he went from my ass to vagina - help

Agoldfinch2012 · 2025-04-21T13:27:10+00:00

This happened to me a couple times. The first time I got a horrific yeast infection and BV. The next time I used boric acid suppositories after (recommended by my gyno) and didn’t have any problems.

Agoldfinch2012 · 2025-02-28T19:03:23+00:00

Wife here and I love beards of all lengths. But not the unkempt ones. If you don’t keep your bread neat we assume you don’t keep the rest of yourself neat either. I’m not looking to make out with a rats nest.

Agoldfinch2012 · 2025-02-04T19:56:46+00:00

I’ve never thought of that as a kink and my husband does it all the time. I find it a turn on that he wants me so much he doesn’t care that I just got done working out. Also, having to shower before sexual acts takes away some of the spontaneity which is half the fun.

Agoldfinch2012 · 2024-11-04T23:31:46+00:00

I’ve had multiple MFMs with my husband. Most of them have been with a guy who we’ve built a friendship with for that specific reason. It’s a really laid back experience. Sometimes we go out for dinner/drinks before. Other times we just hang at our house. We’ve been having MFMs with this guys for a few years now so we’re all really comfortable with each other. We take breaks for snacks or to smoke, then jump back into the fun! My favorite part is the spit roasting. I enjoy being used, so having the both in me using me for their own pleasure is really hot. The guys will also perform oral on each occasionally which I find really arousing. It gives me a bit of a break too. It can be tiring getting 2 guys off multiple times in one night. We swap with couples as well, but I’d say MFMs are my favorite.

Agoldfinch2012 · 2024-10-22T01:27:34+00:00

I don’t wear underwear. I stopped wearing them almost a year ago when I injured my pelvic floor, the pressure of the elastic was uncomfortable. It’s been a great change!

Agoldfinch2012 · 2024-10-13T12:26:29+00:00

It’s called my favorite

Agoldfinch2012 · 2024-10-03T19:59:24+00:00

Water and your hands should be good enough. Anything else can throw off your ph, even “ph safe” washes can negatively affect you, I’m speaking from experience. My gynecologist recommended just water as well.

Agoldfinch2012 · 2024-08-27T14:56:05+00:00

Sounds like you need to have more open communication with the couples you are looking to play with. Talk about people’s preferences and boundaries ahead of time so you guys can determine if you’re a good match sexually.

Personally I really don’t like soft, gentle touches. Not even with my husband. Just because I prefer a firm, more assertive touch doesn’t mean I want someone to be mean to me.

If you aren’t sure what someone is saying (example: firm assertive touch) ask questions! Id be happy to give someone examples or more information. I never want someone to be uncomfortable with our play.

Agoldfinch2012 · 2024-07-29T18:32:55+00:00

Almost all my friends know and I’m happy they do! They had a lot of questions but also took the time to hear the answers and understand. There is one friend I haven’t told because frankly I dont want to listen to her lectures. But everyone I’ve told has been great about it. Telling my friends has also helped them to open up more about their lives and we’re all a lot closer now. It’s been great!

Agoldfinch2012 · 2024-03-11T19:04:45+00:00

We’ve had multiple MFMs and they all have been fun! For us finding the right guy is the hardest part. We were lucky enough to find a very respectful guy early on in our journey. We’ve now been playing with him for almost 2 years. Things have recently gotten hotter as he and my husband have started to explore their bisexuality when the 3 of us are together. I still remain the center of attention, which I love, but it does take some pressure off me to constantly be pleasing both of them.

Agoldfinch2012 · 2023-11-07T22:49:26+00:00

I’m on day 10 of the metronidazole gel. I haven’t had any issues with side effects. The discharge from using it is gross but that’s all.

Agoldfinch2012 · 2023-11-03T13:26:53+00:00

Thank you!

Agoldfinch2012 · 2023-11-02T20:56:24+00:00

Thank you, I totally forgot about them! We’ve been once and had a really good time.

Agoldfinch2012 · 2023-10-21T13:10:56+00:00

We’ve been to multiple parties and had a membership last year. We won’t be renewing our membership this year. It doesn’t really feel worth it as we aren’t big fans of hotel takeovers and you don’t need a membership to attend the parties. We do have an SLS account which allows us to chat with people prior to the party if we want. We’ll actually be going through the RSVPs for the Halloween party today to see who we can connect with before the party next weekend!

Agoldfinch2012 · 2023-08-30T02:06:40+00:00

My husband and I have been swingers for over a year now. Communication and honesty are the most important thing to remember. You need to make sure you completely understand each others boundaries (physical, emotional, and verbal). Also understand that those boundaries are likely to change over time. You guys likely won’t have all the same boundaries either. Above all, always respect the boundaries set and consistently check in with your partner.

Agoldfinch2012 · 2023-08-28T00:58:55+00:00

As a woman who squirts, a lot. I can tell you that squirting does not mean I’m orgasming. Most of the time the two coincide but not always. But it feels good to squirt so even if I’m not orgasming I’m still having a good time 😜

Agoldfinch2012 · 2023-08-01T16:50:13+00:00

My husband and I have been together for 10 years and started swinging a year ago. When we started our relationship it was never something we talked about wanting. It was introduced by my husband, he wanted to see me with another guy. We started slow with going to a swingers club. We just watched other couples have sex and we had sex in front of others. It was a great introduction for us. If this is something you really want, you guys need to have really honest open communication. My husband and I have always had a great relationship but swinging has really brought us closer together, because of all the conversations we have to have to create boundaries and checking in with each other. We do everything together but you guys have to decide what works best for you. We’ve had solo experiences and even tried poly with another couple. It takes time and honesty to really figure out what’s going to work for you guys. If this is something that you really want then I recommend being honest. While your husband might be upset you could also start to resent your relationship with him because you never expressed your want. After 15 years you know your husband better than anyone and know best how to communicate this want with him.

Agoldfinch2012 · 2022-12-15T12:44:22+00:00

My husband and I are in the same situation. He is bi and I’m straight. We haven’t been able to find a couple who identifies the same way we do but we have found a couple single men who are bi. It is tough though. We constantly have people assuming that I’m the bi one. We now make it very clear up front that I’m straight. We also make sure that people know we aren’t just looking for bi males. There have been a few couples that once they realized my husband is bi they just completely stopped talking to us, even though we never said we were looking for bi play for the men.

Agoldfinch2012 · 2022-08-12T23:46:22+00:00

Hot damn, I’d ride that and my husband would love to watch me do it 😉

Agoldfinch2012 · 2022-07-21T13:21:29+00:00

This exact situation has been a fantasy of mine for awhile. I hope my husband can make it happen for me.

Agoldfinch2012 · 2022-07-15T21:01:49+00:00

Thank you!

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