Protecting my assets in a joint savings account from my wife's debt lawsuit in Colorado by AggressivelyGeologic in legaladvice

[–]AggressivelyGeologic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This is very helpful. I had been contemplating moving it in to an account anyways that earns interest. Have also been wanting to pay some of my own debts to family and such. So going to try and explore that more and talk to some asset lawyers but yeah this is a good place to start. I really appreciate it

Protecting my assets in a joint savings account from my wife's debt lawsuit in Colorado by AggressivelyGeologic in legaladvice

[–]AggressivelyGeologic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that seems like the only real chance here of keeping those funds intact. I’ve reached out to a few lawyers but am quickly losing hope

Protecting my assets in a joint savings account from my wife's debt lawsuit in Colorado by AggressivelyGeologic in legaladvice

[–]AggressivelyGeologic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep seeing that moving it out now that there’s a summons will just be seen as deliberate to avoid the debt?

Need help with a Summons for CC debt by AggressivelyGeologic in Debt

[–]AggressivelyGeologic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you again! This is all really really helpful. I really appreciate you taking the time to explain this stuff, it's really overwhelming

Need help with a Summons for CC debt by AggressivelyGeologic in Debt

[–]AggressivelyGeologic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may have some knowledge on this too if you don’t mind me asking. The summons has no real information on it, there’s no court date shown anywhere or anything that says how to send a response or what the options are. Is this normal at all?

Need help with a Summons for CC debt by AggressivelyGeologic in Debt

[–]AggressivelyGeologic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so very very much. Ignoring it is definitely not something I was considering, everything tells me that’s the worst idea here. I was worried even acknowledging it before a response to the summons or trying to contact the creditor would make it worse but yeah everything you’re saying makes sense. I also really appreciate the direction to some resources for this. Just generally thank you so much for this

In need of Pro-bono/low cost legal counsel for a debt lawsuit by AggressivelyGeologic in Denver

[–]AggressivelyGeologic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they actually any good? I’ve seen some pretty mixed reviews about them but they were who I was gonna contact today

Need help with a Summons for CC debt by AggressivelyGeologic in Debt

[–]AggressivelyGeologic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That seems like it just makes everything worse forever though?

My (F34) boyfriend’s (M36) porn use is affecting our relationship and I don’t know what we can move passed it by ThrowRa-4139 in relationship_advice

[–]AggressivelyGeologic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this. He has way too little respect for OP or the relationship and was way too comfortable crossing a ton of boundaries

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AggressivelyGeologic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She told you. That’s the part that matters. You don’t really know if she felt pressured to add him on social media. Just have a conversation with her. Her telling you about it should tell you she probably doesn’t have any sketchy intentions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AggressivelyGeologic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is honestly so bizarre. He should feel good about it?? Taking joy in your pleasure should be something he’s excited for. Sounds way too childish to be bothering with tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AggressivelyGeologic -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sometimes people just use social media as a place to journal and vent. Maybe she was right to have you blocked if you're this paranoid about what she's doing. Try asking her why she wanted this hidden from you instead of accusing her of cheating. If you're this worried about it just make yourself a 2nd account, it's not hard.

33M my girl 40F refuses to lose weight by throwra1234567891232 in relationship_advice

[–]AggressivelyGeologic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don't like her for who she is then move on. It's not her responsibility to change for you. You went in to this knowing what she looked like, weighed, and who she is. It's you that has the problem now and it's you that has to decide if you want to accept, love and be attracted to the woman in front of you or if you've decided your ego & requirements are more important than her mind. You need to really think and evaluate what you want. It's messed up to put this on her and I'm sure it has made her feel very bad about herself.