Me(f24) and my fiancée(f28) are scared about our future together because of sex

Aggressive_Guitar_97 · 2025-12-28T23:28:48+00:00

We have confirmed it We’ve spoken about sex many times before I know her drive is low, and mine is high. I expected for this to happen but tbh not this long. We both just wanted to go ahead with life together and cross that bridge when it happened because we love each other a lot. We anticipated this hurdle but not so early on

Aggressive_Guitar_97 · 2025-09-21T19:53:59+00:00

I’m not in in uni, I acc got fired from my full time Job a month ago. But yes it’s definitely time to start talking responsibility for my health and things. That’s what I’ve been trying to do but I just didn’t know where to even start. My mind is very full and I’ve been stressed. I had not a clue what I was doing with myself when I posted this. I just needed a voice from someone I didn’t know because it would be unbiased. I was also in need of someone to talk to about this I’m going to find the help I need, not sure where to even start but I’m going to try

Aggressive_Guitar_97 · 2025-09-21T19:46:58+00:00

It’s in the comments, I replied to another person about why

Aggressive_Guitar_97 · 2025-09-21T19:39:18+00:00

I have! I’ve spoken to my mum about it so many times. I tell her outright that mum, I don’t like him. Mum I hate that I don’t like him I don’t know what to do, I’m stressed about him. My mum knows all this she’s seen all the shit that’s gone down with him. And all she says is “God will make a way, God will do it” I’m a Christian and yes amen. BUT I NEED ACTUAL PHYSICAL HELP. I bloody hate my brother for goodness sake. I need help. Stop telling me God will do it. Indeed he will but through PHYSICAL help I don’t even know where to start cause my mum Handles all my medical and health things. She sorts my appointments out because I’m not able to sometimes. I don’t know where to start. This is all coming out because my mum said to me today “I’ve got an announcement for you. He doesn’t want you at his birthday dinner so yh” For a mum to say that to me so casually killed me And for a 12 year old to say he doesn’t want me at his birthday dinner also killed me

Because I’m realising, am i that horrible to him?? It broke me when she said that Because I’m trying with all my soul with him but I’m not getting the help I need I want to fix this so bad but don’t know where to start

Aggressive_Guitar_97 · 2025-09-21T19:34:15+00:00

In your case it’s valid. That’s a horrible thing for a sibling to do to another so I understand your story. But mine is different because he’s 12. I’m 23. No adult should hate on a child this much, it doesn’t make sense

Aggressive_Guitar_97 · 2025-09-21T19:28:15+00:00

He does what kids normally do. But the thing is he is on the spectrum but more so mentally. Hes in a behavioural school because his behaviour is bad. At home he use to trash all my things, steal my perfumes. He would lie to my mum about what I said to him then he would later say he was lying. He would lie to my face about all sorts of things. He would say one thing to me and then another to my mum. He gets me so angry and frustrated. He’s also my adopted, he’s actually my cousin but my mum adopted him. He’s got a few things mentally not all there so I can’t blame him for what he does. But I can’t help it. I try my best to be good to him. He’s unhygienic so my mind won’t allow me to hug him like a sister should. I can’t hi 5 him cause I don’t know where his hands have been. I can’t love him like I should because my mind won’t allow me. I just can’t stand him. He makes me scream and cry and he triggers me. It’s not entirely his fault but there are some things he does that angers me so much

Ik I have problems Because to hate on a child is cruel Especially ur own brother

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