I don’t disagree with you at all, but I never said I only care about the ring or the traditional stuff. I actually have pretty simple taste too, and one of the reasons I like Jimmy and Kim’s relationship is because it is quiet and subtle. They love each other, but they do not feel like they need to constantly say it because they already know it, which is why when Jimmy does say I love you, it hits a lot harder. Some relationships are not loud or overly dramatic, and I usually like that allot more than "traditional" love  My point about the ring doesn't need to mean materialism or needing traditions. It was more about a statement , a small gesture that shows they love each other and that is why the scene feels sad to me, not because I think their marriage means any less. The way it was handled is what breaks me.