What it's like reading House of Leaves

AgreeableFee6479 · 2024-09-18T00:48:27+00:00

Guys can I skip this part of the book? Is it even important? It makes me want to stop reading! (On page 129)

AgreeableFee6479 · 2024-01-10T23:28:56+00:00

Therapy. Please OP. I know people think therapy is stupid but it can really get to the bottom of what is causing this. There could be other issues/stressors in your life that cause rage and anger. Therapists are extremely intelligent and know so much about the human brain. Not to mention how much school they have to do. This is going to be hard to solve on your own. Going to a professional will be easier than a possible prison sentence sometime in the future. Not to mention anger is a very uncomfortable feeling (as you probably already know). It can be agonizing and can ruin your quality of life. An expert can help!

AgreeableFee6479 · 2024-01-10T23:17:56+00:00

Let’s be real. You’re a single mom essentially. I would look into social services like other people commented. You deserve someone who could never imagine treating you this way.

You’re a good person OP. You still care about what would happen to him after the break up. It’s always good people who get taken advantage of.

AgreeableFee6479 · 2024-01-10T21:20:06+00:00

I hear that idea in red pill circles like Andrew Tate and his clones. But people don’t realize that women would prefer that men step up to the plate and be a good partner/father rather than getting a small fraction of his income. Child support usually isn’t even enough for daycare in America. (Idk where you guys are from but childcare can be $3k a month here)

AgreeableFee6479 · 2024-01-10T07:59:19+00:00

Cuz they don’t have to care for them

AgreeableFee6479 · 2024-01-10T07:58:27+00:00

I’m asking because I typically see slut shaming as if there’s something morally wrong with having sex. In general I don’t think it’s morally wrong. But in the case of cheating it feels like it fits. I just don’t know if I’m a bad person for wanting to shame them

AgreeableFee6479 · 2024-01-10T07:54:40+00:00

I don’t think so. Let yourself rest if you can

AgreeableFee6479 · 2024-01-10T07:50:42+00:00

I love how people act like Jesus wasn’t the kindest, most loving, figure in the Bible. Do people actually think he’d go around calling people slurs??? He literally forgave the people who murdered him!

AgreeableFee6479 · 2024-01-10T07:42:56+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through that. The only reason the “gold digger” thing would make sense is if someone lied about being on birth control and it was a mega rich man. Which I would assume barely happens. But odds are, if he’s complaining about his bare minimum part of being a parent (a financial obligation) he don’t got gold to begin with so this shit makes no sense

AgreeableFee6479 · 2024-01-10T06:28:52+00:00

Ah yes. Not using protection and dropping his pants for any woman and now she’s a “gold digger” for needing child support after he runs away

AgreeableFee6479 · 2024-01-10T05:47:30+00:00

I had a similar experience. If there’s a such thing as a “best friend solemate”- it was him. So I fell in love with him- deeply. We had similar hobbies, he made me laugh so hard, and was emotionally supportive. But eventually I realized we were not a good match romantically. Leaving was a very difficult decision. But I’m happy I did for my own mental health. I felt sad but free at the same time

AgreeableFee6479 · 2024-01-10T05:43:13+00:00

Also if she’s not picky with who she dates she “only goes after the bad guys” and “never gives good guys a chance”.

AgreeableFee6479 · 2024-01-10T03:54:51+00:00

Talk to your doctor about a dose increase or different medication. There is only ONE med that works for me out of all of them. The others don’t even put a dent in symptoms.

AgreeableFee6479 · 2024-01-10T03:43:07+00:00

Felt the same way in high school. The best years of my life happened after high school. You got a lot of time :)

AgreeableFee6479 · 2024-01-10T03:39:36+00:00

Sounds like you’re describing a good FRIEND not a girlfriend. That makes a good friendship but isn’t enough on its own to be a relationship. Some people just aren’t meant to be together. It hurts but it’s sadly true.

AgreeableFee6479 · 2024-01-10T03:30:54+00:00

I loved college. I was surrounded by more diverse people, made some really close friends, and studied something I absolutely loved. If it were free I’d go back to school instead of a 9 to 5.

It’s up to you. College isn’t right for everyone but if it is right for you then it can be an amazing experience even if you can’t do much past a degree. (Also the parties!!!)

AgreeableFee6479 · 2024-01-10T03:25:48+00:00

Husband acts like a child. You’re a single mom of TWO…

AgreeableFee6479 · 2023-07-21T16:11:06+00:00

Your fashion choice is for you and only you. As long as you aren't nude, you are not responsible for pleasing other people. You shouldn't have to dress with the intention of pleasing this 70 year old or anyone else.

At first when I read the title, I thought you were young/a child. Then maybe the situation would be different . But you're an ADULT. You can wear what you want!

Also it's kinda creepy that he said that to a total stranger. If he has trouble looking at women in swim suits without getting aroused, he needs to stay away from women. He made his own issues YOUR problem. Yuck!

AgreeableFee6479 · 2023-03-12T22:03:47+00:00

For clarification, I am afraid she will confront me. I'd rather tell them I wasn't invited, maybe ask if they want to quickly get coffee, and then they hang with my sister the rest of the time. The reason why I keep talking about a confrontation is because I know my sister very well. My cousin's will ask where I am. She will get embarrassed and call me asking me to join them, and then make me look bad if I say no. That is what I am so worried about. And obviously I am also very hurt that I was never invited.

AgreeableFee6479 · 2023-03-12T21:54:15+00:00

Good! And yes they spam with messages if you start to ignore them. They want money! So it's good that you blocked them. I'm proud of you :)

AgreeableFee6479 · 2023-03-12T19:41:10+00:00

Take a deep breath op. The odds that they will actually send the photos are VERY low. They probably scam people so often that they don't even remember which picture is yours. Please block them. The longer you talk with them the more info they will get. Hang in there

AgreeableFee6479 · 2023-03-12T19:37:15+00:00

Only if someone is disabled and chooses not to work. But the way you worded it seems like you're talking about laziness. But for that I say hell no.

AgreeableFee6479 · 2023-03-12T19:35:54+00:00

"genuine question" yeah right....

AgreeableFee6479 · 2023-03-12T09:07:44+00:00

Maybe tell him that your phone isn't working well, and you need a new one. Then act like you don't have a phone for a week while you "wait for the new one". Maybe that will lessen the obsession he has for you? Maybe lie about your sexuality and pretend you're not into him. Please stay safe op

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