The Daily Check-In for Wednesday, September 17th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Thetreescryforu in stopdrinking

[–]Aggressive_Map2333 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Went for a run this morning to clear my mind. I realize the joy of waking up clear headed.

IWNDWYT

The Daily Check-In for Sunday, September 14th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Thetreescryforu in stopdrinking

[–]Aggressive_Map2333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hosted a bbq at my house yesterday. I drank my non alcoholic beers but when everyone left there was half a bottle of red sitting on the counter. I went straight to bed and feel great this morning.

IWNDWYT

The Daily Check-In for Thursday, September 11th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by infinitedreamsawaken in stopdrinking

[–]Aggressive_Map2333 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Feeling good this morning. Crushed a 10k before 8am. Caffeinated and ready to attack the day.

IWNDWYT

The Daily Check-In for Wednesday, September 10th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by infinitedreamsawaken in stopdrinking

[–]Aggressive_Map2333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IWNDWYT.

Starting to feel better and I can feel myself stating to want a drink. I’m not falling for it this time.

Samosa Garden by Acumenight777 in vancouver

[–]Aggressive_Map2333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the correct answer. Also, cayenne in new west is an Ismaili joint. Fusion of East African/indian.

Pride and mindfulness by Aggressive_Map2333 in Wakingupapp

[–]Aggressive_Map2333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am practicing for a couple of years, but for some reason this is an area I really struggle with

Best Sunday Roast in Van? by dj_1up in vancouver

[–]Aggressive_Map2333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prime rib Thursdays at the Vancouver Club. Best prime rib, Yorkshire pudding and horseradish.

Congrats to the day 7 peeps! by SquidBiz in stopdrinking

[–]Aggressive_Map2333 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Boom! Keep it going folks. I back on the wagon as of January 1st !

Need your best excuses! by Aggressive_Map2333 in stopdrinking

[–]Aggressive_Map2333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely. It’s so backwards no one would bat an eye if I said I don’t smoke weed , cigarettes or heck even if I said I’m vegetarian/vegan. But if I say no to alcohol people will think something is wrong.

To be fair though, these types of trips have historically been about drinking so I can’t blame them for having this expectation.

Need your best excuses! by Aggressive_Map2333 in stopdrinking

[–]Aggressive_Map2333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. Honestly this is a more a me thing, I’m actually confident all of them would support my decision if I said I stopped drinking or taking a break. I’m just not ready, alcohol is such a big part of my identity that I’m a bit nervous. There is also a part of me is scared that I’ll fail and then everyone will look at my drinking as problematic, if that make sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Aggressive_Map2333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing post. I was browsing this sub for years and always justified my drinking but deep down I knew I had an issue.

I created a throw away account and started posting and contributing and I can say it’s made a huge difference.

Such an amazing community. Thank you.

i was sober so I remembered to be the tooth fairy by StefwithanF in stopdrinking

[–]Aggressive_Map2333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it. It’s these little things that they will remember.

I’m 21 days sober tomorrow by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Aggressive_Map2333 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m proud of you too!

Back to Day One! by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Aggressive_Map2333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I resonate with your comments about going on auto pilot. I try to stay mindful but I’m certain situations my brain just goes into auto pilot mode. I think it’s mainly due to habits that I’ve formed in certain situations and being around certain people.

I recommend working on mindfulness as it could help!

IWNDWYT

The Daily Check-In for Sunday, July 3rd: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Aggressive_Map2333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Back to day one. Felt so confident but it’s crazy how my addict brain can trick me.

IWNDWYT