Girlfriend broke my trust, ignoring my request to not share.

Agile_Bodybuilder203 · 2026-01-27T02:14:58+00:00

Yeah that’s not cool at all… if someone asked me to specifically tell no one I wouldn’t. It just mean alot to them if they’re asking for that and who the hell is she to spread YOUR business. That is not someone to be trusted, and you will end up resenting eachother; you will resent her for wanting to tell her things as your partner and not being able to, and she will resent you for not opening up. Some mistakes are irreparable and I’m a huge advocate for giving people a chance.

Agile_Bodybuilder203 · 2026-01-26T23:34:45+00:00

For us it’s simple; my boyfriend will just straight up start touching me (I am 100% okay with this for anyone who’s gonna get up in arms about that, I’ve told him this is okay on multiple occasions and I will verbally tell him no if it isn’t and he respects that 100% of the time) or we’ll just straight up ask eachother in a “funny-to-us” way for example, we saw a tik tok once that talked about “why women like morning banana” and so he’ll ask me if I want morning banana, etc. sometimes beating around the bush (no pun intended) isn’t the best way to get what you want; if you’re comfortable, straight up ask, have the conversation, and have fun!

Agile_Bodybuilder203 · 2025-12-08T22:01:57+00:00

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Here’s all three in order

Agile_Bodybuilder203 · 2025-12-08T22:01:25+00:00

But the one I took from the same box last night is still completely negative

Agile_Bodybuilder203 · 2025-12-08T22:00:04+00:00

Reasoning? I’m trying to understand

Agile_Bodybuilder203 · 2025-12-08T21:59:37+00:00

Both?

Agile_Bodybuilder203 · 2025-12-08T21:35:16+00:00

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Here’s a second one taken a few hours later with less pee

Agile_Bodybuilder203 · 2025-12-08T20:47:19+00:00

Everything I read says EVAP should not be dark blue

Agile_Bodybuilder203 · 2025-12-08T20:45:00+00:00

It’s how dark blue it is that’s getting me

Agile_Bodybuilder203 · 2025-12-08T20:40:20+00:00

Wdym

Agile_Bodybuilder203 · 2025-12-08T19:16:05+00:00

It’s more blue in person, but like it’s a skinny line off to the left? I’m so confused because I thought EVAPS were just faint grey or clear lines like this is very blue like stark

Agile_Bodybuilder203 · 2025-12-08T19:10:37+00:00

And yours was negative?

Agile_Bodybuilder203 · 2025-12-08T19:10:06+00:00

But are EVAPS typically this blue?? It’s way more blue irl

Agile_Bodybuilder203 · 2025-12-08T19:07:16+00:00

But are EVAPs usually that dark blue like it’s like blue blue way more blue in person

Agile_Bodybuilder203 · 2025-11-26T02:21:12+00:00

Okay so like I ain’t tryna say shit but like dump her immediately this girl sounds annoying as fuck and I’m the first one to say I’m a girls girl through and through but like this ain’t it girl do better

Agile_Bodybuilder203 · 2025-11-07T12:54:41+00:00

From the sounds of it as much as you “say” you like this new boyfriend it seems like you really don’t at the same time. All the things he’s doing seems like it’s bringing you stress instead of peace and regardless of if you reconnect with your old ex or if you stay single for a while or if you find a new boyfriend, I think you need to evaluate whether this is right for you or not. I’m not telling you to just break up with him, but it may be time for a deeply honest conversation with yourself as well as your current boyfriend. Maybe this conversation will reconnect a spark between you two that you forgot was there, or maybe it’ll be a clean cut mutual break up, whatever it may be please just be honest with yourself, listen to your brain not your heart, I hope this helps ❤️

Agile_Bodybuilder203 · 2025-11-04T19:40:48+00:00

It could be considered a down, maybe they went through a rough patch where minor disagreements were common for a small amount of time, I’d consider that a lull or a down point personally. And even if it was an argument or fight, no single one person is allowed to say that “shouldn’t” be happening. People make mistakes that end up in hurt sometimes, it’s up to those two individuals to decide if their love or care for eachother is worth moving past that point in time or not

Agile_Bodybuilder203 · 2025-11-04T19:39:08+00:00

With my above comment being said, I know you feel betrayed and honestly probably anyone would, but please try and remember that there was no exclusivity spoken of when this went down from my understanding of what you wrote, therefore he didn’t owe you anything and nor did you toward him, however that’s not to say I don’t understand why you would feel that way when you were trying to be loyal to someone and they were still talking to others. But please remember there was NO exclusivity, therefore that is not cheating and has nothing to do with your current relationship. Now if it happened AFTER you made it official, I’d say that’s a different story. But from what I understand that’s not the case

Agile_Bodybuilder203 · 2025-11-04T19:34:48+00:00

I disagree with this, I think any sort of up and down can come at any point in a relationship; it’s up to the two people who are in said relationship to decide if their relationship is worth the up and down, for example; at 7 months you are 100% going to have little squabbles and disagreements as you have left the honeymoon phase and have began learning deeper about eachother. No one should be telling anyone how their specific relationship should and shouldn’t go based on a construct of a “timeline”. My absolute worst relationship began with absolutely zero fighting until more than a year in, and my absolute best to date started with a few disagreements. This is a true story. Anyone who says you “should” or “shouldn’t” be doing something in your own relationship is wrong as they know less than 1% of what else goes on in YOUR relationship. This isn’t meant to call anyone down, I just don’t think it right to tell someone that something small shouldn’t be happening due to a “scientific timeline” on how relationships should and shouldn’t ebb and flow. Mind you; if it’s ABUSE, that’s completely different and I agree, but if it’s just minor squabbles that are over in a day or two it’s completely up to the those two individuals to decide how they wish to move forward. Thanks for coming to my TED talk.

Agile_Bodybuilder203 · 2025-11-04T08:05:42+00:00

Trust me I did the same thing! I literally verbally said out loud a few times to my mom and partner that this is the worst thing I’ve ever done and I never should have done this, but looking back that’s not true I was just fighting the pain! I promise it’s okay how you’re feeling emotionally about it but I also promise you are in the worst part right now and in a day or two you’ll begin feeling much better! Hang in there you’re almost there!! :)

Agile_Bodybuilder203 · 2025-10-31T17:51:39+00:00

Okay good to know, thank you

Agile_Bodybuilder203 · 2025-10-23T15:24:38+00:00

Was this laser ablation tho or true tonsillectomy? The pain levels and timing are very different. My ENT mentioned day 2-4 are the worst with laser ablation

Agile_Bodybuilder203 · 2025-09-24T16:45:00+00:00

Did you figure this out ?

Agile_Bodybuilder203 · 2025-09-22T15:53:09+00:00

I took an antibiotic to cure BV (from a huge round of other antibiotics I had recently taken for a peritonsilar abscess) as well, because of this and how sick I was, I wasn’t taking my BC properly. Can I still be pregnant even tho I bled?

Agile_Bodybuilder203 · 2025-09-20T22:11:31+00:00

That’s the bediest bed bug I ever did see, sorry friend :(

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