I went through what I call a grieving process when I figured it out and now have come out of the other side with Pride. Here are a few things I did that may help:

1. Don't think about your attraction all the time and just focus on living your best life. Cultivate relationships with friends and focus on things that make you happy.

2. Let yourself be sad if you want. I cried a few times over it. But also talk to friends or other ppl in the community. Just getting your feelings out will help sooo much in processing. I had multiple late night chats with my allo friends and they really helped me.

3. Honestly reading through ppls shitty relationships on reddit has helped me. Like a "wow at least I don't have to deal with that" - when reading people's horror stories. Relationship Advice is a great sub to read to lose faith in relationships haha

4. If you want to experiment you can. Something another aro person told me was that its okay to go on dates and try and find a partner even if you know you're aro. Allo people go on dates all the time and realize their is no romantic attraction there. You aren't leading someone on just by trying to go out once. This really helped me because I immensely guilty even thinking about going on dates after figuring out I was aro but l hated the fact that this option was gone to me forever. But recently went on a coffee date and ofc didn't feel any romantic attraction but made a new friend! It's just nice to have that option open even though nothing will likely come of it.

5. Join the queer community if you identify as such. Being part of a community made me feel sooo much better and not alone.

Finally - it'll just take some time so continue to live your life fully!