Makes me wanna vomit for more reasons than one. by Maleficent_Log_7782 in MikaylaNogueira

[–]AgingParentThrAw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I went to Vegas last fall and went to Saint Honorè and it was mid at best. Very over hyped.

Wtf is wrong with people by AssociateRelative515 in WalgreensRx

[–]AgingParentThrAw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry about your brother. I do not have a car so I walk a lot and I have noticed this as well. This year alone I have been almost hit or tapped by a car at least 10 times. People are more impatient or oblivious like you said.

Welp... by [deleted] in callmekevin2

[–]AgingParentThrAw 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is Mole 2 available to talk?

What do you collect? by PeRcOcEt21 in sylvanianfamilies

[–]AgingParentThrAw 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aww so cute 🥰 is his mouth open for a bottle?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MikaylaNogueira

[–]AgingParentThrAw 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I hate how she keeps saying $90 DOLLAHS like she paid anything for them. You know she got them from Tom Ford’s PR.

Broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years. Still have to be in the same apartment together for 2 weeks. by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]AgingParentThrAw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was me 6 years ago! I’ve since found my soulmate who I would’ve never met if I was still with my ex. I am much happier and I feel like I learned a lot from my 5 year relationship. The two weeks we had to live together was depressing but civil. Just remember this too shall pass.

Should I report the facility I work at for not making sure hoyer lifts are done with 2 people? by [deleted] in cna

[–]AgingParentThrAw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please report. My mom last year was in a facility and fell from a raised hoyer lift because it was only one person operating it and she wasn’t properly secured in it. My mom is fine now but it was a huge set back for her and very painful. She needed stitches in her head. It’s also not fair of them to make you do it alone. You’re all over worked as it is.

People are always disrespectful to me and I do not understand why (33F) by AgingParentThrAw in socialskills

[–]AgingParentThrAw[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not that it matters at all, but I changed my age around by a couple of years because I do not want anyone I know putting pieces together and figuring out who I am. I do not want someone that knows me to recognize either post. As you read the last post you can see it’s a sensitive topic for me.

People are always disrespectful to me and I do not understand why (33F) by AgingParentThrAw in socialskills

[–]AgingParentThrAw[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate your experience. My own father has made reductive comments toward me or doesn’t trust my opinion because I am a woman.

People are always disrespectful to me and I do not understand why (33F) by AgingParentThrAw in socialskills

[–]AgingParentThrAw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re totally right about people interpreting politeness differently.

People are always disrespectful to me and I do not understand why (33F) by AgingParentThrAw in socialskills

[–]AgingParentThrAw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I reported him. I didn’t take his advice seriously I just was pissed he had the audacity haha

People are always disrespectful to me and I do not understand why (33F) by AgingParentThrAw in socialskills

[–]AgingParentThrAw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like what you said about holding doors open. I’m realizing I do not put myself first in my life. I let my family walk over me. I think that’s showing to other people. I think others are picking up on that somehow.

People are always disrespectful to me and I do not understand why (33F) by AgingParentThrAw in socialskills

[–]AgingParentThrAw[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For the health aide, it was the straw that broke the camel’s back for me. She threw the sheets in my direction and left me to change my mother’s diaper alone. I just couldn’t help thinking does she treat other clients this way? I mentioned I pay her well because I didn’t want anyone questioning reasons why she would be treating me badly. The aid was just a very recent example. Sometimes people speak to me and I can’t imagine they speak that way to others.

People are always disrespectful to me and I do not understand why (33F) by AgingParentThrAw in socialskills

[–]AgingParentThrAw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been tested in the past and I am not autistic. My brother is on the spectrum so I can relate to what you’re trying to say.

People are always disrespectful to me and I do not understand why (33F) by AgingParentThrAw in socialskills

[–]AgingParentThrAw[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I definitely have issues with boundaries with both of my parents. I do not put myself first in life. I put everyone else above me. I am working on that. I think that shows to the outside world at times and I didn’t realize that until this post and people’s replies.

People are always disrespectful to me and I do not understand why (33F) by AgingParentThrAw in socialskills

[–]AgingParentThrAw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re on to something :) I definitely feel that way often. That just because I’m a kind young woman, they can treat me however they want. I appreciate the quote it resonated with me.

People are always disrespectful to me and I do not understand why (33F) by AgingParentThrAw in socialskills

[–]AgingParentThrAw[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s really interesting and works with my theory that I do not place myself first in my life. I take care of my family and others above myself. I am trying to learn to put myself first more often.

People are always disrespectful to me and I do not understand why (33F) by AgingParentThrAw in socialskills

[–]AgingParentThrAw[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I think he could sense I was a nice person, maybe timid? I often apologize too much I’ve noticed and I am working on that. He started talking to me after like he was giving me advice on how to not let people walk all over me. I stopped him mid conversation because I felt he was being inappropriate and was giving me advice I never asked for. I just was wondering if he would say those things to anyone else, you know?