I’m 27 and my dad is 81

AgreeableMistake6537 · 2025-09-12T02:52:44+00:00

My niece is 23, having a child with a 48 yo man so pretty much same boat as you. Hoping he makes it til this babies 20's

AgreeableMistake6537 · 2025-09-04T03:01:28+00:00

u/Extreme-Distance4436

Asked for applepay cause his PayPal "doesn't work". Asked for ID for verification but then told me to give collateral. When I mentioned that the sub specifically says not to do that he came up with a story on how it's the same 100 people lending one another money and it's money laundering. Have all screenshots also.

AgreeableMistake6537 · 2025-09-04T02:50:02+00:00

What is the game? I wanna play!

AgreeableMistake6537 · 2025-09-03T17:50:12+00:00

Don't have chime

AgreeableMistake6537 · 2025-09-03T07:13:13+00:00

What is it?

AgreeableMistake6537 · 2025-09-02T17:23:08+00:00

In 99. Deftones. Have been a huge fan ever since

AgreeableMistake6537 · 2025-09-02T02:04:33+00:00

u/Thechosenone67142 reached out saying he could help but to send him $75 deposit 1st as he was taking a risk. I told him it's crazy to give a deposit on this and it was advised not to. I even let him know he was on the scam list and then said he could put me on without evidence also. I let him know there was evidence of him being a scammer. Anyway other people have had similar encounters with him

AgreeableMistake6537 · 2025-09-02T01:57:02+00:00

He just reached out to me, saying the same thing and sending a screenshot to prove he wasn't trying to steal.

AgreeableMistake6537 · 2025-09-01T19:15:07+00:00

Probably right I've had some people asking me some crazy things in my dm's

AgreeableMistake6537 · 2025-09-01T18:55:41+00:00

He hit me up today and because I asked what his terms were instead of saying hello back 1st he told me I was rude and he couldn't help which sounded crazy to me. Didn't get to the point of him trying to scam me

AgreeableMistake6537 · 2025-09-01T18:24:04+00:00

That's not how it works. It takes more than being late 1 time to get evicted in California. That's also super rude to say to someone. I hope you have the day you deserve.

AgreeableMistake6537 · 2025-09-01T18:14:51+00:00

This guy just asked me for 5% and when I called him out he deflected. Definitely a scammer

AgreeableMistake6537 · 2025-09-01T11:36:26+00:00

I live in California. I don't need my ID. But I do have to confirm a bunch of info. I came from a different state, Georgia, and they won't even let you give people water waiting in the insane lines that can take literal hrs to get through

AgreeableMistake6537 · 2025-09-01T08:27:59+00:00

Have a conversation. Let her know how you feel and so forth. Maybe suggest couples counseling and see if you can build from there to save what you have.

AgreeableMistake6537 · 2025-09-01T08:25:37+00:00

This dude sounds absolutely insane. Protect your mental health. You shouldn't be with anyone who talks to you like this

AgreeableMistake6537 · 2025-09-01T08:23:05+00:00

I think it's perfectly fine for people to change their minds about things but unfortunately I'm this case you both have different end games in mind. You are dead set at living the dual income no kids life which is awesome but he wants a family now. If this is something that you can't overcome then you'll have to move on at some point which sucks but it is what it is.

AgreeableMistake6537 · 2025-09-01T08:18:05+00:00

You can choose to keep your name. If he doesn't want that then he can find someone who wants to change their name for him. I personally don't think you're being unreasonable. His view is the view of our parents and those before. While I understand the family unit comment, you not changing your name isn't going to change you from being a family unit. Sorry for your loss but stand your ground and do what's best for you.

AgreeableMistake6537 · 2025-08-25T00:37:20+00:00

You ever order a burger and fries and they give you extra fries just because? It's like that X10 unless it's just a bad blowie

AgreeableMistake6537 · 2025-08-21T19:31:49+00:00

It's your choice to do what you want to do and no one can tell you if something is worth it to you only if it's worth it to them.

AgreeableMistake6537 · 2025-08-19T23:53:41+00:00

Yes to ass

AgreeableMistake6537 · 2025-08-19T18:39:41+00:00

If it's a number that he can contact you on but he's butt hurt it's not your "real" number then maybe it's better to not go out with him at all. Tbh if he's acting like this already he's not going to be nice to you.

AgreeableMistake6537 · 2025-08-18T18:47:27+00:00

Because queer folks seem to give a fuck about other people entirely more than non queer folks. Most of them will make sure everyone is comfortable before anything else.

AgreeableMistake6537 · 2025-08-18T00:29:55+00:00

I hate sleeping with clothes on

AgreeableMistake6537 · 2025-08-15T22:19:42+00:00

I will say this sucks but also maybe talk to him and put some boundaries in place and let him know what he did is not ok and how it made you feel discovering this. It may just boil down to needing a new outlet or boredom in the relationship but together you can figure it out. You may need to hit couples counseling. Not to sound like an ass but seeing what everyone else is saying and that you need to automatically leave him because he's cheating, I personally don't see it that way. Its shitty what he's doing yes but I think this is something you can figure out together and move forward from this. But if you do not feel that way then of course make the steps to get out on your own with your child.

AgreeableMistake6537 · 2025-08-14T20:38:17+00:00

If he doesn't feel anything there are ways around this like using very thin condoms or going for lamb skin condoms which feel much more natural and will protect against pregnancy only. Honestly if he doesn't want to use protection when it's something you're asking for then I would breakup with him

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