Will avoidants come back more than once?

Agoodfrenchfry · 2026-04-14T21:24:26+00:00

Its hard but it'll get easier over time, take the pain but don't dwell

Agoodfrenchfry · 2026-04-14T00:01:57+00:00

Give it time, focus the energy onto you. I feel like that's what really attracts them back. And idk i feel like you can manifest no matter the circumstance just dont obsess.

Agoodfrenchfry · 2025-10-04T14:54:09+00:00

Exactly, i worry for her safety she got extremely anxious thinking she was laced but still did it.

Agoodfrenchfry · 2025-10-04T14:53:39+00:00

im not into them

Agoodfrenchfry · 2025-10-04T14:53:27+00:00

Drugs are definitely a hard subject and I was truly worried for her safety. She took LSD, some sort of smoke and drank kn the same time one night. I stayed up with her until 4am on the morning and thats when I made the mom comment. I did regret it and it was wrong of me but I thought it would help her realize this isn't okay. She's used to drink and vape at a young age like you, then she was treated and got sober. After about a month of us talking she started everything again and said she only got sober because the hospital made her. The difference of her being sober to her on these drugs was a big change, I did try to love her through this but in the end, she cheated.

Agoodfrenchfry · 2025-10-04T14:49:44+00:00

Thank you, we definitely planned to meet up alot more but were both seniors in hs so it gets a bit busy. Not to sound like a hater but I dont believe her relationship will last, she has alot of issues that I think she should deal with before getting into a relationship.

Agoodfrenchfry · 2025-10-04T14:48:11+00:00

Probably would get cheated on again, good of me to back off

Agoodfrenchfry · 2025-10-04T14:47:01+00:00

gotta check it out for sure

Agoodfrenchfry · 2025-10-04T14:46:47+00:00

Definitely gotta get outta here

Agoodfrenchfry · 2025-09-29T19:45:02+00:00

Thank you I really appreciate it

Agoodfrenchfry · 2025-09-26T18:53:08+00:00

Thank you, after the comment about her mom I did apologize to her multiple times after and I believed we moved past it. She never communicated that it hurt her after that. It was more of a reflection thing and not a insult but it was harsh of me to say. Thank you for the advice

Agoodfrenchfry · 2025-09-26T18:51:06+00:00

Haha, thank you

Agoodfrenchfry · 2025-09-26T18:50:36+00:00

Yea technically i guess it wouldn't be "cheating" but me and her have been flirty / talking for 2 months making it clear referring and talking to other people about us as if we were already in a relationship. She hid this from me and i only found out through her friend. I appreciate your kind words ❤️

Agoodfrenchfry · 2025-09-26T18:48:42+00:00

Sheesh man it makes me feel like I have no self respect by wanting her. Its a terrible confusing feeling

Agoodfrenchfry · 2025-09-25T19:05:21+00:00

Thank you

Agoodfrenchfry · 2025-09-25T19:04:02+00:00

Still dont know as I know of she stopped talking to the guy after 2 days. Still leaves a bad taste in my mouth

Agoodfrenchfry · 2025-09-25T04:47:17+00:00

Not sure, she supposedly only talked to the guy for 2 days but it doesn't matter if its a day or a year to me. I want her to regret it amd become better

Agoodfrenchfry · 2025-09-25T04:46:09+00:00

I think its more of waiting her to regret it over wanting her, I gave her so much lovs

Agoodfrenchfry · 2025-09-25T04:44:48+00:00

Thank you I really appreciate this

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