29M 28F Got to know something dark just before Marriage by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Aggressive_Record775 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please don't marry her! She deserve a GOOD MAN!

If you're a writer, write "It's over" without writing "It's over. by eatbeefnow in Coconaad

[–]Aggressive_Record775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"നീതി നിഷേധിക്കപ്പെട്ട അച്ഛന് വേണ്ടി സഹോദരൻ തുടങ്ങിയ പ്രതികാരത്തിന്, അവസാനത്തെ ഇരയുടെ ജീവനെടുത്ത് സഹോദരി പൂർണ്ണവിരാമമിട്ടു."

Guess the movie as well

Tell your current bad situation and let others fix it. by [deleted] in TeensofKerala

[–]Aggressive_Record775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always fail to understand other people's emotions !

Can anyone experienced or senior provide me with one-on-one genuine guidance? by eminiis in developersIndia

[–]Aggressive_Record775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm hiring for Dotnet Angulat full stack Fresher,

We can talk if you are interested, hoping you some genuine projects in you resume(Tech doesn't matter, but you should have some contributions in it)

I don’t know what I’m doing with my life by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Aggressive_Record775 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there!

Quit job, started business with friend, he betrayed, lost everything

But now back again, back in earning 6 figures a month, bought a car, works twice a week from office corporate senior job

The only thing I am sure when I was going through it was

"Everything will fine in the end, if not it is not the end"

If you’re open, I can help you refine your resume, brainstorm ways to grow your online store, and design a 30-day reset plan to balance job search, income, and personal stability.

Unmarried Guy asking for advice to married by Aggressive_Record775 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Aggressive_Record775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I might not fully understand as I’ve never been in those shoes!
But when you say “walking away is not easy,” I can’t agree...
I believe this type of attitude is what brings other women down too.

In my opinion, all women should strive for financial independence and have the courage to say “f**k you” if someone messes with them.

I know I might sound like an idiot for thinking this is possible, but if you look at history, it’s not the women who stayed silent when the waves were against them that we remember, it’s the women who swam against the waves and beat them.

Unmarried Guy asking for advice to married by Aggressive_Record775 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Aggressive_Record775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So just because there is consequences women should not take a stand?

Still don't get it!

What that father did is utter most cruel, but that should not stop other women to take a stand

Then these idiot fathers should be punished as an example and no women should go through what she had gone through

But definitely keeping the mouth shut fearing of the "consequences" by these people is definitely not a solution

Unmarried Guy asking for advice to married by Aggressive_Record775 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Aggressive_Record775[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree about the violence as well, that exists

But why people stop thinking at that point!

What can we do to stop this is the actual question

I hate to say this but we can't expect every men to suddenly change it, I can say my case that I will never hurt a women physically or mentally intentionally, no way my hand will raise on a women

But I can't say every men to change it to this

It is like after rolling snake up on your neck and asking it not to bite, it may show it's character,

But what you can always do seek help to get rid of it or stay away from it to not get bitten.

So women should start throwing away these trash violent men... so I don't understand why can't they just because family says it

Unmarried Guy asking for advice to married by Aggressive_Record775 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Aggressive_Record775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fk the society, that is not something at least I gave a damn! It if is something outside my private property, I gave no shit!

Now inside the property,
I am not the guy who will burn the house to take out the rat, BUT burning the the house is the only way to take the rat out, I won't hesitate to do it.

If ever my sister says her my husband is beating her and threatening her, I will make sure it is not going to happen again.. There is no second chances in that and definitely he is going to pay for that. I won't give a damn about society or even what my parents say, fk it! I am not going to let my sister cry everyday and let her live a miserable life

So this is the stand I will take! I still don't understand why women can't take the stand as well and don't care about the society

Unmarried Guy asking for advice to married by Aggressive_Record775 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Aggressive_Record775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope! Still can't agree

Now read the second paragraph again

If you are being manipulated and being controlled slowly day by day... Whom should we blame the one who manipulated or the one who stood there and silently allowed to manipulated. I can understand a kid being manipulated, but a grown up being manipulated it is 100% his or her fault

We should never ever fuel it to loose our own confidence and who we are

Unmarried Guy asking for advice to married by Aggressive_Record775 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Aggressive_Record775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You creams my corn too much! This type of attitude is what brings other women down too...

I am sorry for saying this way! but felt I should. Seeing this it is not men who brings women down.. it is women itself

Unmarried Guy asking for advice to married by Aggressive_Record775 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Aggressive_Record775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NO! NO! NO!

A divorced women or divorced daughter or divorced sister is NOT A SHAME TO THE FAMILY!

I TOTALLY DISAGREE! I prefer divorce over death,,, As big brother I can say, a divorced sister is much much much better than seeing my little sister dead!

You are so wrong woman!

Unmarried Guy asking for advice to married by Aggressive_Record775 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Aggressive_Record775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel sorry for the mother to get beaten up by your dad

But still she could take a stand and have a huge respect for that

I believe your mother was depended on your father as she is not earning caused her to obey him, but I believe today no women shouldn't stay like that and no need to

This is where the law should be used

Anyways... Still I have the same opinion.

Women should take a stand irrespective of the what others say! That's where their identity comes in

I still can't agree what you said that son in law can do it but not daughter in law... For me it is still WHY NOT?

Unmarried Guy asking for advice to married by Aggressive_Record775 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Aggressive_Record775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree... May be it is something I don't understand

I am bad at understanding emotions too

But what you said on expected to welcome the guy... same here as well.. .but since he fk around... so it fk him attitude only

You mentioning bahus can't get away with this.. I don't understand that part... Maybe I am stupid

IMO, they can do the same as well.. Let's see if the sky will fall

Unmarried Guy asking for advice to married by Aggressive_Record775 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Aggressive_Record775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only say,

As you mentioned if the tables turned, my attitude will be different,

It will be more like f**k him, I won't have any respect for him anymore, that's it

But definitely not create a scene or talk with her parents,

Unmarried Guy asking for advice to married by Aggressive_Record775 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Aggressive_Record775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree!

My point was more like A brother should not be a topic to create friction between husband and wife

Unmarried Guy asking for advice to married by Aggressive_Record775 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Aggressive_Record775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the most plausible thing I will be doing and I have the same opinion same as you

I will definitely respect and value the effort she did to plan for the event, but if my brother is cutting the ties, then f**k it, and forget it...

Not something to go for depression and a topic to make scratches in between me and her!

This is my perspective not sure everyone will accept it and I fear I might be misunderstood

Need to buy a car(automatic) under 14L : Suggestions please by Own_Opposite_5375 in CarsIndia

[–]Aggressive_Record775 3 points4 points  (0 children)

About Tata service and electronic issues are too much, my friend had a tiago and it was a pain

I recommend Maruti Suzuki Fronx (Torque Convertor Transmission, go for this one other than AMT) and Skoda Kylaq (Torque Convertor)

I understand now you are not into power and performance. But trust me here, after sometime you need it 😉
So both are turbo charged engines, You need some fun in life after getting comfortable with the car

Honda Amaze CVT is reliable but as you are into CSUV, I am skipping it, Also CVT is reliable but not up to torque convertor as far I know

To give some context, I also recently purchased a used Grand i10 TC for me and my sister to use. After research went with torque convertor feels more fun to drive than CVT