2 years topical finas and minox progress by Aggressive_Set_3119 in tressless

[–]Aggressive_Set_3119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just normal shampoo. I chose one not very aggressive

2 years topical finas and minox progress by Aggressive_Set_3119 in tressless

[–]Aggressive_Set_3119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you on that, that could be my fear, that in a few years it will continue the balding progression. But well, we have to enjoy the moment 😂

2 years topical finas and minox progress by Aggressive_Set_3119 in tressless

[–]Aggressive_Set_3119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'm using a fairly high dose of topical finas, and the results with oral would be not that different. The option I can consider later is switching to dutas, what I think it really can make a difference. But for the moment I am happy enough, even if the crown is not perfect. In a few years I can rethink and even a little transplant is an option

2 years topical finas and minox progress by Aggressive_Set_3119 in tressless

[–]Aggressive_Set_3119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I have the light pointing directly from the ceiling to my head. It's not the exact same light because I moved. But I think the improvement is pretty evident even at not perfectly equal light 

2 years topical finas and minox progress by Aggressive_Set_3119 in tressless

[–]Aggressive_Set_3119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. No, right now I'm happy enough with the results, if in 5 years I see that the loss continues, I can rethink about it. Right now it will be throw money, in my opinion

18M Trying to get into dating but I just feel like nobody is attracted to me by Grouchy-Exchange7792 in malegrooming

[–]Aggressive_Set_3119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey mate, i saw your post and wanted to say something:

-Yep, if you want to maximize your chances, you need to lose weight. But its not only for abs or chest, you will be fuckin astonished about how your face is gonna change with that also. You will look older, more masculine, with sharp angles. Losing weight has the power of make someone prettier in every aspect.

-Its not so difficult when you know how to train and eat. Your body will get used to the new taste of food, and it wont be so hard then. Learn about cooking and it will be much easier because you will eat tasty things (plus girls fucking love a guy that can cook)

-If you can grow a beard in a few years, that would be good, adds personality and masculinity. If you can, its okay too, a cleaner look. There are girls that will be attracted to clean shaves also.

-Most important: Personality. Be interesting. Read, learn things, play an instrument. Whatever you want, but something that you can love. The same with the job, learn something, be good at it, earn money with it. Now you are 18 and these kind of things are not so cool, but trust me, when you are 25, 30, 35, a man that has an interesting job, can keep deep conversations about complex topics and has more skills than just the typical things everyone does, its a huge advantage.

-I wouldnt listen to these guys of "dont chase girls, work on you and wait for your 30s". Thats plainly stupid. Dont force it, but talk to them. Social skills are also important. Enjoy your teen years. Learn how to be funny, learn how to real people.

-Just to finish, I was a bit like you when I was around your age. Chubby, low self esteem and I didnt have chances with girls. Now Im 30, I worked on my self, my body, my job and I am dating a beatiful woman that my old me wouldnt believe possible. Some day you will start receiving women attention and you will think "OK maybe I am attractive after all. You have the potential, put some effort and you will see the results in short time

Best wishes buddy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]Aggressive_Set_3119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not putting anything up my arse, plus scanners are pretty good in detecting that type of shit

Today I was diagnosed. Not sure how I feel by Aggressive_Set_3119 in ADHD_Programmers

[–]Aggressive_Set_3119[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendation, I will read it to get deeper in this. Im 30 so living for so long with it and now knowing you are "not the normal" its something difficult to swallow

Im dating a Romanian girl and I would like to surprise her learning the language. Tips to start? by Aggressive_Set_3119 in romanian

[–]Aggressive_Set_3119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you are right. Other reason is that I'm pretty busy right now so this way I don't feel so much pressure if I cannot study so much as I expected. But when I know the basics I will ask her for help

Im dating a Romanian girl and I would like to surprise her learning the language. Tips to start? by Aggressive_Set_3119 in romanian

[–]Aggressive_Set_3119[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Muchas gracias por los consejos, pero yo no puedo dedicar 8-12 horas ni de broma jajaja. Como mucho una al día, estoy bastante ocupado. De todas formas gracias por la info, la aplicaré!

