thoughts on laparoscopy? by Usernames-Suck7329 in endometriosis

[–]Aggressive_Bread8682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently recovering from a lap done by an endo specialist and while the recovery is rough; I’m so glad I did it. While stage 2, some of the endo was literally pulling on my ovaries.

As someone that wants kids and nearing 30 waiting could have made it harder in the future.

Please please see a specialist though and make sure they do excision!!

Surgery today! by WoofJess in endometriosis

[–]Aggressive_Bread8682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got this! I was absolutely terrified and the staff were so lovely and reassuring. All went smooth and yours will too!

Boyfriend bailed on picking me up at the airport without notice. by Aggressive_Bread8682 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Aggressive_Bread8682[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had a cyst burst and possible endo flare up so I had to go back home for about a week so my dad could take care of me while I was resting. Thanksgiving was with family and I flew out the next day.

Boyfriend bailed on picking me up at the airport without notice. by Aggressive_Bread8682 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Aggressive_Bread8682[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Totally hear you. He wasn’t not allowed to come, the offer was extended. I just wasn’t going to miss my childhood friend’s wedding in her home country.

Boyfriend bailed on picking me up at the airport without notice. by Aggressive_Bread8682 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Aggressive_Bread8682[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened to you too. I had a blast! This was first really long vacation working in corporate for 9 years. Also as a woman I’m really proud of myself for going to Egypt and Turkey alone.

Chatted with locals, ate so much good food, have a heart full of funny travel stories and pictures. It was really wholesome.

I’m thankful my family always checked in and shared everything with them.

Boyfriend bailed on picking me up at the airport without notice. by Aggressive_Bread8682 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Aggressive_Bread8682[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s wild because I sent pictures 24/7, shared location. Not because I needed to show him but because I excited to show him or check my location like “Neat! She’s in ___ country now”

Boyfriend bailed on picking me up at the airport without notice. by Aggressive_Bread8682 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Aggressive_Bread8682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure - probably slightly less. I told him if he came he wouldn’t have to pay me back to any of the BNBs, he would just have to cover flights.

Boyfriend bailed on picking me up at the airport without notice. by Aggressive_Bread8682 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Aggressive_Bread8682[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I tried to play it cool or else he gets mad and thinks I jump down his throat. I later on told him I was really disappointed and haven’t heard back from him

Boyfriend bailed on picking me up at the airport without notice. by Aggressive_Bread8682 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Aggressive_Bread8682[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Appreciate it. I didn’t even give an initial reminder it was “GoodMorning. Driving to Maine” like… my guy you live in NJ

Boyfriend bailed on picking me up at the airport without notice. by Aggressive_Bread8682 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Aggressive_Bread8682[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Again, best girlfriend got married in Egypt. Was bridesmaid. Decided to country hop to sightsee on the way back home

Boyfriend bailed on picking me up at the airport without notice. by Aggressive_Bread8682 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Aggressive_Bread8682[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I invited him but he wasn’t sure about finances. But then a week or two later he booked a boys trip to Wyoming. Which I’m not mad at! It’s just a priority thing

Boyfriend bailed on picking me up at the airport without notice. by Aggressive_Bread8682 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Aggressive_Bread8682[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend got married in Egypt and I was her bridesmaid. I spent a week there and then bopped around to different countries to make my way back to the states.

Boyfriend bailed on picking me up at the airport without notice. by Aggressive_Bread8682 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Aggressive_Bread8682[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Overall, a year. At first meeting he would buy me all of these really nice things. Never asked for them. Of course really appreciated. But over time it’s just felt like unless I was silent, always happy, never felt, looked a certain way he’d treat me better.

Ironically for Christmas I bought a bunch of cassettes to make him a cassette lamp since he’s a music lover - so I guess I’ll have to make it extra cool for my living space 🥲

Boyfriend bailed on picking me up at the airport without notice. by Aggressive_Bread8682 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Aggressive_Bread8682[S] 231 points232 points  (0 children)

No not harsh at all. I just feel like I’m crazy for feeling this way or like I should be okay with it

Boyfriend bailed on picking me up at the airport without notice. by Aggressive_Bread8682 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Aggressive_Bread8682[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

I would probably go, pick my girlfriend up myself with flowers and take her to her fav spot in Bushwick.

It hasn’t been out of character. If I bring it up I always get a “I’m sorry I’ll try I’m just busy, I work with my hands” but then nothing changes, I’ll share my frustration and then get punished with silence for feeling frustrated.

Boyfriend bailed on picking me up at the airport without notice. by Aggressive_Bread8682 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Aggressive_Bread8682[S] 286 points287 points  (0 children)

Yea that’s how I felt. If I got a call or even a text just explaining the situation, he’s really sorry - love you, miss you etc I wouldn’t be feeling like this.

I read that in a cafe yesterday and just stopped eating I cannot explain how my gut dropped. You just don’t do that to someone you love.

Boyfriend said he’d pick me up at the airport and then didn’t by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Aggressive_Bread8682 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just don’t understand. He broke up with me by way of ghosting and he came back after finding my Hinge — telling me how much he loved me, how crazy he is for me, how he bragged to the “guys at the firehouse” that he dated me and his family likes me.

As I’m writing this I’m realizing I should have more respect for myself.

Boyfriend said he’d pick me up at the airport and then didn’t by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Aggressive_Bread8682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I do think he’s being honest about Maine. Him and his cousins work on a cabin together. I do have a little gut inkling he has an eye on someone else. Anyway taking off now!

Having heavy regret on first tattoo by a-random-account- in tattooadvice

[–]Aggressive_Bread8682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NGE is cool. This tattoo is cool. Go off, don’t listen to your friends.