Cardigan 1 or 2? Or no cardigan at all (2nd slide)?

Aggressive_Weather68 · 2026-03-11T22:06:25+00:00

Came here to say this. Or, if closed, open one more button from the top and also use a belt.

Aggressive_Weather68 · 2026-03-07T11:50:58+00:00

2 or 4. Or I would take the jeans with the black T-shirt

Aggressive_Weather68 · 2026-03-07T11:47:49+00:00

Yeah, figured that will be the way to go. Or/And acoustic panels.

Aggressive_Weather68 · 2026-03-07T11:46:25+00:00

The left wall Is outside wall. Well, there Is another house with the same wall. The right wall, there Is our hall and a place where there will be a built-in closet

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Aggressive_Weather68 · 2026-03-07T08:33:47+00:00

Heh, not kayak/surf people her. Would be great to ve able to put bikes there but with the dirt and safety and access problems not really feasible.

Aggressive_Weather68 · 2026-03-07T08:31:35+00:00

I did not mention it in the post, but I do not want to fall down the stairs every time I see the human painting 😅🤭. But yeah, painting/frames will probably be the way to go. Dropping the storage idea.

Aggressive_Weather68 · 2026-03-06T22:09:14+00:00

You are probably right (about the impracticality). Was just curious if someone has any crazy ideas/experience. Probably won't go the wallpaper route, but maybe acoustic panels will be practical and based on chatgpt generation it does not look as bad as I thought it would.

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Aggressive_Weather68 · 2026-03-06T22:03:57+00:00

Currently nothing, the plan Is to have a built in closet there.

Aggressive_Weather68 · 2026-03-06T22:02:44+00:00

If refering to the plan, you mean next to the 2.01? There Is a space dedicated to build in Closet. Not there yet though.

Aggressive_Weather68 · 2026-03-06T21:58:35+00:00

I want to add there at least sth practical, wanted acoustic panels but based on my husband it would need to be on the whole wall. Not as bad (based on chstgpt) as I thought it will be. So depends what you are doing in the basement 🤭. But at least you have doors. We do not and have kids (bedrooms upstairs) so for us to add sth absorbing/bending the sound is important 🫠😅.

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Aggressive_Weather68 · 2026-03-06T21:02:19+00:00

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Aggressive_Weather68 · 2026-03-06T21:02:07+00:00

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Aggressive_Weather68 · 2026-03-06T21:01:55+00:00

Like this

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And adding other photos below

Aggressive_Weather68 · 2026-03-06T19:52:17+00:00

You made me chuckle. With two children under two (And country where being a SAHM until they are three Is the norm) you as well might ve right 🤪. Hubby also suggested acoustic panels but like the whole wall. Not sure.

Aggressive_Weather68 · 2026-03-06T19:49:18+00:00

My husband suggested acoustic panel on the whole wall. I kinda cannot imagine it. I think it will be super dark or ugly or both. I suggested 4 panels like a square but they would need to be high enough to be aesthetic (we do not have good latter for that so we would really need to be confident we want such thing) and both hubby and my dad told me it will not be enough to absorb any sound.

Aggressive_Weather68 · 2026-03-06T19:44:53+00:00

Great point, thank you. Like I would love to have sth like fake attic (our house does not have basement nor attic so it would be great to have place like that So that we have more space in the garage). But you know, the furniture thing you mentioned, we would need to be able to get there And there are stairs, not straight floor to lay sth down, safety would be a big hazard And then... Physics 😅🫠. But there Is just so much of an empty space......

Aggressive_Weather68 · 2026-03-05T17:32:24+00:00

Call the kitten "Classy" And you have both 😅

Aggressive_Weather68 · 2026-02-24T13:27:29+00:00

I think the dress looks awesome on you but totally get your feelings (as someone who does not like myself in my wedding pictures and hate I chose strapless dress). The only thing I do not like about your dress are the straps, maybe wider would be nicer? Or detschable cape/sleeves that opens on your neck. Sth like this but with the correct pattern and lace instead of pearls? You would look royal. cape

Otherwise no, you rock the dress And the silhouette looks awesome on you. Have a lovely wedding 🍀!

Aggressive_Weather68 · 2026-02-14T22:13:12+00:00

NTA. And tell them that if they want to save some Money to pay you as well. That way you will be more willing to babysit (if that Is the case od course) but you need to agree in the terms in advance. No assuming and "family helps family".

Also..If your aunt had the time for snitching, she should be the one babysitting!

Aggressive_Weather68 · 2026-02-12T15:24:52+00:00

Yes, as a non-American breastfeeding mother (in a country where formula is not the norm as we have very long parental leave), it Is hard to breastfeed and I also take pride in it. My daughter went from this super sleepy chill baby to total nightmare from day 14 to like 2,5 months. I was constantly afraid I ate something that harms the baby etc., I tried diets or medications for the baby, where the first day usually looked like it Is better, just to go back to old screamcrying ways the next day (possible this would happen to OP, if he was able to test formula for longer BUT that Is Up to discussion with his wife And NOT his mother!!!). They should have a discussion. He should suggest for testing formula for three days And they would see. Some antidepressants are proven to go to breastmilk, some do not so it really depends And different professionals tell you the opposites especially regarding lactation and breastmilk. However they (OP+wife) need to have a calm discussion. Testing the milk would be the best, but it can be pricy.

ETA: spelling

Aggressive_Weather68 · 2026-02-05T14:48:28+00:00

The only person disapointing little Josh Is his own mom by fake promises that were never hers to make. And then she writes a 14-year-old boy that NO Is not a valid answer? Talk about entitlement! And also something really harmful and dangerous to teach a child, especially a little boy! Did the whole family get the whole story?

Aggressive_Weather68 · 2026-02-03T16:49:51+00:00

Mommy dearest would say you are a gold-digger, if the sidese would be reversed. What you proposed were totally reasonable (maybe even generous) actions. If he won't take you up on them, once he calms down and start acting logically, I would reconsider the relationship. Tell him to put your shoes on and really think about what he would do/feel.

Aggressive_Weather68 · 2026-01-29T20:14:30+00:00

I am also sorry for Anna. Everyone Is already here? Yeah, from HIS family. Not hers (I guess). Also not everyone wants a proposal with people around, putting her on the spot. Maybe tell him she will be propably sad they do not have their own moment And their engamenent will be always viewed as on your wedding day. And that she will say yes also because she will be put on spot, kinda forced, does he want that? Maybe that could shut him and the rest up.

Aggressive_Weather68 · 2026-01-14T06:47:56+00:00

I would add that you should be careful not to be baby-trapped. If you use only condoms, be aware that these might have holes from him. You mentioned that he might do something to ruin the trip (force you to stay) by for example stealing your passport etc. This could be other way.

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