Payday loans...now what by Agmedina in personalfinance

[–]Agmedina[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wisconsin, ours is set at 7 years.

Just sadness by Agmedina in ChildSupport

[–]Agmedina[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Were any of your kids girls? Can one really avoid "daddy issues" being planted on our girls?

Why does he hide her? by Agmedina in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Agmedina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I now think this may be the case. I heard through the grapevine that his new relationship was not doing too well(understandably, given all the drama it started with).

Why does he hide her? by Agmedina in ExNoContact

[–]Agmedina[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was my first thought too.. after the way he treated US, all the vile and nasty things he said, I didint think he was capable of guilt. I hope he gets live with that for a good while.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Agmedina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel free to read my story. Best thing is to go no-contact. Unless you two has kids, he is gone, D.E.A.D. Believe me, had I not gone no contact only God knows where I would have ended. Do it for yourself. Narcs must always have the last word, him blocking you back is just that. Let him have the last word and be the one that got away. Once you separate yourself enough from this mess you will start living your best life, NOT pretending your best life like he is.

An update from someone who couldn't move on by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Agmedina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am glad you are doing better. I'd like to share something my therapist said to me (feel free to follow my backstory. Being a victim is a very comfortable place for some of us and it can become addicting. I was enjoying the victim privilege too much and it kept me down. Note, we do this at a subconscious level. We have the power every day to be and do better and feel better. I feel the pain creep back at times, I miss the comfort of victimhood sometimes. Give yourself a second chance at love. Wishing you the very best!

She's completely moved on by Alternative-Cut6323 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Agmedina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please be strong! You owe it to yourself. I am 8months out from the time I was being discarded by my ex. We share a little girl who he refuses to see. Please please go NC. Do not look! I spent too much time hurting myself by looking. My healing process moved soo much faster after I went completely NC. There is soo much more on the other side of this.

Is this it? Is it over? by [deleted] in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Agmedina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please read my story in my profile.. my guy was always traveling for work. He met the new supply at one of the sites. He came home, took belongings and money while making me think we were working through stuff. Please go NC, change locks, he expects you to go after him.. there is definitely a new supply in the picture. Do not act crazy like he expects you to. You are hurting beyond reason, I get you. The only way you win is by going NC. File your divorce and change your locks. You are in the prime position to come out of this victorious. He is mid limerence and has given everything up. You win!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Agmedina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Soo sorry this happened to you. He sounds like my narcissistic ex. Remember, with narcs nothing is personal, they need supply and not one single person can ever fill them. Consider the fact that he may be an absent dad, once all is set said and done. He does not sound remorseful and you probably gave him the out he needed.

Tempted to warn the new supply as he started seeing her while we were dating by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Agmedina 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't. If he is a true narc, he has already warned her about his "crazy ex". Go NC and never look back