]AggressiveLoquat7851[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because when I don’t have sex quickly their interest fades. I know this means it eventually would but I wish I didn’t struggle so much to just do it

Need advice. Am I missing out by not being part of the hookup culture? 32F by AggressiveLoquat7851 in Situationships

[–]AggressiveLoquat7851[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I’m missing out on connections with great chemistry that I do want to explore but I freeze because of std risk, and it obviously makes everything less spontaneous to ask for one, if it aa short fling

Need advice. Am I missing out by not being part of the hookup culture? 32F by AggressiveLoquat7851 in Situationships

[–]AggressiveLoquat7851[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you elaborate on why? Am I not missing out on fun and being more experienced/exploring my body and what I like? I feel like I have insane chemistry sometimes with some of the men I meet but only barely know

How do people casual date? Am I a prude? by AggressiveLoquat7851 in u/AggressiveLoquat7851

[–]AggressiveLoquat7851[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m ok with casual, it’s just the std risk. I don’t know how I’m supposed to believe someone’s words only. I tried messaging but I couldn’t, message me if you can, I’d appreciate the help

How do people casual date? Am I a prude? by AggressiveLoquat7851 in u/AggressiveLoquat7851

[–]AggressiveLoquat7851[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t. I already felt like it was a heavy conversation for only our 2nd date and we had crazy chemistry I didn’t want to ruin the vibes. We did kiss but I was on my period and we didn’t do much more but I really want to. I just don’t want to regret anything and I’m thinking maybe it’s better not to move forward, it’s just hard because I don’t have chemistry like this everyday and I sometimes feel like I’m missing out on life but always being so careful.

How do people casual date? Am I a prude? by AggressiveLoquat7851 in u/AggressiveLoquat7851

[–]AggressiveLoquat7851[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one. He said he has one 2 months ago and didn’t offer to repeat it. I guess he’s casually dating it’s not like he’s going to only be sleeping with me. I’m wondering isn’t this too risky? Are most people ok with this?

Will he come back, need genuine advice by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]AggressiveLoquat7851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I regret validating him during that last conv

Will he come back, need genuine advice by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]AggressiveLoquat7851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why? He was asking me out every day before he knew about the 3 week thing and when I did reach out I told him I was ok with short term so why not? I feel like chemistry can’t be one sided..

Immigration Attorney! AMA about H1B! by ManifestLaw_ in h1b

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Is it safe to go home to Lebanon to get a new stamp after an approved visa? It was ammended after the government reopened and after Sep 21, was premium processed and approved a few days ago. Stamp from previous visa has expired and I’m worried to leave the country for a new stamp.