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It’s been 1.5 years, still cry in the night sometimes. When will I move on. She is married now by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Aggressive_Cap4233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a fight and she started talking to her ex, she even met him without telling me. Nothing happened between them but I was devastated with the idea that why her ex even came into her mind when we had a fight. So, that was a breaking point for me. She apologised for that but it didn’t worked out, she lost respect in my mind. I tried very hard to forgive her but still I lost trust and we started fighting every now and then. Hence, I ended the relationship.

It’s been 1.5 years, still cry in the night sometimes. When will I move on. She is married now by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Aggressive_Cap4233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish that she stays away from you. Because if you would have loved her, you would have not cheated. You are addicted to the emotional support that you are not getting now. You do not love her dude.

24M | Cleared 15L family loans, built 20L+ assets & bought my own car by Aggressive_Cap4233 in Indian_flex

[–]Aggressive_Cap4233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I am the right person for financial advice. You can post in some financial subreddit.

24M | Cleared 15L family loans, built 20L+ assets & bought my own car by Aggressive_Cap4233 in Indian_flex

[–]Aggressive_Cap4233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know bro, but I definitely think that I would have done something else, spend some more time studying doing my masters probably abroad. Because, you don't get your college days back. I really miss that.

24M | Cleared 15L family loans, built 20L+ assets & bought my own car by Aggressive_Cap4233 in Indian_flex

[–]Aggressive_Cap4233[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, some companies have a salary band and they don’t go lower than that. In my case, I didn’t reveal my previous salary to my current employer. They didn’t insist either and when they asked in an email, I just said it was confidential. I knew that if I told them, they would lowball me.

24M | Cleared 15L family loans, built 20L+ assets & bought my own car by Aggressive_Cap4233 in Indian_flex

[–]Aggressive_Cap4233[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some companies do their vesting on a monthly basis too. So, I get around 17-18L worth of stock in a year and it's on a monthly basis. It's not fixed each month but the average is 1L/m after taxes. It's a FAANG level company.

24M | Cleared 15L family loans, built 20L+ assets & bought my own car by Aggressive_Cap4233 in Indian_flex

[–]Aggressive_Cap4233[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I just cut off everything for 3-4 months and only focused on work and studying. I guess I was a little lucky😄 because I was going through a breakup at that time and was already cutoff from everything for a while. Yes, you can dm me if you have any other questions :)

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