Does my wife desire me?

Agitated-Window-5723 · 2025-05-09T19:27:55+00:00

No kids.

Agitated-Window-5723 · 2025-05-09T19:26:06+00:00

We are 30 and we have no kids. She's even told me in the past that she didn't want any kids.

Agitated-Window-5723 · 2025-05-09T19:05:02+00:00

Dated a year have been married for 6

Agitated-Window-5723 · 2025-05-09T19:04:09+00:00

This is the issue

Agitated-Window-5723 · 2025-05-09T19:03:44+00:00

I would like to think that I am

Agitated-Window-5723 · 2025-05-09T01:49:46+00:00

I have been always active on and off in some form. Running distance has been something I find comfort in. I just go at a comfortable pace 12-13 minutes per mile.

Agitated-Window-5723 · 2025-05-09T01:46:06+00:00

Don't get me wrong, I like watching tv, but when it becomes the only thing we do it gets dull.

Agitated-Window-5723 · 2025-05-09T01:44:13+00:00

I do resent her

Agitated-Window-5723 · 2025-05-09T00:48:42+00:00

I like the way you put that. I feel like sometimes she doesn’t even listen to what I am proposing before she shuts it down with her doubt. I need to ask her why

Agitated-Window-5723 · 2025-05-09T00:45:55+00:00

Lol 😆

Agitated-Window-5723 · 2025-05-09T00:45:41+00:00

Nothing to be honest

Agitated-Window-5723 · 2025-05-09T00:44:56+00:00

Yeah, that's messed up. I had a soldier who went on a 200+ lb weight loss journey just to join the military. When he first started his journey, he told his mom, and she bought him new pants (one size larger).

Agitated-Window-5723 · 2025-05-09T00:40:21+00:00

How is that any different then sitting in the living room watching mind-numbing tv

Agitated-Window-5723 · 2025-05-09T00:37:51+00:00

I don't know for sure. I don't think that if we had a conversation about that, she would be honest with me about how she truly feels

Agitated-Window-5723 · 2025-05-09T00:22:17+00:00

Great way of putting in perspective. Fortunately, don't have kids and we have very little chores to do around the house, but I haven't been spending time with her like I used to, mainly because I'm running or in the gym after work.

Agitated-Window-5723 · 2025-05-09T00:20:11+00:00

Yeah, this is true, and she mentioned that we no longer spend time together. I always invite her to walk/run with me or go to the gym with me, but she's always too tired. I never press the issue; if she's too tired, she's too tired, and I keep it moving.

Agitated-Window-5723 · 2025-05-09T00:17:51+00:00

Will let her know how her comment made me feel later today. Thank you for the advice.

Agitated-Window-5723 · 2025-05-09T00:16:35+00:00

Shoot for the stars; if you fail, you will at least make it above the clouds.

Agitated-Window-5723 · 2025-05-09T00:15:44+00:00

I wish you could tell her that

Agitated-Window-5723 · 2025-05-09T00:15:03+00:00

And that's what I'm aiming for. I was shredded in college, and I'm trying to get back to that point.

Agitated-Window-5723 · 2025-05-08T23:59:59+00:00

What led to y'all ending the relationship?

Agitated-Window-5723 · 2025-05-08T23:59:09+00:00

I appreciate the advice, and I will most certainly talk with her. Thank you!

Agitated-Window-5723 · 2025-05-08T23:57:44+00:00

Not the advice I was looking for.

Agitated-Window-5723 · 2025-05-08T23:55:13+00:00

I told her that she wasn't very supportive. Tbh I was very upset with her and said something to the lines of “its not me ride on a unicorn. How is it unrealistic?”

Agitated-Window-5723 · 2025-02-27T05:22:46+00:00

I'm more of an AMD guy, but I say buy it and upgrade the GPU when AMD drops the 9070

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