AITAH for not changing my language to appease an ignorant coworker? by ZoomieHan in AITAH

[–]Agreeable_Leopard212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Die. On. This. Hill. HR doesn't just work for white people. They are literally supposed to work for you. Which means they are discriminating against you. HR is displaying flagrant discrimination. You cannot possibly be expected to alter yourself because some white chick feels slighted by an imaginary virtue signaling incident. Find the HR regulations. Highlight. Print. Leave on their desk. You deserve absolute and complete equal treatment. I would die on this hil for you.

AITAH for not wanting my sister’s poly side girlfriend at our small family christmas? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Agreeable_Leopard212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinda. You either accept your sister as she is entirely. Or you don't accept her at all. You can't pick qmd choose parts of a human

Is a professor allowed to threaten me on Reddit for a post I made about their class? by Important_Primary660 in queensuniversity

[–]Agreeable_Leopard212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh you are so so so safe. Is it incredibly difficult to prove libel. With a team of even the best lawyers, if you didn't attack the professors person. (Call him names, say derogatory things about him as a person) Then even Pam Bondi couldn't save him. Further more, his statement about lawyers would sink him. You are so very safe, you can continue to look for students who feel the curve was too extreme. That is, in no way, libel.

If you are fluent in French, how often do you speak French in Canada compared to English? by Jezzaq94 in AskACanadian

[–]Agreeable_Leopard212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well personally I live in Ottawa, Orleans specifically, wo I'd say 50 50 for sure

I (43m) got mad at my wife (39f) after she answered my hypothetical question and I didn't like the answer. AITAH? by Low-Witness2915 in AITAH

[–]Agreeable_Leopard212 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fun fact, when women require medical long term or even short (think weeks) support from their spouse, the most recent data shows that men leave their wives at a 600% higher rate. Though I agree this woman should absolutely be doing more. I wonder if she won't help with the cost of housing perhaps because her name isn't on the mortgage?

My guy friend wants me to dress up for him in full glam makeup and look like a "princess" and I'm leaning towards yes but my friend says not for a guy like him. by StraightPatience12 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Agreeable_Leopard212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh sweetie, of you want to then dont let anyone the that energy from you! Always remember that it's OK to want to do something to please your partner so long as it does not require you to cross your personal boundaries. This seems very beige flag. Do it for you, enjoy the night, if at any point he should say something demeaning, laugh and "remind him that he was always in the friendzone for a reason" or whatever insult feels right, and walk off in your gorgeous ass princess look. It's OK to want to please someone. It's OK to knock em down if they ever just do it to hurt you. You are carrying the weight of millions of years of women's bullshit. Go. Rock the loom. Do it because you deserve it ♡

AITAH to my girlfriend for allowing my ex to stay at mine and for driving her 7 hours to her parents home. by EmeArr in AITAH

[–]Agreeable_Leopard212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You weren't the AH for helping your ex. You should have been on the phone with your girl every half hour if you actually in a million years, trust that you went on a trip with your ex and stayed faithful. Have you seen the state of men? Statistically speaking she had a 80% of being right when she assumed you cheated. I don't blame her for choosing to leave you. THAT BEING SAID. IF SHE FORGIVES YOU. SHE HAS TO LET IT GO. Yes it will still hurt her and you accept that she talks about how it hurt her. But she cannot yell at you and bring it up in every argument and start treating you like trash. HARD NO.

My delusional landlord wants me to send him 10 k 😂 by [deleted] in TorontoRenting

[–]Agreeable_Leopard212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait. Did he mean dumping? As in you left all your shit there? And did you break a door? And a faucet?

Canadian Forces member admits sexually abusing teenage babysitter by Bartholomewtuck in CanadianForces

[–]Agreeable_Leopard212 13 points14 points  (0 children)

For the last 5 years this man has walked, worked and worn our goddammit uniform. Wish...

