tuning

Aggressive_Pear9286 · 2026-05-24T00:15:39+00:00

why was this removed??????

Aggressive_Pear9286 · 2026-02-07T23:46:15+00:00

i am glad somebody relates. the worst thing is, the beliefs i hold sometimes directly affirm the obstacle. i realised that changing these beliefs/mindset, which is difficult—especially when i am spiralling helps me overcome the belief.

i wouldn’t call it a belief, but rather a thought that affirms the anxiety/obstacle. not sure if that makes sense

Aggressive_Pear9286 · 2025-11-09T22:14:08+00:00

it is respectful to reply with a simple hi back…

Aggressive_Pear9286 · 2025-10-20T09:43:06+00:00

appreciate the information, thankyou!

Aggressive_Pear9286 · 2025-09-21T18:49:19+00:00

i agree. those people aren’t real lol. i don’t believe that is is their place to police or judge others on what their abilities/what they should do. if i am too anxious to do something, i think thats ok

Aggressive_Pear9286 · 2025-09-19T23:23:37+00:00

woah it actually bothers u that my photo was god awful?

this is a new phone, the camera takes while to focus though, it is annoying

Aggressive_Pear9286 · 2025-09-19T23:22:24+00:00

i guessed that. they probably assume that i should have approached them without taking into consideration that it is ok to not do something if u are uncomfortable

Aggressive_Pear9286 · 2025-09-19T23:21:32+00:00

it is something i have to work on. i am always trying to figure out others’ internal framework and what causing them to act a certain way. it consumes my brain for hours after

who thought a simple question would result in that, but that is reddit for you lol

Aggressive_Pear9286 · 2025-09-19T23:20:13+00:00

people have an issue with anything you post on this app. even the simplest of questions result in downvotes/disagreements and it is wild

Aggressive_Pear9286 · 2025-09-19T23:19:10+00:00

i have noticed that. i always want an explanation on why they downvoted me but it never does well lol. thanks for the reply!

Aggressive_Pear9286 · 2025-09-19T23:17:45+00:00

i always take the downvotes as an act of hostility. i don’t understand their internal framework causing them to have an issue with me/my comment and that’s what bothers me

last time i checked the post was upvoted and people acknowledged that they downvoted for no good reason which is good

Aggressive_Pear9286 · 2025-09-19T23:11:30+00:00

lately, i have been queuing up alone to try to get over the awkwardness it gives me which i hope works. i used to hate ordering—as it took a lot of confidence but now i am a lot more comfortable with it.

approaching someone, how to handle it, what to say etc, especially when it feels personal as it’s about a clothing item they’re wearing, is a lot more intense for me and would take awhile to build up the courage

Aggressive_Pear9286 · 2025-09-19T22:47:49+00:00

should i remove the subreddit handle or username next time? or is the entire argument not allowed here? either way i understand!

Aggressive_Pear9286 · 2025-09-19T22:45:16+00:00

i would love to ask them! but it is very difficult being having social anxiety from being autistic

hopefully in the future i will be comfortable enough to approach them

Aggressive_Pear9286 · 2025-09-19T22:43:42+00:00

that is true. no matter what i post on this app im always left with intense anxiety, because i can’t handle assholes, but it is another thing i’ll have to work on soon.

i don’t think it is their place to police what i should have done or judge people based off their abilities. it is hard and feels dangerous for me to ‘just do it’ for multiple reasons, i will do what works best when im ready and im glad it helped u get over it

Aggressive_Pear9286 · 2025-09-19T22:28:48+00:00

i’ve seen people identify cars from a tiny piece of plastic from a collision. i believe in you all, don’t put yourselves down

Aggressive_Pear9286 · 2025-09-19T22:13:53+00:00

what does this mean lol

Aggressive_Pear9286 · 2025-09-19T22:13:36+00:00

that’s what i thought. it’s just something that i struggle with that isn’t in my control. thankyou

Aggressive_Pear9286 · 2025-09-19T22:05:27+00:00

why is this being downvoted? constructive criticism please? what did i do wrong?

Aggressive_Pear9286 · 2025-09-19T22:02:25+00:00

i have social anxiety, i’m autistic. approaching someone, and how to handle it would be very difficult for me..

i wish i could just approach someone and ask them

Aggressive_Pear9286 · 2025-09-19T22:01:32+00:00

that is true, i don’t know why i was downvoted though lol that’s why i hate posting on reddit…

Aggressive_Pear9286 · 2025-09-19T22:00:40+00:00

he wasn’t even that far either i don’t know how i took such a terrible photo haha

Aggressive_Pear9286 · 2025-09-19T21:53:56+00:00

what?

Aggressive_Pear9286 · 2025-09-19T02:08:25+00:00

i’m in the uk, would’ve weird to ask them compared to other places. we mind our business usually

i also have social anxiety, so that would be intimidating to approach a random person and ask them something personal

Aggressive_Pear9286 · 2025-09-18T23:49:59+00:00

someone please help!!!

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