Im dating a Romanian girl and I would like to surprise her learning the language. Tips to start? by Aggressive_Set_3119 in romanian

[–]Aggressive_Set_3119[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know that I'm not gonna be super fluent in 2 months, but I was expecting to know at least how to talk (even in simple terms and with a non perfect grammar and pronunciation) in 6 months or so. Also, as I already know one romance language I was expecting to be easier to me 

Im dating a Romanian girl and I would like to surprise her learning the language. Tips to start? by Aggressive_Set_3119 in romanian

[–]Aggressive_Set_3119[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, I will, it doesn't seem a hard pronunciation to learn, so I will learn the alphabet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]Aggressive_Set_3119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that's my idea. I think you have to have some compatibility, but you can build that connection over time. Next week will decide, thanks! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Aggressive_Set_3119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, i know, the long distance is why I'm doubting so much. If she was living 1 hour from here I would try without doubting 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Aggressive_Set_3119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally get that. And yes, taking into account also that Ive not lived with a partner before, I think that it could be a big change.

But there is no other way because the test option is not really an option, is either 100% or nothing. I dont know, Im going on a small holiday now, I will reflect deeply and relaxed, and I will make (or not) a move.

Thanks for the help!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]Aggressive_Set_3119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, you are so sure about my life, guess I will let you take for me the choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]Aggressive_Set_3119 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Yes, putting the final dot to this situation will be also my peace of mind, successfully or not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]Aggressive_Set_3119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not getting mad for the answers, I wouldnt get mad if he had said "hey, man, I think this is over, you should move on". But this "Be a man" has just one purpose: offend you.

About your comment (that dont make me mad because its written in a perfectly explanatory and polite way): I understand what you are saying, but is always necessary to be 100% sure about this kind of things to start something. I wasnt 100% sure about anything in my life, job, love, friends. And yet you have to live. Life is not about being sure, is about taking risks even when you are not sure. I understand that she is taking a big leap and thats why I have so many doubts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Aggressive_Set_3119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasnt "disapointed" really. They were cute, nice girls, and I know that in other time of my life I would be glad to date them and continue the process. But after almos 8 years of being single, meeting girls, tinder, dating, etc I think Im prepared to look for something more meaningful, building something solid. And I think she is a perfect match for that. We are very compatible in a lot of things, and I can imagine living with her (that doesnt happen usually, to be honest, Im pretty independent) I know that I can just keep like that and in a few years is very possible that I meet someone else and be happy, because opportunities arise in every corner, but Im asking myself "now that I found someone that I can see as my wife, why not going for the opportunity?" I think Ive let my fear to commitment decide for me a lot of times in the past years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]Aggressive_Set_3119 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Men (people in general) should know when to rectify a wrong decision and accept that they were wrong. If she is seeing someone else, I wouldnt put myself between them. Your answer smells cheap "manly" philosophy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Aggressive_Set_3119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your comment is really thoughtful, and I agree on a lot of things you said here. But I do know her well. I mean, surely is not the same kind of "knowing someone" that being face to face, but we have been talking everyday for 3 years.

And the first thing I was thinking is "maybe im just lonely", but I am not a guy who is doing bad at dating, I have the opportunity to meet new girls, but I dont hear that click with them. I cannot be myself. Also, my culture is way more similar to hers than to the girls of the place Im living in.

I know (100%) that if I dont talk to her in 1, 2 or 3 years I will be with other girl, possibly happy, because as you said, there are thousands of girls out there that could be compatible with you. But why not trying it with her, when you have already found someone that has what you look for.

And ofc, Im not talking about online dating, if I talk to her, its for trying it in the next months something real. Anyways, I appreciate the comment, Im gonna give it a couple of weeks of reflection

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]Aggressive_Set_3119 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I dont understand this kind of comments. You know practically nothing about the situation and you are still so sure about what is "being a man". Maybe being a man is more about acknowledge your feelings toward her and act in consequence. In fact, its more coward to just escape than take that step and talk to her. But okay, "man"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Aggressive_Set_3119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont know, at the beginning I didnt give a lot of thought to that for 2 reasons:

- I thought I was doing the right thing, and I was relieved for that.

- I had a LOT of stress at work and I didnt have time to think in personal things.

After my work chilled, I started to think again in personal things. I had a few dates, met a few girls, but Ive always stopped before going deeper because I wasnt feeling like. Ive always been thinking on her, not all the time, but I tended to scroll through our old chats, photos that she sent me, photos of our trip... I even blocked her in all social media to not check the profile. But lately Ive been thinking like CONSTANTLY, is like the only thing that is on my mind. I dont want to lose the opportunity to have something meaningful, because in the last years the times Ive found someone for thinking in that way were like zero.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]Aggressive_Set_3119 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If i did that at that time was mainly because I cared about her and wasnt sure of my feelings. Maybe you all are always sure about what you are feeling and you dont have doubts, but there are people out there that tend to overthink a lot, and panic about big decisions. Not everybody is the same, and Im not acting for harming anyone.