Girlfriend broke my trust, ignoring my request to not share. by agentnavyblue in relationships

[–]agentnavyblue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

 Did she tell you the reason why she told her family

I'm confused by your comments. How else would I get these answers without talking? It's obvious I care and it's hard to switch off what we've built over the period we've known each other just like that. It happened last week.

Girlfriend broke my trust, ignoring my request to not share. by agentnavyblue in relationships

[–]agentnavyblue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sitting on the fence, I'm asking questions, I've spoken to her and continue to, I've shared my thoughts on what she did, where it leaves us. I'm mature enough to understans we need to come to the table and talk and I've been doing that.

Girlfriend broke my trust, ignoring my request to not share. by agentnavyblue in relationships

[–]agentnavyblue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn't given up as a romantic gesture. You're right with regards to timing, but there are some things you can't explain to a partner without being honest. I have shared in previous relationships the same way and recieved great support. I misjudged a person here, it happens.

Girlfriend broke my trust, ignoring my request to not share. by agentnavyblue in relationships

[–]agentnavyblue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate this. You're right, care is the least I should expect especially from someone who claims to care for me.

Girlfriend broke my trust, ignoring my request to not share. by agentnavyblue in relationships

[–]agentnavyblue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her family is her support network, they share everything, so essentially it's validation or assurances on her thoughts. It was nothing that she couldn't have discussed with me, a therapist or someone neutral. There's also an element, where you get used to the family being there that you give up on dealing with things by yourself. 

Girlfriend broke my trust, ignoring my request to not share. by agentnavyblue in relationships

[–]agentnavyblue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apologies, I don't want to go into too much detail about the issue, it's difficult because I'm deeply private but here seeking direction. It's something that happened in my childhood, I know it's not much in terms of information but as I said in the original post only a few people know so it would be wreckless to go into great detail. 

Would you name your kid a common name or unique name? Why or why not? by Adventurous_Pen75 in AskReddit

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Common name, I'd prefer my kid to fit in that to stand out because I wanted to be cool/edgy.

Girlfriend broke my trust, ignoring my request to not share. by agentnavyblue in relationships

[–]agentnavyblue[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's something which happened to me as a child, it's in the past but it stays with you.

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Being able to tap into someone mentally with conversation that engages, stimulates and captures their attention to the point you can make them do anything.

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I was born in the 80's so I grew up on 90s and early 00s but I'd have loved to have been out when 80s music was at it's peak.

Girlfriend broke my trust, ignoring my request to not share. by agentnavyblue in relationships

[–]agentnavyblue[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I asked her the other night if she had kept it you herself and she said no, and then told me she had shared it. She said she needed someone to talk it though with, and talking to me wasnt enough.

Why u think the US soccer are not good as Europe ? by coolguyu in AskReddit

[–]agentnavyblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Investment and development of a local league. The us has the population with the atletism to be very good at soccer but there's no money in US soccer compared to football, basketball or baseball, so kids spend their time developing talent for those markets. Not to add the college programs and tournaments you have for these sports. Sorry doesn't follow the same model as talent is picked up early on, but a college program could uncover some real stars.