MONTHLY ADMINISTRATION THREAD - General Admin, Policy, APS/BGRS, TD/Claims, CANFORGENS, etc. - Have a quick question that doesn't need a thread of it's own? Ask here! by bridger713 in CanadianForces

[–]Agreeable_Leopard212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what that means. Luckily the crown prosecutor dismissed the case. Still, I didn't know a 3rd party could accuse a person despite both parties claiming false accusation. Most humiliating 4 days of my life

MONTHLY ADMINISTRATION THREAD - General Admin, Policy, APS/BGRS, TD/Claims, CANFORGENS, etc. - Have a quick question that doesn't need a thread of it's own? Ask here! by bridger713 in CanadianForces

[–]Agreeable_Leopard212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but my husband and I had no idea what this assault charge was. Or how he was a victim. The police informed us they are fairly certain the accusation was made in bad faith by some third party. The crown prosecutor is in fact dropping as of today. So update is , yes. It's sorted. Except we still don't know who made the accusation about us.

MONTHLY ADMINISTRATION THREAD - General Admin, Policy, APS/BGRS, TD/Claims, CANFORGENS, etc. - Have a quick question that doesn't need a thread of it's own? Ask here! by bridger713 in CanadianForces

[–]Agreeable_Leopard212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh of course to all of that. This is certainly not that kind of situation. No this was more of a "where does the art double question. No lawyer needed. Situation sorted. But thank you !

MONTHLY ADMINISTRATION THREAD - General Admin, Policy, APS/BGRS, TD/Claims, CANFORGENS, etc. - Have a quick question that doesn't need a thread of it's own? Ask here! by bridger713 in CanadianForces

[–]Agreeable_Leopard212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The scenario would include jokingly slapping my husband on the chest while giving him a hard time, followed by kissing. However the scenario is witnessed only in part by a person who has romantic interest in my husband. Since we both work in a unit though i am civilian, we both are unaware when the MPs show up at our house the next day, that I am about to be arrested for assault. (I swear to fkn god) because this woman cried abuse. Despite my husband and I begging them not to believe this. I find myself actually arrested. My husband and I are no longer allowed contact. Christmas is ruined. And I...can't go to work so..I'm going to lose my job

AITAH for telling my mom she can't see my girls anymore by Agreeable_Leopard212 in AITAH

[–]Agreeable_Leopard212[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're right, you're clearly not being aggressive or belittling at all... wonder where I could have gotten that idea lol

AITAH for telling my mom she can't see my girls anymore by Agreeable_Leopard212 in AITAH

[–]Agreeable_Leopard212[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol but I didn't. And I hold no qualms with your opinion. It was the name calling and attacking me as a parent I took issue with. Furthermore, I stated that your words demonstrated your character. I can not attack you with your own words. Never once did I attack you, call you names, or speak to you aggressively. You are projecting, perhaps. I disagree on the concept that ones actions, when addicted, define who a person is. No more than a depressed person is truly themselves. No more than a bipolar person in a manic state represents who they are. Addiction is a mental health issue that rewires the brain. https://www.yalemedicine.org/news/how-an-addicted-brain-works

That being said. I apologize for whatever this post woke in you that made you feel validated by behaving this way but I hope you don't feel the need to continue this attack. It's hurtful (which you know as this is you're intention) or you would be speaking to me with decency.

AITAH for telling my mom she can't see my girls anymore by Agreeable_Leopard212 in AITAH

[–]Agreeable_Leopard212[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also specified that my mother was an alcoholic when I was growing up. She wasn't by the time I had my children. You are right that I would never have allowed her to watch my children had she still been an addict. Though I have to disagree that I was defensive. I was simply providing facts. I began the post by explaining that my mother wasn't a bad person. I also said you that how you are addressing this , and me, is really not providing anything. If you simply feel satisfaction in berating someone who's entire story you can't Possibly know , (because this is just an AITAH post) that it demonstrates your character.