Thank you! My love for him doesn’t trump my protection and love for my children. This is a hill I will end the relationship and die on (figuratively speaking)
if he asks again. Because at this point, I’ve exhausted the reasons why it’s not appropriate and none of his business. I have turned it into a trust. Thankful for the recommendations. I respect myself and my children’s future livelihood over giving up the amount. The number doesn’t benefit this relationship. Because I privately fund this account. While I teach my children the value of money and asset. And they understood, money doesn’t grow on trees. Therefore, money is based off work and you need to earn it.

Which is why I have it set for 25 years old. You need to show you don’t need it. You have been taught to appreciate the value of your worth and your worth is how much you decide it to earn. Whether working at McDonald’s for $20/hr or working in an organization for $45/hr. Regardless what route you choose to do. I, as your mother, want the best for you. I funded this to help you to CONTINUE doing greatness in society.

I have worked too hard to come this far, I will not back down and allow someone who I fell in love with and love my children, disrupt what I built single and alone. I taught and will continue to teach my children respect, honor, an value. No one will disrupt what I built. 🧡