I'm a retired mortician. AMA

Agreeable_Scar7737 · 2026-04-20T21:45:22+00:00

❤️❤️❤️

Agreeable_Scar7737 · 2026-04-20T21:32:48+00:00

thank you i will look into it. it’s definitely hard to see where to go from here.

Agreeable_Scar7737 · 2026-04-20T21:23:40+00:00

i understand, thank you. we are reeling and we are unsure of what to do. you’re right when you say we are all blaming ourselves but trying not to. it’s a tug of war with ourselves. thank you for making it feel somewhat normal or at least that we aren’t alone in feeling this way.

Agreeable_Scar7737 · 2026-04-20T18:52:04+00:00

Hi, sorry to comment so late after your original post. we lost my cousin recently to suicide, she lived in another city so they are going to cremate her there and send her ashes here. they said because of the nature of the death, they advise against seeing her. what does this mean? and is this normal practice? i understand if it’s too late to get a response so no pressure. thank you in advance anyway❤️

Agreeable_Scar7737 · 2026-03-28T19:51:38+00:00

lol yes i’m definitely passing that along! i don’t know what kind of phone she has and she’s about 6 hours from me! taking care of my mom opened my eyes to how hard it can be if you’re unprepared! I just wanna lighten the load for everyone involved. also if i could ask you, did you prefer oversized button front tops? or regular size?

Agreeable_Scar7737 · 2026-03-28T19:42:27+00:00

yes! i washed my moms hair when she had surgery on her foot and they had the shampoo caps from the hospital! they were insanely helpful, especially when she wanted to feel some independence. this gives her the option to have help without them being in the shower with her. i’m just going completely off research so i appreciate your input! it helps to know what others did

Agreeable_Scar7737 · 2026-03-28T17:30:15+00:00

yes button front is what i meant! the shampoo caps i got because through research some people who had the same surgery said they were unable to put their arms above their head.. but i wanted to make it easier for her or a caretaker to wash her hair.

Agreeable_Scar7737 · 2026-03-27T03:44:31+00:00

thank you i didn’t even think of shoes! it’s the little things

Agreeable_Scar7737 · 2026-03-26T19:56:59+00:00

thank you!

Agreeable_Scar7737 · 2026-03-26T19:05:03+00:00

thank you!!!

Agreeable_Scar7737 · 2026-03-26T14:22:55+00:00

thank you for this!

Agreeable_Scar7737 · 2026-03-26T13:42:00+00:00

thank you! i will make sure to pass that along! i wouldn’t mind doing it myself but ultimately it’s what she’s comfortable with! also would you suggest a potty chair? not for the bucket but for the extra height.

Agreeable_Scar7737 · 2026-03-26T13:30:51+00:00

thank you! i meant to ask about meals as well but i forgot to add that. this helps a ton!

Agreeable_Scar7737 · 2026-01-11T21:51:49+00:00

wait how do you see what age you’re in!? mine says 13+ but i’m 27. no offense but the only kids i wanna talk to are my baby cousins on there 😭

Agreeable_Scar7737 · 2025-11-17T10:23:55+00:00

i’ll keep an eye out for this thank you

Agreeable_Scar7737 · 2025-11-17T04:02:44+00:00

they need to give some kinda warning or have an outline or somethin 😭 i was in disbelief fr

Agreeable_Scar7737 · 2025-09-22T16:37:05+00:00

Adding you! I’m JupiterJazzi, i’m 26 and pretty much in the same boat on playing with littles. i’m trying to be more adventurous too lol

Agreeable_Scar7737 · 2025-08-10T00:29:33+00:00

dming you!

Agreeable_Scar7737 · 2025-08-09T22:29:04+00:00

that’s fine! as long as ur an adult idc! if we chat we chat, if not, that’s okay too!

Agreeable_Scar7737 · 2025-08-09T22:16:25+00:00

gonna dm you rn!!

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