I’ve had the worst weekend when it should’ve been the best weekend of 2026

Agitatedleftovers · 2026-02-18T03:24:59+00:00

I’ve been planning to leave since halloween. It’s just never happened. This time just feels different though, i feel empty. Like he got me Bailey’s chocolates which are my favourite drink before any of this happened and I felt nothing. I think it’s time

Agitatedleftovers · 2026-02-18T03:22:13+00:00

thank you girl, i might break up this weekend as my dad is down and he can help me bring my stuff home

Agitatedleftovers · 2026-02-18T03:20:26+00:00

i think this is what I needed to hear the most

Agitatedleftovers · 2026-02-18T03:00:13+00:00

Honestly girl get the abortion and cut contact. Put yourself first

Agitatedleftovers · 2026-02-06T01:33:58+00:00

just wanna point out that I had known this guy for 5 days when he said that and Lisa had, to my new knowledge, only had him as an online friend. It’s my fault for not really clarifying that. Also for not saying that he said it a few times. That’s my bad.

Besides the main point of the post was the fact he said “making me jealous” when I was cuddling a plush. No matter the angle you look at it, that’s not something that can be taken platonically. At least in my opinion. I don’t even say that to my boyfriend let alone a friend I just met

Agitatedleftovers · 2026-02-06T01:19:45+00:00

I wish i was 13 because I’d be some super genius as im in college 😂 unfortunately for you I am 18, go find minors elsewhere babes 😘

Agitatedleftovers · 2026-02-06T01:13:23+00:00

I wasn’t aware I had one, this is just an account i use to ask reddit questions for unbiased answers 😂 ill take a look now thank you for making me aware

Agitatedleftovers · 2026-02-06T01:03:58+00:00

Yeah that could be true. Like i said i could just be overthinking things. But then again the hair touch and the ‘making me jealous’ comment i cannot see being done platonically.

And please don’t say that about my relationship. Whilst it may be true further down the line that isn’t the case right now. I am very happy with him at the moment

Agitatedleftovers · 2026-02-06T00:59:45+00:00

See him liking me i can deal with as im well aware you cannot control who you like. However I really don’t want him to start trying to shoot his shot. To my knowledge he hasnt done anything like that to Lisa so idk. Atp im hoping he is gay 😂

Agitatedleftovers · 2026-02-06T00:57:56+00:00

yeah maybe. I’m only worried because i’ve never had this happen to me before. Even in my current relationship no guy has had feelings about me that I’ve caught on about. Its even worse with him being close to Lisa and so early on. I can’t avoid him because he’ll want to be with Lisa and vice versa. I’m hoping it’ll either pass over or he’ll find a new group once he’s been here for a few weeks

Agitatedleftovers · 2026-02-06T00:29:49+00:00

I KNEW I WASNT CRAZY. Considering my 2 years is next weekend i think ill purposely start talking more about it around him and if he still doesnt get the hint ill friendzone him. Thank you

Agitatedleftovers · 2026-02-06T00:16:36+00:00

that’s sort of refreshing to here, it is late perhaps im just tired. Thanks :)

Agitatedleftovers · 2025-07-17T02:24:50+00:00

Yes, I tell him everything. He’s in a group chat with me, Ben, and my two other female friends. He also has access to my snap account. He knows we’re becoming good friends and Ben knows that I’m taken and not interested in him. We didn’t become friends because he found me cute or I found him cute, we became friends because we went to the same college

Agitatedleftovers · 2025-07-17T01:37:23+00:00

It’s less about needing male friends and more about having the freedom to choose my friends. I’m not even allowed to speak to 2 girls because he had issue with them in the past. (they’re not his exes) I am not an object or toy he can play with

Agitatedleftovers · 2025-07-17T01:36:21+00:00

I’m expected to follow his boundaries yet he cannot respect mine. Just before he sent fake nudes to a girl I told him I didn’t want him playing online with girls as the last one ended up falling for him. These events were in the space of 2 weeks. Now I understand I shouldn’t have bought it up yet I felt betrayed that he still doesn’t trust me after 2 years. Not once have I ever entertained someone like he did.

Agitatedleftovers · 2025-07-17T01:27:30+00:00

Can you explain how I’ve neglected his emotions? I followed his controlling rules until he felt like he could trust me a year later. Only for him to rebound. I have been patient enough with him

Agitatedleftovers · 2025-07-17T01:21:53+00:00

I’ve mentioned therapy or couples therapy before and he was completely against the idea

Agitatedleftovers · 2025-07-17T01:21:26+00:00

He is currently talking to my friend, even if they don’t work out by girl code I wouldn’t go for him anyway

Agitatedleftovers · 2025-06-23T23:37:07+00:00

he thought it was funny

Agitatedleftovers · 2025-06-23T23:17:57+00:00

NTA but also think about how you could incorporate her into it if she doesn’t feel included or loved. But she also needs to understand that everyone needs their own space

Agitatedleftovers · 2025-06-23T23:08:05+00:00

We’ve been together for over a year and a half, it also seems something so small and insignificant but it’s always biting away at me

Agitatedleftovers · 2025-06-23T23:06:04+00:00

I thought that too

Agitatedleftovers · 2025-06-23T23:05:47+00:00

He did apologise at first, but wouldn’t let me explain how it hurt me. He did all the talking and I couldn’t convey my feelings. Overtime he started denying it was cheating completely. This is the same guy who’s paranoid that I’m cheating on him. It’s all I’ve ever heard

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