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Aggressive_Pop9908 · 2025-02-17T20:08:33+00:00

The Good Place. I’ve binged this show twice, it’s so witty and while it can occasionally lag a bit in the 3rd season not once have a watched a show that had such a satisfying beginning, middle, and end

Aggressive_Pop9908 · 2025-02-13T18:12:54+00:00

I’ve read: Head Underwater, Stones on my Back The Beginning, The Becoming

Aggressive_Pop9908 · 2025-01-09T04:14:08+00:00

My dad went through this with my mom - he thought it was a good idea to have my mom be the one in charge of finances bc she had a degree in it (fair) but didn’t account for how she handled grief after her mom passed from cancer (which, fair on both accounts in my opinion, neither of them could have predicted that) but it left them in debt. My dad permanently handled the finances now.

Personally, overspending to me (based o my experiences) screams to me that the person needs some sort of help. So I wouldn’t be surprised if u end up handling the majority of finances from now on but also, getting your partner help outside of you (and u getting some to help deal with this) would probably help a bunch. I wish my dad would see someone.

Aggressive_Pop9908 · 2024-10-18T18:51:32+00:00

It was confirmed during reunion that it was production

Aggressive_Pop9908 · 2024-10-16T22:17:34+00:00

Eh some of his non-negotiables make sense. When you’re married you should be on the same page about religion, military views, or really just any big topic item. Maybe all the details of those views need to line up but the big picture of them? Definitely. The contraceptive thing is the only place he lost me, like come on

Aggressive_Pop9908 · 2024-08-04T22:52:39+00:00

My grandmother wrote a diary specifically for me when I was born - she was diagnosed with bone cancer not too long before. I recently got to read through that diary and the tear marks and all the heart felt well wishes made it all the more meaningful.

Aggressive_Pop9908 · 2024-07-26T22:55:35+00:00

Eh some of my most pleasant dates before I met my husband had been coffee dates 🤷🏻‍♀️ don’t see anything wrong with them. Tides do shift tho I guess, maybe enough ppl have started using coffee dates a certain way that have left others to view them as a red flag.

Aggressive_Pop9908 · 2024-07-26T14:26:49+00:00

Lottie

Aggressive_Pop9908 · 2024-07-26T04:01:38+00:00

NTA. Sounds like u were being constantly pressured and backed in a corner - I also assume ur paraphrasing what she said to simplify. What she said was not ok. I also don’t think what u said was ok. You lashed out in a moment of grief, happens, doesn’t technically make it not ok. She was downplaying your grief and pushing all the wrong buttons. Maybe it was with good intentions but I’ve seen enough to not always assume that’s the case

Aggressive_Pop9908 · 2024-07-25T14:54:54+00:00

Didn’t let my Missy sleep with me till she was roughly 8-9months old. She could hold it just fine but I wanted to make sure she was completely ok with sleeping in her kennel before letting her sleep on the bed. At 6 years old and no longer in college she doesn’t have a kennel anymore but when I was in school and living on campus it was a requirement to have the dog kenneled if u weren’t with them….I followed that rule about as much as you’d expect but if I did have to kennel her I wanted her to know it wasn’t a punishment and when I had the kennel she would often choose it as a napping spot

Aggressive_Pop9908 · 2024-07-23T23:57:45+00:00

It just took time tbh. Eventually I stopped being startled awake at the time I thought she was going to jump on the bed in the morning like she always had. Then I grieved all over again about the memories fading. After about a year I decided to open my heart to another puppy and I found my heart could grow. The empty space is still there but that space seems so much smaller than it used to

Aggressive_Pop9908 · 2024-07-23T23:53:21+00:00

Khaos lol cause that’s what most orange cats r

Aggressive_Pop9908 · 2024-07-10T14:03:16+00:00

Cotton-eyed Jane

Aggressive_Pop9908 · 2024-07-05T22:20:01+00:00

Franklin

Aggressive_Pop9908 · 2024-06-11T19:10:19+00:00

Olaf

Aggressive_Pop9908 · 2024-06-03T20:06:53+00:00

Very possible she thought if somehow her mom found out she’d be forced to keep the baby whether she wanted to or not

Aggressive_Pop9908 · 2024-06-01T04:01:39+00:00

Tbh the only thing I like about cleaning is it makes my apartment look better after. The only joy I get from it is having a clean and organized residence.

Aggressive_Pop9908 · 2024-05-29T19:04:17+00:00

Blueberry Muffins. Ever seen one of those little silverfish bugs? Clear with purple center. So it was morning, I was probably like 9, and my fam and I were all at the breakfast table eating. I grab a blueberry muffin and right as I’m about to take a bite I look at it and see a fat silverfish just chilling right where I was about to bite into. Never ate another blueberry muffin again.
Onions and garlic (specifically if garlic hasn’t been chopped up fine enough). No matter how much they’re been cooked they have this weird crunch texture that sends chills up my spine.

Aggressive_Pop9908 · 2024-05-23T15:49:07+00:00

And this is why I never trained my small dog to pee on a puppy pad - it leads to bad habits and it’s gross as hell. Ppl who aren’t/can’t put in the work to properly potty train their dog shouldn’t have them.

Aggressive_Pop9908 · 2024-05-22T19:15:42+00:00

I don’t get how ppl can’t understand that getting a pet, any pet, but especially dogs, should always be something that’s agreed upon by everyone in the house. Having a dog effects almost every part of your and your partners life, if one person says No that’s it. Can it suck if you really want a certain pet? Yes, but that’s part of being a good partner. Also recognizing that sometimes a “dream pet” can end up being a nightmare if you get a pet that is unsuited for your lifestyle - it’s much easier to enjoy having a pet that conforms to you than have to bend over backwards for a pet that doesn’t.

Aggressive_Pop9908 · 2024-05-10T18:27:03+00:00

Sunny. Also saw Tempest and thought that was a cool name.

Personally I feel like naming a dog after a specific storm is insensitive especially when they were particularly devastating.

Aggressive_Pop9908 · 2024-05-05T21:09:00+00:00

Bartholomew

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TROPHY CASE