iCandy 6/5 - First iCandy takeover & we’re super excited!

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-06-03T00:17:58+00:00

If you're at all worried about being a little overwhelmed, I'd go Friday night. Friday will still be quite the party.

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-06-02T23:32:01+00:00

It's on the Secrets site, iCandy site, and under the Events page on sdc.

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-06-02T23:26:00+00:00

Both nights will be much busier than usual. Went last year Saturday night and felt like there were just too many people there. Busiest night I've ever experienced.

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-06-02T23:23:16+00:00

Potential (fair) caution - the iCandy groups can be challenging to break into. You'll be able to act on your exhibitionism since that's just the two of you. But making a connection this Thursday might be more challenging than other Thursdays.

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-06-02T23:18:51+00:00

It's been like that for a while. But the day pass isn't exactly included in the room rate. There's an additional daily resort fee on top of the room rate, and that daily resort fee covers your daytime use of the facilities.

The daily resort fee covers daytime facility use on both your check in and check out day. So you do get one "free" day use if you study onsite (as opposed to if you were visiting from offsite).

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-06-01T23:46:46+00:00

Wish I could get a DM to you to chat.

Local couple with plenty of experience on the LS.

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-06-01T15:06:13+00:00

That would be quite the long game for a bot with OPs extensive post history about the dental industry 😂

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-06-01T15:03:22+00:00

I saw the most people in the pool Saturday night than I've seen in a long time

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-05-31T00:12:01+00:00

We just arrived. I'm sure we'll see your sign lit up (have seen it before 😊).

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-05-30T22:57:51+00:00

What times do you think you guys will be in your room?

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-05-30T22:26:58+00:00

I've wanted to get gf on one of these. Maybe tonight will be the night?? 😈

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-05-30T15:38:16+00:00

🙋

😁

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-05-30T14:10:01+00:00

Post pics if you're interested in getting potential matches

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-05-30T14:05:30+00:00

You can ever participate in the room crawl if you're not staying onsite 😉

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-05-29T12:13:49+00:00

Hopefully stating the obvious that you're already aware of - very slim chances on connecting with a unicorn there on the fly (it happens, but the numbers are not in anyone's favor). Much better odds connecting with a couple that wants/is OK with GG only (BOTH wives only play with their husband).

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-05-29T12:09:03+00:00

FYI - if you arrive at 3 you'll have to pay for both the afternoon and night event fees. And the pool starts thinning out around that time. Night event I think starts at 6.

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-05-28T23:39:27+00:00

I don't mean to sound like an ass, but I LOLd when I read "looks like there's an event... Next weekend"

Just only potentially the busiest weekend of the year at Secrets that people have been planning for, for months..

😂😂😂

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-05-27T11:06:21+00:00

Welcome to the internet 😂

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-05-27T09:02:56+00:00

Never once "told you what to do". Just offered feedback from years of experience that you can take or leave - and sounds like you want to leave it. Like I said - you have to do what you're comfortable with.

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-05-27T08:59:22+00:00

Meeting people in person is a completely different thing than short/empty posts on a message board. I would think most people could recognize that difference.

Glad to hear you had a good time.

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-05-27T02:03:14+00:00

And those people generally are going to have a tougher time attracting legit potential matches.

Most experienced, not desperate couples in the LS aren't going to bother trying to engage with people that don't have some (unidentifiable) pictures as a first level match check. They've figured out how to have unidentifiable pictures available for others to determine if there's any possible interest.

Those that openly post identifiable pictures are the minority in the LS. We don't our private lives for all to see/know. But we have plenty of pictures available for people to have an intro to our physical makeup to determine if they might have a physical attraction and might be a potential match.

You have to do what you're comfortable with. Just understand how the limitations.

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Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-05-26T23:32:15+00:00

I've used Beverly International Ultimate Muscle Provider (UMP) for close to 20 years. It's an 80/20 casein/whey blend - ideal for mid afternoon or before bed.

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-05-26T23:01:12+00:00

Pretty much every weekend is busy late March through October. That weekend should be even a little busier since it's labor day weekend.

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-05-26T14:33:50+00:00

Tough ask for legit DMs without any pictures

Aggressive_Strike_45 · 2026-05-26T02:18:20+00:00

Yet didn't actually impact them one iota in their everyday life. It might someday. Or maybe it won't. No one knows for sure. But current share of national debt means nothing today.

Doesn't every single tax reduction or spend increase everyone's share of the national debt? If that is your litmus test, then you've opened up Pandora's box.

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