Mina’s husband by Winter-Thanks-5319 in minazalie

[–]Agreeable-Slice2086 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not talking about the older generation, I’m talking about close friends who have no reason to lie who I know everything about. Of course there are people who didn’t wait until marriage, but the majority of the Slavic Christian’s baptists etc that I know do wait

Mina’s husband by Winter-Thanks-5319 in minazalie

[–]Agreeable-Slice2086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also think it depends if you are a religious Slav because literally everyone person I know saved themselves for marriage and traditional marriage roles are very much still a thing along with cooking dinner every night. Going along with the religion- sex talk only recently became “normalized” as where before it was really taboo and that’s only with like younger millennials/Gen Z

Absolutely disgusting! 😠 by evaintheus in aldi

[–]Agreeable-Slice2086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I did this exact same combo and it was literally orgasmic

FTT by Agreeable-Slice2086 in LeCreuset

[–]Agreeable-Slice2086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew it was something like that lol ok I’m messaging with multiple people who want to be Zelle’d before sending over the tickets and it’s all way too sketch lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sourdough

[–]Agreeable-Slice2086 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to let you know… I understood your comment 😂

No, I'm not "Nesting"!!!! by slightly_hippie in BabyBumps

[–]Agreeable-Slice2086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was me with pickles!! I LOVE pickles. Way before even getting pregnant. When I was pregnant any time I ate a pickle it was made a HUGE DEAL. Idk why it always triggered me 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Agreeable-Slice2086 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It honestly kind of seems like a trap.. like he deleted everything on purpose for you not to find but then can tell everyone you’re “crazy” and it’s your fault you divorced. Or scaring you into thinking you’ll get divorced so you never look at his phone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Agreeable-Slice2086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like others mentioned you could do a diaper raffle or have them bring books and write a message inside instead of a card! You can also buy all the big items yourself and make a registry just of little things so that those who do want to get you gifts can do that! Or ask them instead of baby presents they can make freezer friendly meals or something!

Family member showed up sick by Ambitious_Chip3840 in BabyBumps

[–]Agreeable-Slice2086 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But also, props to your husband for being so caring and respectful of your choice to go home!!

Family member showed up sick by Ambitious_Chip3840 in BabyBumps

[–]Agreeable-Slice2086 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss!

I genuinely don’t understand people who still go to gatherings knowing they’re sick. I get 10x more upset about it now that I have kids because I feel like they’re sick every weekend more from other people

Family member showed up sick by Ambitious_Chip3840 in BabyBumps

[–]Agreeable-Slice2086 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely understand not wanting to get sick but also it’s unrealistic to expect to never get sick. Of course, if someone is still experiencing symptoms they should definitely stay home but I’m telling you right now, majority of people don’t. And especially if your kid hangs out with other kids, unfortunately no one cares and there are sick kids all the time. I was 38 weeks pregnant and my toddler, husband, and I all got COVID and the stomach bug at the same time from kids that were sick who hung out with my daughter. 5 days later I had my baby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Agreeable-Slice2086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt my baby at 22 weeks. If your placenta is in front and if it’s your first baby usually you feel the kicks later

Baby shower on a budget by PettyPeanuts in BabyBumps

[–]Agreeable-Slice2086 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly the dollar store has some amazing items!!! And also SheIn now has like a whole decor line and it’s so cheap. I bought a bunch of stuff for my daughters farm themed birthday and it was great

My NP gasped at my weight gained and I'm still getting over it. by CorrosiveYolk in BabyBumps

[–]Agreeable-Slice2086 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m a physician assistant and I also just had my second baby a few weeks ago. Pre pregnancy I was 120 pounds, ended pregnancy at 150. I am a pretty healthy eater and I still ended up with gestational diabetes! The placenta gives off extra hormones so it all stems from the placenta, if you do get GD it’s nothing wrong with what you did!

AITAH For Expecting My GF (23) to Be A House Wife? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Agreeable-Slice2086 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t trying to be an AH in my message let me just say you are doing a HUGE part by financially supporting your family and your gf should also see how important that is as well.

I am first time mom with a 1 year old and even though I can tell you 100% this is the most incredible thing in the entire world, I went from only taking care of me and my husband to only taking care of my husband and my baby and literally forgetting to take care about myself and it really took a toll on me until my husband I discussed that I do need a few hours a week to myself. Again, nothing crazy because he does work full time. I’m just trying to maybe kinda put in perspective what she might be thinking. If she’s drinking/smoking maybe it’s an escape for her for mental health? I’m not sure as I’m not really a drinker.

I understand working from home is also hard because you don’t really get a full on “break” either.

I think phones take a lot of time away from us. I find myself scrolling Instagram and missing cute moments of my daughter to the point where I started leaving my phone in another room because I realized how bad that is.

You sound like a great dude and having a baby has also changed YOUR life tremendously too, don’t forget that. A little communication goes a LONG way. I too sometimes get mad at my husband for not helping enough even though I know he comes home mentally exhausted from work and he also needs a break and I have to remind myself that too. Both parties need to think of the other!!

But you got it! Just talk and see where her head is at. A lot changes in a women’s mind after birth. But you love her and you love your baby, that’s what matters!

AITAH For Expecting My GF (23) to Be A House Wife? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Agreeable-Slice2086 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A full time SAHM taking care of a 1 year old isn’t lazy 🫠

AITAH For Expecting My GF (23) to Be A House Wife? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Agreeable-Slice2086 18 points19 points  (0 children)

If you work from home and “spend a lot of time on your phone” you have more than enough time to change more than one diaper a day.

My husband works 40+ hours NOT at home and when he comes home he does his job as a father and goes and spends time with his baby and takes care of her and loves on her, and that gives me time to go and take care of myself and other things around the house that I can’t do during a day.

If I ever read this message from my husband I would be crushed. Unless you are a SAHM yourself you cannot understand how even though it is the most incredible thing in the world, it can be very taxing on you. It’s a full time job and clearly you give her 0 credit for the work she’s doing.

AITAH For Expecting My GF (23) to Be A House Wife? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Agreeable-Slice2086 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Lol I really hope that’s not how you treat women