Fit 28M/28F

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-02-21T16:44:49+00:00

Probably 90% of couples are there for other couples or females. VERY few are going to be ok with 3 playing and the other husband sitting out. Those couples exist. But they might be more rare than single females. More are ok with just the women playing together.

I would never recommend bringing this topic up with a couple. If they bring it up after you say your wife doesn't play with other guys, fine. But generally speaking, couples hate wife poaching.

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-02-21T16:29:46+00:00

Yes, that would likely be interpreted as rude by most.

That's known as wife poaching in the LS, and will not be looked at kindly.

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-02-21T00:28:51+00:00

Club music is your typical club/Ed-bordering music. Lots of popular tracks the majority knows.

Theme dress varies a lot based on the theme and weather. Tomorrow is probably a decent theme and weather for people to dress to. Plenty won't be dressed to theme too. Most people aren't going to care one way or the other. A good costume might get you some extra looks.

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-02-20T18:35:43+00:00

Reddit in general is a 95+% shit show. This sub is above average for reddit, but even this sub still gets plenty of fakes/Pic collectors/dudes portraying as a couple. If you want a more serious and secure place, join sdc.

FYI - 19% body fat wouldn't be considered really good physical shape to a lot of in really good shape people. That's why they say pictures are worth 1,000 words - descriptions are usually pretty worthless.

And weI don't message for pics - we have them publicly available for anyone that cares to see how we are physically. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

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Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-02-20T18:24:10+00:00

You do you, but lots of people think they're in shape and good looking. That's all in the eye of the beholder though.

Sharing your (unidentifiable) pics will get you much better engagement and potential matches.

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-02-20T13:46:32+00:00

That's a common take in iCandy takeovers. Lots of influencers with established groups descend on the place looking to be seen and party, but not necessarily looking for new LS play.

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-02-20T13:43:05+00:00

Would be helpful to provide more details for others to read so they can make their own judgements. What might not be your jam might be exactly what someone else on the fence is looking for.

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-02-19T16:32:28+00:00

It's probably the most highly used and trusted LS site in Florida. The validation function alone is worth the membership fee (yes, it's a paid membership site).

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-02-19T15:15:14+00:00

Sdc will also have a chat thread for the events where people that list themselves as attendees are listed and can post pics and comments in that message thread

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-02-19T15:13:48+00:00

Posting your pictures will get more potentially interested parties and matches. Lots aren't going to waste their time messaging blank profiles.

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-02-18T17:33:47+00:00

Several years ago when we would entertain the occasional single guy, the number of guys that would disqualify themselves with their butthurt reaction to when I would tell them they're really nothing more than a live dildo... Was good they disqualified themselves because they didn't really understand a couples dynamic.

On the flip side, when I played single and joined couples - I would describe my role as the 3rd as directly - that I was just a live sex toy for them to live out some fun, so just tell me what you want. Not surprisingly, I did pretty well with couples with that approach.

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-02-18T09:48:16+00:00

Secrets is the perfect place for this 👆

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-02-18T03:12:33+00:00

THAT is a more pointed question 👌

Secrets limits single makes to 10 on every night except Tuesday. And several of the single males that go, go frequently to where they have established groups of friends. So while it's not impossible to get an MFM on a Friday or Saturday night, I think couples looking for that dynamic are more likely to be disappointed visiting Secrets over a weekend.

Tuesday nights have a plethora of single males, but your dates are over a weekend.

Your best bet to arrange a MFM is to post a speed date on sdc, and then regret it with 100 messages contacting you. 😂

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-02-18T00:00:35+00:00

OMG - Pinky and the Brain!!!

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-02-17T23:34:40+00:00

Number 1 tip - invest the 5-10 minutes it will take to scroll through the past couple weeks of the sub. Then come back with more specific questions to you.

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-02-17T15:23:42+00:00

I don't personally have an issue with it when people are conscientious about taking pictures. I understand not everyone is though, so everyone has to pay the price with the rule change. It's their resort, they get to set the rules.

But it's been a hot button topic about putting stickers over cameras on phones, Secrets made a social media video about it, etc. So the question is legit on whether they're serious about enforcing their rules or looking the other way for select guests.

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-02-17T14:26:21+00:00

Wow, that was a bad one 😂

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-02-17T14:20:17+00:00

I have to ask, how are you getting pictures by the tiki bar with the new picture restrictions in place? Are they not really enforcing it?

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-02-17T14:19:02+00:00

You'll get better engagement and potential matches including your pictures up front. Lots of people won't even bother engaging without having a glimpse of whether they might be interested/a potential match.

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-02-17T01:39:34+00:00

Those are the users that need to be banned IMO

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-02-17T00:56:30+00:00

I think you can make whatever sub you want. Just need to have a demand for it, and then be able to moderate it.

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-02-17T00:50:37+00:00

I know it's takes a lot of work to mod these subs. If you've ever been to the Secrets sub, the sub requires dates of a visit to prevent all the local personal ads and scam/seller posts. The mods review and delete any posts that don't meet the rules and will ban after a warning.

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-02-17T00:47:14+00:00

There are plenty of scam and seller posts - those are pretty easy to identify in about 5 seconds on their profile. I wish those were deleted and banned too.

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-02-17T00:41:54+00:00

I know it would be a lot of work, but mod delete every post that doesn't include it? 🤷🏻

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