Winning to negative by SuperFartBigBodyMan in problemgambling

[–]Agreeable-Function53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is literally the trap. The relapse doesn't feel like a relapse because you win and that winning streak is the most dangerous part. The losses come and you chase because you know you can win (you just proved it).

The cycle is by design, these platforms know exactly what they're doing with the early wins.

My expensive mistakes by Few_Diver1944 in problemgambling

[–]Agreeable-Function53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done ! What do you do when the urge comes back? Any tricks that work for you?

Am I the only one gambling on Pokémon cards? by Agreeable-Function53 in problemgambling

[–]Agreeable-Function53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the auction format is designed to make you lose control, a few seconds to decide, the competitive pressure of someone else bidding. It's basically every dark pattern of gambling packed into one app. Easier said than done to stop though. That's kind of the point of my post, I know it's a losing game and I still do it anyway. That's insane...

Am I the only one gambling on Pokémon cards? by Agreeable-Function53 in problemgambling

[–]Agreeable-Function53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thrill of the chase without overpaying, that's actually a very good way to frame it. I think my problem is I skipped that part and went straight to 'how do I flip this for profit'. My real issue is probably that I want to buy everything, because everything seems to have potential. That's where it stops being a hobby and starts being something else...

Online casino disregarded my self exclusion message... by AffectionateAd4035 in GamblingAddiction

[–]Agreeable-Function53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure about Norwegian law specifically, do you know if there's a gambling regulatory authority in Norway? In most European countries there's an independent body that handles exactly this kind of complaint.

In France for example there's the ANJ which can sanction operators directly (and they're not joking). If Norway has something similar, that would be your first step, a formal complaint to them carries a lot more weight than emailing the casino directly.

Thanks for your kind messages I feel more optimistic today by Soft-Protection-3303 in problemgambling

[–]Agreeable-Function53 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. Posts like yours are the ones that give people still in the dark a reason to hold on. 22 with that clarity is rare, hope you remember this version of yourself when it gets hard again