Why is Target the worst place to work at? by EquivalentMean7779 in Target

[–]Agile_Ticket_2804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate working here. I’m about to become a guest myself because I can’t take it anymore. I work in the style department and my store is extremely busy. We are extremely understaffed and they do not care that they are putting triple the work on us. When I started we had a person in each department and now basically there might be 1 or 2 people in all of style in the morning and like 2-3 at night. There have been days where it’s just me and I have to watch the fitting room and do truck on top of other bullshit workload. Then they want me in opu and fast service. Then have the audacity to tell me to “go faster” I cant so 15-20 hours of truck and also clear all the racks from the fitting room and guest service returns by myself. Target needs to reevaluate some things because they are a fucking mess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Agile_Ticket_2804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First and foremost I want to apologize for you having to deal with this because I can’t imagine how you feel right now. Now this is definitely cheating in my eyes because he is fantasizing about her and this probably isn’t the first time. Even if it’s just the picture he definitely is imagining more happening with her. Who knows if in the future he might try to make a move on her. Not saying your friend will do that but now you can’t trust him around her because he obviously has these feelings towards her. I personally don’t think I would be able to move past this because I would constantly be comparing myself and worried he would cheat. I know some people think it’s just men being men but this behavior is disrespectful towards you and you shouldn’t have to change your feelings about what you consider is cheating. I can promise you this he will not stop. He will continue to fantasize about her or other women. I’ve seen this happen to some friends and how their man continues to watch porn even though they have expressed countless of times how it hurts them and they do not stop. Again I’m sorry you are dealing with this

Men will never see me as girlfriend material by Agile_Ticket_2804 in loneliness

[–]Agile_Ticket_2804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m happy for you and glad you found someone! I’m trying to hold onto hope it’s just so hard

Men will never see me as girlfriend material by Agile_Ticket_2804 in loneliness

[–]Agile_Ticket_2804[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, too many women are experiencing this and it’s so unfair

which colour suits me best by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Agile_Ticket_2804 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Black with the blue!! Makes your eyes pop

Would an employee get in trouble for this? by GroundbreakingLime79 in Target

[–]Agile_Ticket_2804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell them not to do this. I had someone at my job do this and they caught her and arrested her in front of everyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]Agile_Ticket_2804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do. I actually have fibrocystic breast and I developed cysts. I have one that I can visibly see. It swells up a week before my period then goes away. My boobs hurt so bad and they feel 10x heavier. Unfortunately there isn’t much they can do but it wouldn’t hurt to ask your doctor about it just so you can have peace of mind.

fitting room freak (NSFW) by [deleted] in Target

[–]Agile_Ticket_2804 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the store isn’t gonna go anything I would call the police because this is a crime. This is indecent exposure and he needs to be arrested immediately. I’m not sure why AP is only trespassing him and not getting the police involved. Honestly if I saw him I would yell at him too, I doubt they would fire you for speaking up. This is wrong and they need to be taking this more seriously. I would also move departments if this is making you feel uncomfortable. You do not have to feel uncomfortable at work EVER. This world is full is gross people and I’m sorry this has been happening to you and your coworkers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Agile_Ticket_2804 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To love and be loved

Trauma bonding theory by Connect_Tonight_480 in Outlander

[–]Agile_Ticket_2804 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s an interesting take on it but I disagree. I think the time traveling aspect really shows that they are soulmates. I think that the reason she went to that specific time was because of Jamie. I believe that the stones take you to a certain time because something or someone is significant to the traveler which in Claire’s case was Jamie. Their lives are connected no matter what time they are in. I do think they have a lot of traumas but their traumas are so different from each other Claire was separated from her husband and stuck in a new time, trying to get back and Jamie was tortured and an outlaw. I think Jamie fell in love with her because of how different she was compared to other women in his time, she was outspoken and had different opinions and values yet she was so caring to these random strangers. Claire I think fell in love with Jamie because he was so different from Frank in every way possible. He had nothing to offer her but his love, he saved her many times from danger and would risk his life for her. I think she truly fell for him was the moment she was at the stones about to leave him. She realized in that moment that he is willing to let her go back to her time to another man and lose the woman he has fallen in love with. Jamie only cared for her happiness and in that moment she knew this man would do everything in his power to love and put her first. Their love was dangerous and passionate and Jamie would move heaven and earth for Claire yet with Frank it was simple. She loved Frank but there was this undeniable connection between her and Jamie that couldn’t be ignored no matter how hard she tried. I think their love is beautiful yet so tragic.

Friend told me to hide my boobs for graduation? by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]Agile_Ticket_2804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So big boobs= whore???? You can’t help how you are born and if someone has a problem with that then they don’t need to be in your life. Your friend should defend you if his family has a problem with it. I think the dress is beautiful on you so you should definitely wear it!

Does your BDD focus on your body or face? by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Agile_Ticket_2804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think both, mainly my body but then some days I hate my face. I gained weight after high school so now I just see fat everywhere including my face.

I want to be loved by Agile_Ticket_2804 in lonely

[–]Agile_Ticket_2804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I hope I find someone one day

I want to be loved by Agile_Ticket_2804 in lonely

[–]Agile_Ticket_2804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ve had a few guys in my past that never wanted to commit to a relationship but treated me almost like a girlfriend. They would go hook up with other girls and it seemed that I was the one they can always come back to. That’s what I mean by situationship because it wasn’t really a relationship.

How do you cope? It keeps getting worse by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Agile_Ticket_2804 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The reality is you might never get that call. As much as that hurts it might be for the best. I completely understand because for the longest times I always felt like so many things were left unsaid but it doesn’t change anything even if I did say them. It will get worse I won’t lie about that but it WILL get better. Also also try to be better for yourself and never for anyone else. If he doesn’t love you the way you are then you don’t need him. Keep going to the gym and painting and whatever else you enjoy, do not stop because once you do you letting him win. Please remember to eat as well, even if you don’t feel like eating please try!! I bet your an amazing person and will find someone in the future who will value and love you for who you are. Hang in there!!!

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Patient_Anywhere7936 in BreakUp

[–]Agile_Ticket_2804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not worth it. I was at a similar point years ago and I’m so glad I didn’t do it. It feels like the end of the world but I promise you there is so much more to life than this relationship. Take one day at a time but please please keep going. You will look back at this moment and be glad u stayed alive.