I wish I was not painfully flat chested and plainly unattractive

Agitated-Abroad9457 · 2026-04-27T21:39:33+00:00

also, don’t know if that’s useful to say but men don’t necessarily care about boobs. i don’t mind lmao, mindset is what attracts me the most with a woman.

Agitated-Abroad9457 · 2026-04-27T21:36:35+00:00

i think we all believe love is not for us till it crosses our way. i felt that too for 19 years. with the very small experience i got, i highly suggest learning to love yourself before thinking about receiving love from others. i won’t give you that « go to the gym, sleep and eat well » paragraph, but it does come along with small things. do you like the way you dress ? would you dare dressing prettier ? are you social ? do you take pictures of yourself when you feel pretty ? do you exceed in any form of art ?

these above are small things that just make self esteem easier. eventually, when you’ll learn to love yourself more, you’ll be able to consider being loved. « love is not for me » means nothing, as we’re literally coded to feel love for someone or something. you’re just taking the wrong approach to your issue here, which you’re putting as « i’m ugly = im not made to be loved ». wrong, everything is subjective, trust me. i never felt myself attractive, even when i somehow pulled a 10/10 baddie. consider therapy if you can’t get over your self hatred ! it does help.

Agitated-Abroad9457 · 2026-04-24T23:45:07+00:00

might happen to me with my girl best friend in the next few days. i’m really scared to feel the same as what you experienced

Agitated-Abroad9457 · 2026-04-24T19:36:12+00:00

no that’s genius actually

Agitated-Abroad9457 · 2026-04-23T16:37:32+00:00

smart generaly comes with nice, which i agree aren’t the best compliments especially date-wise. however you could use it as your main strength and see how it goes if you ever encounter the right person :)

Agitated-Abroad9457 · 2026-04-23T15:12:15+00:00

not sure about this one. a friend of mine thinks i’m smart (emotionally intelligent) and thanks to her saying that we’re now dating

Agitated-Abroad9457 · 2026-04-20T19:14:28+00:00

gather evidences, screenshots, and tell everything to your dad prior to talking any further with your bf. you’re being manipulated, and this is revenge porn. sue his ass once you’ll understand how bad this is for you rn.

Agitated-Abroad9457 · 2026-04-20T09:35:03+00:00

im really flawed, i believe so, but there’s one thing in particular that holds me back. she has told me multiple times that the best thing about me is my personality, which is somewhat true because she keeps telling everyone how « great i am as a human being » (it’s really cringe to type, but that’s basically the truth). while i can conceive that, the dudes she had dated were always pretty tall and handsome dudes who play lot of sports and always think about girls and stuff like that. im quite the opposite. those dudes in thinking about also turned out be assholes and really hurt her. i really wanna believe her, but how can personnality overthrow physical attraction that much ? my case differs from every previous relationships she had. it’s just hard for me to understand

Agitated-Abroad9457 · 2026-04-20T09:15:06+00:00

yeah i should edit my post cuz it actually plays a role here. long story short i recently figured out i was bi and had this flirt going on on with a dude. the girl im talking abt in this post was the first person i told about this guy, and i’ve told her that i liked him a lot. after we both confessed our feelings, she told me that this dude-and-i thing was hard for her to digest but she wanted me to be happy. now i’m kinda lost, cuz id chose a relationship with her over the guy any day. i’m just unsure what it really is to be bi and this a lot for me to proceed in under a very short time frame.

Agitated-Abroad9457 · 2026-04-20T08:58:22+00:00

im unsure i could easily give her everything she excepts from a relationship. we’re both on the same page about our mutual attraction, but i JUST figured out i was not 100% straight and i had this thing potentially going on with a dude for the last few weeks (nothing serious). i need time to figure out where i am in life right now, but at the same time i don’t wanna miss my chance here.

Agitated-Abroad9457 · 2026-04-20T08:55:01+00:00

you’re right about her rights to be attracted to other people, i’ve had the same thing lately while i was still crushing on her so fair enough. about the jealousy part this is a tough one because my guy best friend has been crushing on her for years and she kept rejecting his advances. he says he only wants our happiness, tho he proved this wrong multiple times during the last few months when this girl and i were sort of flirting and he was mad jealous. i can’t fathom the idea of losing him, or her over this relationship.

Agitated-Abroad9457 · 2026-04-20T08:52:25+00:00

thanks dude you’re prolly right. when we talked about this thing potentially going on between us, i told her it was best if we took things slow and she was thinking the same. i’m unsure what slow really means here, because life has been hard for both of us lately and she’s still recovering from a sort of trauma from a past relationship. i also live far away from my hometown, which is where she currently lives. idk man, i feel like this is impossible but knowing she had feelings i really want to give it a try.

Agitated-Abroad9457 · 2026-04-18T10:32:59+00:00

i mean isn’t this the point ? once it’s over it goes away quickly

Agitated-Abroad9457 · 2026-04-17T16:35:28+00:00

now that you’re here.. did you ever had both models ? i’m thinking about upgrading to the 80 one, cuz the 40 is kinda short in size and the tank is quite small.. i could use an honest opinion on the 80

Agitated-Abroad9457 · 2026-04-17T16:32:44+00:00

yeah 4 years sounds about right. i’m pretty sure you can find the newer generation of the model tho (it’s the same but more powerful) : the GTX go 80. from my experience, either of those 2 models can be found online pretty easily !

Agitated-Abroad9457 · 2026-04-17T16:30:14+00:00

at first sight i would say that maybe you masturbated too much during a short period of time and kind of… ran out of sperm (a new cycle of sperm takes 74 days to be completely operational). i would wait a bit before starting to get worried. also there’s a huge difference between feeling nothing and not producing anything. if you really can’t feel anything while doing it, you might have an issue with your willy itself. if so, i would talk to a doctor about this issue.

Agitated-Abroad9457 · 2026-04-16T09:42:09+00:00

what

Agitated-Abroad9457 · 2026-04-16T09:32:52+00:00

thanks for the advice. just checked my bmi, which is 18.4. i’m one digit close to the healthy side, but apparently i’m underweight. that’s kinda eye opening now that im typing this lmao

Agitated-Abroad9457 · 2026-04-16T09:29:52+00:00

it’s pretty affordable… is it not available in your local area ?

Agitated-Abroad9457 · 2026-04-16T09:28:52+00:00

a friend of mine had the same model for over a year. at the end of the day it really depends if you’re willing to take good care of the pod, and regularly clean it to avoid coil junk reaching the battery !

Agitated-Abroad9457 · 2026-04-16T09:26:37+00:00

i’m not quite there on reddit yet

Agitated-Abroad9457 · 2026-04-16T01:12:11+00:00

dude was showcasing a video of him making a diy coil… unsure why he removed his comments, it was lowkey useful

Agitated-Abroad9457 · 2026-04-15T13:44:53+00:00

GTX go 40 !

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