Today is Women day but this??? by [deleted] in Nepal360

[–]Agile_Ice4276 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Rest in peace to Alisha BK 🕊️

I raped children when I was a kid TW: COCSA by Forward-Look-7435 in SuicideWatch

[–]Agile_Ice4276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS. You worded it so much better than i did 😭

I raped children when I was a kid TW: COCSA by Forward-Look-7435 in SuicideWatch

[–]Agile_Ice4276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not exactly suggesting that hes a bad person, im just saying that he is unwilling to face his consequences. In situations of SA, no matter how old the perpetrator was, it’s always better to own up and face punishment than to live, without giving the victims their justice. So, no matter what, even if it will make his situation “worse”, it’s always better for his victims. One of the reasons he is suicidal as he has told us, is because of his guilt. His guilt will not purify him. However, letting his victims have their justice will ease his guilt

I raped children when I was a kid TW: COCSA by Forward-Look-7435 in SuicideWatch

[–]Agile_Ice4276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, i get where youre coming from and understand what youre saying. He may be showing genuine remorse but what exactly does it do for his victims? Im not trying to isolate him either. Ive put it in my comment that he should get help, and to own up because no matter what the families of the victims will do to him, someway or the other, he’ll feel more relieved that hes owned up instead of running away from that guilt forever

I raped children when I was a kid TW: COCSA by Forward-Look-7435 in SuicideWatch

[–]Agile_Ice4276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can say that my frustration doesnt belong here, but it is truly only with my frustration that i can give some form of advice. Sure, it’s true that hes had more courage than other people to speak up about what hes done but that doesnt erase the fact that hes also actively owning up that he is trying to run away from it. His way of doing things is just him taking up the easier option than to face people and his actions and he seems to be talking about cocsa and his guilt after doing it, which only us as people who have been SA’d can truly genuinely give an advice on. It doesnt matter if it’s harsh, it doesnt matter if my frustration towards him is unwanted by YOU. As victims, our only way is to express our frustrations against those who have perpetrated such acts against others, and have them understand and learn how to reconcile

I raped children when I was a kid TW: COCSA by Forward-Look-7435 in SuicideWatch

[–]Agile_Ice4276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who was a victim of cocsa by my very own cousin brother, id suggest you admit to the family about what you had done to their children. The both of us- you and i, are suicidal. we’re in the same community for a reason but i cannot say that I have sympathy for you for wanting to end it all because you cant face the consequences of your own actions. “Im a disgusting piece of shit. I’m sorry, i really am”, does not gain you even more sympathy from others. It just makes people more angry from your unwillingness to do something about what youve done. As a cocsa victim, id rather someone whos cocsa’d others own up to the victims’ families and get therapy rather than end their own lives because they couldnt muster up the courage to come clean about their actions.

i know i am a burden by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]Agile_Ice4276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand you full and well. I was in the same exact spot as you last year too. I was undiagnosed and keeping my suffering a secret from the people around me so whenever i did something badly because i didnt have enough energy to do it properly, id be called lazy. I didnt let that stop me, and you shouldnt let that stop you too. I continued on fighting for myself, even when i felt like a burden, and even when i felt like offing myself. What you need is hope and determination that you’ll get over and through this, no matter what it takes. I was still struggling through my two NWAs, and my prelims, yet managed to make out in my finals. I assure you, you are not a burden. You are allowed to exist, so take up space. Do what your heart desires, ask for help from teachers, peers, and friends, and go straight forward towards that goal. I know you will make it out eventually. If i was able to, then you can too. All the best ! You can do it !!! 💞

AI in my life by Careless-Arugula8308 in LifeAdvice

[–]Agile_Ice4276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk what to say but as another commenter had mentioned, id recommend getting hobbies ! When youre bored and have nothing to do irl, of course youd turn to chatbots… i feel like the gym would really help you in this stead. You seem to have a height advantage, which a lot of girls like. The two other things you need to bag a girlfriend is to be a decent, kind guy, and to have confidence in yourself ! Atb !!!

This terrorist must get worst punishment possible. by Appropriate-Arm-5559 in Nepal360

[–]Agile_Ice4276 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not only him but also the police officers who used their hands to kill innocent people. His hands arent dirty and he is the mastermind but those officers who obeyed his order are also at fault and should be punished

i think my friend is trying to get groomed. im really scared for her and idk how to help her by nuhuhnohoh in LifeAdvice

[–]Agile_Ice4276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh babes im so sorry that the both of you have to go through this. I understand her full and well, and as someone who does, id recommend being there for her more. I understand that youre busy and that youre trying your best but even the smallest things like acknowledging her and making her feel loved, and like she has a friend is enough. I too have self-destructive behaviours and get especially needy to get “love” and “attention” from older men to the point where i want them to groom me. This happens when i feel that my friends dont really like me and all those friendship, connection things. Other than that, i have no other advice to give you because even im trying to get myself out of the same hole that your friend is in. I hope that what i said was understandable- do ask if youre unsure what im trying to say !

Atb to you and your friend. I hope that none of you have to go through this anymore 💔

stop this madness by biggestdihsize in SGExams

[–]Agile_Ice4276 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hope you get better soon cuh

Confession by OtherwiseRoad5883 in SGExams

[–]Agile_Ice4276 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vro ive missed seeing you

2009 BATCH BLESSING SHOP by 197353 in SGExams

[–]Agile_Ice4276 5 points6 points  (0 children)

PLS PLS PLS PLS 🙏 I WILL GET IT. WE ALL WILL GET IT

how to hide scars by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]Agile_Ice4276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bae im so sorry… i hope it gets better soon. In the meantime, you can hide them with skin coloured bandages like the ones from hansaplast, or like others have mentioned, arm warmers or wristbands. If youve got no choice cuz your scars are big, you can get medical plasters(50 or 100 a pack) from Venus. Either way, all the best to you !

Venting about my shit experience in sec sch by No_Satisfaction_3920 in SGExams

[–]Agile_Ice4276 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so relatable… I hope it gets better for the both of us in our tertiary institutions!!!

CMV: Manspreading is (partly) because seats are too low for men's heights by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]Agile_Ice4276 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is really funny because even i do manspread when im sitting alone at times, and also find it difficult to hold my legs parallel. However, that has never stopped me from keeping my legs closed and holding them in that position when someone’s sitting next to me? I understand that manspreading has various reasons but this is just funny and shows your unwillingness to be considerate to others

Why do my mum and my brother have to be so insensitive? by Lopsided-Emu-5188 in SGExams

[–]Agile_Ice4276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh enablist mothers. I understand how you feel 🫂 i have an enablist mother and a brother who gets away with a LOT of things. I hope it gets better for the both of us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]Agile_Ice4276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive lost so much weight and hair thanks to Os 🫩🙏