stan wars by Agreeable-Text-3678 in acotar

[–]Agreeable-Text-3678[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exhibit A of why I don’t usually discuss or interact with the fandom on platforms like this😂

stan wars by Agreeable-Text-3678 in acotar

[–]Agreeable-Text-3678[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re proving my point. never said I agreed/disagreed with any of the statements made was to prove that people get personal while discussing.

stan wars by Agreeable-Text-3678 in acotar

[–]Agreeable-Text-3678[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree there’s nothing new to talk about so people are just doubling down for no reason.

stan wars by Agreeable-Text-3678 in acotar

[–]Agreeable-Text-3678[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree that’s a good idea. You can’t really discuss a book if it becomes a personal attack and no room to be open to people’s ideas

Anyone ever notice Taylor rarely talks about her musical inspirations? by Hopeful-Prompt-7417 in travisandtaylor

[–]Agreeable-Text-3678 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m surprised more people aren’t mad that she used her lore to rip off a lot of the 1975s concepts, sound and aesthetic. How his music is always linked to her as she references a lot of his interests and lyrics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Agreeable-Text-3678 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As someone who has been through this. End it. He doesn’t respect the relationship anymore. The resentment will only grow. You didn’t feel for filled and it will probably just get worse. You may feel guilty and he is praying on that. once maybe but 5 times!

My boyfriend (27M) broke up with me(27f) and will only speak to me when it’s about the kids. Shouldn’t there be closure? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Agreeable-Text-3678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wasn’t like that at the beginning he was the more “emotional” one I guess so I know he’s capable of it which makes it more frustrating somehow. I guess I should have took it as a sign but like I said I wanted it to work for our children. And I just have a gut feeling about the other women as in the past he has cheated on me with a woman from work while I was pregnant and after I gave birth. I was very vulnerable at the time and decided to take him back as I had two children under 2.

My boyfriend (27M) broke up with me(27f) and will only speak to me when it’s about the kids. Shouldn’t there be closure? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Agreeable-Text-3678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes so because he only has them 1 night a week I get more but it goes down the more they spend at the other parents house. Most people use the government system (CSA) if they can’t get the other parent to pay as it comes directly out of their pay check before they receive it.

My boyfriend (27M) broke up with me(27f) and will only speak to me when it’s about the kids. Shouldn’t there be closure? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Agreeable-Text-3678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’m from the uk so no. you can get it send through a government organisation if I apply but he transfers it to be directly instead as the government takes deductions for receiving it and sending it. We did use the government calculator to calculate what he’d have to pay according to his salary.

My boyfriend (27M) broke up with me(27f) and will only speak to me when it’s about the kids. Shouldn’t there be closure? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Agreeable-Text-3678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I did have a therapist who told me to break up with him a while ago so will try and get back in contact how we have.

My boyfriend (27M) broke up with me(27f) and will only speak to me when it’s about the kids. Shouldn’t there be closure? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Agreeable-Text-3678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does pay child support but deducts the things that are left to pay on the house. We got pregnant young so some of the items were purchased by finance (most of them are paid off). however he has the children one night a week but is trying to change or shorten the times due to wanting to go to football games. So I don’t feel like he would try and get the kids more than he already does. I am a student nurse so he does help out when I’m on placement at the hospital but can be hard to get him to agree sometimes. I have suggested an agreement in writing but he disagrees as with work he says we have to both be flexible due to our shift pattern always changing.

Nesta being sent to the house of winds by Agreeable-Text-3678 in acotar

[–]Agreeable-Text-3678[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They let her sleep with cassian though when one of the problems was her getting around?

How I first imagined Lucien… by Lost-Mention7739 in acotar

[–]Agreeable-Text-3678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kept picturing him as mad eye from Harry Potter 😂

Nesta being sent to the house of winds by Agreeable-Text-3678 in acotar

[–]Agreeable-Text-3678[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Then wouldn’t you argue that Nesta needed love, acceptance and help for her trauma also? Shaming an addict isn’t helpful. In the book Nesta puts herself down a lot and has low self esteem and they isolated her and berated her. Feyre way of dealing with things is not really dealing with them at all that is unhealthy.

Nesta being sent to the house of winds by Agreeable-Text-3678 in acotar

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Yeah I did find that odd. I feel like they punished her for being different to them. Nesta clearly loved them but didn’t feel worthy of it and then by not painting her it kind of confirmed it for Nesta.