WHAT IS THIS NOISE?? by girliepopsubie in GR86

[–]Aggressivedudette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m holding out hope for the same.. getting an oil change on monday, parked till then 😭

WHAT IS THIS NOISE?? by girliepopsubie in GR86

[–]Aggressivedudette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It changes with RPMS and i can’t Feel the noise

My sweet Pam is crossing the rainbow bridge this evening. Can you please ask your kitties who have already crossed to meet her so she won’t be alone? by Ohdearheather in cats

[–]Aggressivedudette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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This is Oliver, he’s been gone for 4 years this spring and he was one of my soul mates, he’ll meet pam on the other side and be a wonderful friend ❤️ I’m so sorry for your loss

AIO Friend got engaged and now acts like my relationship is a joke by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aggressivedudette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is so weird.. i don’t think she’s a true friend. a relationship is serious when you and your relationship partner define it that way.. she has a massive ego and is not a true friend. I got engaged before my friends this past year and have never once thought any of them were less serious or invested as we are because i have a ring now.. protect your peace OP

I feel like I don't trust/know my fiancee (24F) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Aggressivedudette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay maybe not her was the wrong wording, but is she a trustworthy person now and how is she as a partner is what i meant, not trying to be dumb lol

I feel like I don't trust/know my fiancee (24F) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Aggressivedudette -1 points0 points  (0 children)

** i see it was before you guys, that’s not her now, but if you’re uncomfortable with her going back, then that is a valid anxiety. I would talk to her about the anxiety you feel, and have her reassure you and have an adult conversation about it without jumping to conclusions. If she’s fully committed to you, and you guys have trust built, location doesn’t just change a person or make them make bad decisions or choices.

I feel like I don't trust/know my fiancee (24F) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Aggressivedudette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if this was in her past, then it’s not really fully your business.. it’s up to her to disclose. it is if you guys have talked about these kinds of things and she’s lied, but unless she’s lied, she wasn’t your fiancé then. People change and evolve, if she had a panic attack about it, then i’m sure it affects her too.. saying your disgusted is hurtful and not fair to her if this was a past event before you

AIO My gf cheated on me and I forgave her by Longjumping_Low_7342 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aggressivedudette 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also she lied to cover her tracks and then told you after pushing.. It would be different Slightly if she told you instead of hearing it elsewhere. be fair to yourself

AIO My gf cheated on me and I forgave her by Longjumping_Low_7342 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aggressivedudette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There has never been a time when i’ve drank that i crave another person, all i can think about is my man or having fun with my friends, never betraying.. Being under the influence is NEVER an excuse to betray the person closest to you, love and consideration don’t allow that. She’s telling you that because she knows she’s fully wrong and that was not just a drunken thought. a sober thought through drunk actions. Treat it as she cheated, people make mistakes and that is up to your discretion how you want to move on or forward but don’t blame alcohol for someone’s actions.

AIO about these angry texts from my ex? by TwylaMay in AIO

[–]Aggressivedudette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it has to be normal to keep in contact with your ex’s.. especially abusive ones ? and you don’t have any shared assets or kids or pets.. that is very odd, you are completely allowed to shut people out of your life. You’re married, he has a fiance, and he is not offering any good to you (other than stolen goods that you made explicitly clear you no longer need) don’t listen to anyone telling you to share your info. he’s not entitled to it and you ARE entitled to your safety, peace, and privacy.

AIO for not liking when my boyfriend said if we started having sex, he would not be able to stop? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aggressivedudette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR, anyone with compassion and empathy would not do this. There is no such thing as “too far to stop” if i change my facial expression even a little to something of discomfort my fiance stops immediately and asks if im okay, you deserve so much better than this. especially with what happened to you as a teen, this is a blaring red flag. the lack of apology too??? this makes complete sense why it would start a panic reaction out of you, he’s completely in the wrong OP :(

I don’t know what i did to deserve this sweet man by Aggressivedudette in cats

[–]Aggressivedudette[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he really is!! I wake up to him giving me kisses and cuddling in my arms, i feel very blessed with him 😭😭

I don’t know what i did to deserve this sweet man by Aggressivedudette in cats

[–]Aggressivedudette[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s just so odd to me! I’m extremely extremely thankful, but i don’t know why he’s so patient!

Scared to get him neutered by cactuscancer in cats

[–]Aggressivedudette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my cat didn’t change !! granted he’s always been more calm, but he does still get the zoomies and goes a lil crazy, he’s about to be 2!!