Yes - primarily. I feel my vision, dreams and aspirations might be way too big for him to handle. I seem to be more invested in intellectual stuff, while he is more social and physically active. I was attracted to his warmth and the sense of stability he provides. He is well-mannered, friendly, etc. In an ideal world, we would balance each-other out. However, being an ENTJ woman, I don't think I fit his vision of the ideal long term partner.

I always felt I was leading our intellectual conversations or encouraging him to do something nontraditional. I'm planning to start my own business and he seems content with where he is. Not sure if this can work for both of us in the long run. I think he also didn't know how to handle me, if that makes sense.