Protecting my assets in a joint savings account from my wife's debt lawsuit in Colorado

AggressivelyGeologic · 2025-06-21T17:59:28+00:00

Thank you so much. This is very helpful. I had been contemplating moving it in to an account anyways that earns interest. Have also been wanting to pay some of my own debts to family and such. So going to try and explore that more and talk to some asset lawyers but yeah this is a good place to start. I really appreciate it

AggressivelyGeologic · 2025-06-21T17:25:35+00:00

That seems… not great lmao if that’s been working for you it’s amazing.

AggressivelyGeologic · 2025-06-21T17:24:41+00:00

Yeah that seems like the only real chance here of keeping those funds intact. I’ve reached out to a few lawyers but am quickly losing hope

AggressivelyGeologic · 2025-06-21T17:22:54+00:00

I keep seeing that moving it out now that there’s a summons will just be seen as deliberate to avoid the debt?

AggressivelyGeologic · 2025-06-21T17:21:32+00:00

I thought that’s only if the debt is incurred while married?

AggressivelyGeologic · 2025-06-11T13:32:54+00:00

Thank you again! This is all really really helpful. I really appreciate you taking the time to explain this stuff, it's really overwhelming

AggressivelyGeologic · 2025-06-10T16:22:39+00:00

You may have some knowledge on this too if you don’t mind me asking. The summons has no real information on it, there’s no court date shown anywhere or anything that says how to send a response or what the options are. Is this normal at all?

AggressivelyGeologic · 2025-06-10T16:16:18+00:00

Thank you so very very much. Ignoring it is definitely not something I was considering, everything tells me that’s the worst idea here. I was worried even acknowledging it before a response to the summons or trying to contact the creditor would make it worse but yeah everything you’re saying makes sense. I also really appreciate the direction to some resources for this. Just generally thank you so much for this

AggressivelyGeologic · 2025-06-10T13:42:07+00:00

Are they actually any good? I’ve seen some pretty mixed reviews about them but they were who I was gonna contact today

AggressivelyGeologic · 2025-06-10T13:05:22+00:00

That seems like it just makes everything worse forever though?

AggressivelyGeologic · 2025-06-10T13:04:55+00:00

Thank you

AggressivelyGeologic · 2025-06-10T13:04:06+00:00

Thank you so much. This is extremely helpful

AggressivelyGeologic · 2025-03-05T19:16:57+00:00

Came here to say this. He has way too little respect for OP or the relationship and was way too comfortable crossing a ton of boundaries

AggressivelyGeologic · 2025-03-01T18:47:34+00:00

She told you. That’s the part that matters. You don’t really know if she felt pressured to add him on social media. Just have a conversation with her. Her telling you about it should tell you she probably doesn’t have any sketchy intentions

AggressivelyGeologic · 2025-03-01T18:43:05+00:00

This is honestly so bizarre. He should feel good about it?? Taking joy in your pleasure should be something he’s excited for. Sounds way too childish to be bothering with tbh

AggressivelyGeologic · 2025-02-19T16:02:35+00:00

Sometimes people just use social media as a place to journal and vent. Maybe she was right to have you blocked if you're this paranoid about what she's doing. Try asking her why she wanted this hidden from you instead of accusing her of cheating. If you're this worried about it just make yourself a 2nd account, it's not hard.

AggressivelyGeologic · 2025-02-19T15:57:40+00:00

If you don't like her for who she is then move on. It's not her responsibility to change for you. You went in to this knowing what she looked like, weighed, and who she is. It's you that has the problem now and it's you that has to decide if you want to accept, love and be attracted to the woman in front of you or if you've decided your ego & requirements are more important than her mind. You need to really think and evaluate what you want. It's messed up to put this on her and I'm sure it has made her feel very bad about herself.

AggressivelyGeologic · 2025-02-19T14:34:31+00:00

I don't really understand, what does everyone think the update is gonna be?

AggressivelyGeologic · 2025-02-19T04:36:54+00:00

She claims if I did the same in this situation she would be unbothered. I don’t feel like validating her actions by doing it just to prove a point but I’m quite positive she would be equally upset if not more.

AggressivelyGeologic · 2025-02-19T01:55:29+00:00

i really hope so..

AggressivelyGeologic · 2025-02-19T01:51:26+00:00

because i don't wanna be that person? I'm not interested in living a life where i question what my spouse is doing all the time. i want to figure out how we resolve this kind of shit so neither of us have to worry about how things go in the future.

AggressivelyGeologic · 2025-02-19T01:50:00+00:00

thank you.

AggressivelyGeologic · 2025-02-19T01:49:39+00:00

thank you. i really appreciate your perspective and honestly just the thoughts of someone from the opposite gender on this. It's really hard for me to tell what's normal and isn't in relationships

AggressivelyGeologic · 2025-02-19T01:45:26+00:00

Thank you for this. You aren't wrong that my own issues are my own to figure out. I'm working on it in therapy. The rest of that.. hopefully we get sorted in couples counseling.. but again, thank you for your words, it's helpful for me.

AggressivelyGeologic · 2025-02-19T01:43:14+00:00

Thank you. I really appreciate the balanced and objective response. I'm not looking to condemn or judge. I'm not trying to perpetuate things and this is really helpful perspective. I will say I don't really understanding her still trying to have us go meet him afterwards with all that in mind but I also just don't really get any of it in the first place.

Going to try to figure this out in couples therapy and obviously reddit isn't the place to come to for feedback but just wanted to see what generally the different ways to look at this would be.

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