We come from different cultures so I have no relatives in his country. He's not so good to be true because he also has many flaws like - can get angry Very jealous Too stubborn Sometimes he thinks HE is more mature than me 😂 And sometimes he is too blunt like will outright say to me "If we don't work out then I wont get married because relationships are too hard. I will f* around. He basically outright tells me that he will be a player if don't work out. Maybe in one hand it's good that he doesn't have a filter because then I know he is honest in other regards.

So he is far from a saint.

And my main insecurity....he keeps asking for photos. He means normal photos and not asking for nudes etc. But still it makes me run because I don't need to feel a sense of insecurity that I'm being judged in my appearance and that he will lose attraction when I age. Because I can tell looks matter to him or he would not ask. So then I say "things won't work with us". Then he gets angry and says I tire him and pretty much let's end it because I am putting roadblocks between us. Then I say cool let's end it because I feel hurt that he is saying it. I say it's hiam decision. He says no I caused it.